The Official "Permanent" Caged/Denial Matrix post.

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    cshorts Locked in love for SL

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    #26 cshorts, Dec 20, 2020
    Definitely C9. D.... ruins forbidden (never been milked). She grants me an O once every 2-4 months. So, is that 7?
     
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    #27 LockedPom, Dec 20, 2020
    1/6
     
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    #28 Tom Allen, Dec 20, 2020
    Dude, you can't just drop that bomb and not tell us about it. :eek:
     
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    #29 TheRealAdam, Dec 20, 2020
    3,7.

    We have major problems with one of my kids (Autism combined with severe OCD) who is about to be admitted to a mental hospital. As long as he is at home (I have a 50/50 with his mother, my ex) serious play is almost impossible. So we take it as it goes.

    The fun part is, I have some therapy to cope with a lot of shit from the past. And my therapist is extremely kink friendly. So I can talk openly about it and match kinklevel with shit that happens in real life.
     
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    #30 madams-sissysub, Dec 20, 2020
    really sorry to hear that, I hope they get the help they need, I have a couple of friends who also have have children with autism, so I know it is really hard going, and glad you can get the help you need to.
     
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    #31 Burn_e, Dec 21, 2020
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    #32 elias, Dec 21, 2020
    Caged 7 and denied 6 for me.

    I am wearing my cage more often than not, so that implies a 7 on the scale. Although, after my last allowed release my cage is on 24/7 now, so I think soon I will only be unlocked for certain occasions.

    Regarding being denied, I am absolutely not allowed to decide about an orgasm myself anymore. So far in 2020 I had 19 FO's of which 3 were absolutely unauthorised. Taken my Love's current approach, I guess (and hope) 2021 will be a more stringent year with far less FO's.

    Furthermore, I think it is a good suggestion to include your C/D rate at your profile.
     
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    #33 sesla4ra, Dec 21, 2020
    (8,9)
     
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    #34 Dave Leonard, Dec 22, 2020
    I’m a 8/7 cage stays on 24/7 and she has found giving me orgasm while locked to be her new thing. She even commented this week that the cage may not be unlocked at all in 2021
    Been wearing chastity 24/7 for 6 years now
     
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    Ms Angela’s Sub Red Chilli Sissy Cage

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    #35 Ms Angela’s Sub, Dec 22, 2020
    We are are realistically at 6/4 which is a happy place for my wife and KH.
     
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    #36 Parley, Dec 22, 2020
    6.5 / 6
     
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    #37 Parley, Dec 22, 2020
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    About the same with us
     
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    #38 Jules_Essex, Dec 22, 2020
    We are a 6,6, but are moving up the scale slowly, as i am wearing the cage more and more , and my wife and KH is getting more serious with witholding orgasms
     
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    #39 taped2, Dec 22, 2020
    Caged 6, denied 3.
    (Sigh.)
    I'm feeling the need for a firmer controlling hand these days.
    But I do enjoy my orgasms.
     
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    #40 elias, Dec 23, 2020
    And here it includes now all CM members ratings from @Tom Allen 's both threads! CM_Caged-denied score_11.jpg

    And for those that would like to present their rate on the scale in their profile : Go to Your Account -> Persanal Details -> Custom title. You may use the text "C/D on the TomAllen-Rectrix scale" to present your rate uniform to other members.
     
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    #41 Baggervance, Dec 23, 2020
    Only started the journey in April this year.
    Currently at 4/4, but I suspect (hope!) to move up the scale in 2021
     
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    #42 El Guapo, Dec 23, 2020
    Hi Tom -
    Glad to see this rating system come around again - it really is brilliant.
    For me 2020 has changed some dynamics ...

    Being 'locked down' at home due to the virus has put a psychological zap on me and I have had trouble being 'locked up' in the Lori's - so we have moved back to the honor system (which we had used for decades). Will Lori time go back up? Undoubtedly. When? No se.
    So, 2.

    But I'm still allowed an O. once every 2 months or so - but 1/2 the time its ruined.
    So, 5 leaning towards 6.

    Last rating I believe was 5/6 ... this time its a 2/5.
     
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    gnb69 Seeking Mistress/Keyholder

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    #43 gnb69, Dec 24, 2020
    As someone who is currently in control of my own keys, my situation is obviously dirrerent to those who have posted their numbers. I would say I'm currently at 7,2 on the matrix.
    It is looking very promising in the new year that I will be handing my keys over to a Domme, and the goal for me then would be to move up the scale to 9,9, however I have indicated I will hand over all control and decisions in regards to my lock-ups so things will be decided by her.
     
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    #44 Giles_English, Dec 26, 2020
    So this is on its way to me...

    Trs.png

    ...which should make me an 8/10.

    It's not as extreme as @Minas bitch 's arrangement since it's only surgical nylon. However, it will require tools to remove. Also note the limited number of seals, which is an escalating deterrent to treating them as mere high-end security ties. (Longer analysis on my blog)
     
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    #45 Lakeman, Dec 27, 2020
    Very cool name you have there.
     
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    #46 Skywalker41918, Dec 27, 2020
    7/7
     
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    #47 sissy veronique, Dec 27, 2020
    9/9 here
     
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    #48 Avir shah, Dec 28, 2020
    9/9
     
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    #49 curious2017, Dec 28, 2020
    A self-assessed 2,6.
     
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    #50 Bob Spade, Dec 29, 2020
    Currently at C4/D5 on the TomAllen-Rectrix scale.
    In Locktober I was under virtual supervision of another Domme and locked for the month in the Red Chili. Unfortunattely this caused some skin issues with the base ring, so I ordered a cheap belt from Ali to finish Locktober.
    Also this chinese device was hard to wear 24/7 as some skin could get caught with my undies, but the step from balltrap to full belt was a great improvement.
    My Lady and I decided to order a My-steel full belt and received it last week. Now breaking in the device as adviced by my-steel for a couple of hours a day and slowly extending. Hopefully early January we can go into a 24/7 mode and go up some nodges on the scale.
    Cheers.
    rob
     
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