The First Day Hey all, As posted elsewhere, the Curve I ordered arrived yesterday. The fun begins... First off, a little about me. I've been fairly vanilla up until now, this is the first attempt at any real kink for me, and so far I'm just wishing I'd have got started earlier! Although, my previous partners have been fairly straight so I doubt anything would have happened even if I tried. But now, my GF is as up for this as I am, so there's going to be a lot of fun ahead! I don't know what attracts me to chastity, it turns me on without really knowing why. But I'm not going to psychoanalyse myself, here or anywhere else, so after a discussion with my GF we decided to go ahead and get a device. I did a bit of research and settled on the Curve, which looked to be a good fit for size. So, fast forward to yesterday: The package arrived at her work (parcels to our home address get delivered to my work, as I work just down the road, and the postie knows this - pretty handy, but parcels occasionally get opened at work by the boss, I wasn't going to take that chance!), and she spent most of the afternoon sending me pics of 'the box'. (Un?)fortunately for me, it seems she's as excited about this as I am, and is thinking up all kinds of ways of teasing and getting her fun out of this - naturally, she won't tell me her plans! So we finally both get home and open the box. After a few minutes playing with it, she ordered me to strip so we could get it fitted. I have to admit to hesitating a little there - it had been a fun fantasy up to that point, but here was the device, about to be locked around my cock! But, I stripped off and got the ring on (largest to start with), then, after a bit of patience (I was quite aroused), some lube and a bit of poking, the cage went on, then the padlock. Done! :Locker: With not much to do after that but take some photos, I got dressed and tried to get used to it. It's a lot more comfy than I thought it would be, I was pleasantly surprised. After she went to bed, I stripped off again and had a play around. I discovered that I could pull out, but going down a ring size and moving to the smallest spacer more or less fixed that (I can still pull out - just - but getting back in is impossible. Not worth the bother!). Satisfied, I went to bed - I did think about wearing it overnight, but I had an important sales meeting the next day, and couldn't afford a bad nights' sleep. So I took it off. Next morning, I wasn't planning to wear it - like I said, I had a very important meeting, and didn't want the clients to remember me as 'that weird guy who kept playing with himself the whole time', but I figured I had the whole morning to try it (meeting wasn't until the afternoon), so what the hell. I put it on, got dressed and went to work. My first day amongst the public wearing my little secret! As it turned out, I was again quite comfy, and decided to keep it on all day. I've now been wearing it for 15 hours with no issues. Result! I'll wear it to bed tonight to see how it goes, but I think I'll be ok. We've agreed that once I can wear it for 48 hours straight with no issues, I'll be handing the keys over - then the real fun begins! I think that will end up being this weekend, barring any problems.
It Sounds like you're are off to a good start. Back in January the Mistress was out of town and I was in a fit of boredom. I knew when she returned It would just mean two bored people in this house. I recalled that had the strongest interest in sex when I wasnt having any. So I decided to have a CB6000s shipped in overnight. I was going to keep a journal but that lasted six days. I'd like to share how it started. January 13 After mulling the idea around for there month is decided to order the CB6Ks. Its going to be a long , cold, boring winter, so this looks like a good distraction. Jan 15 The device arrives on the morning UPS truck. I choose ring #3 and the second shortest stud and spacer and lock it on, pinching myself in the process. Decided that the pubic hair has to go. . Looks and feels nice. I go bury my self in my work. Later in the afternoon I started to feel disappointed. I just spent $160+ to put a plastic gismo on my dick, now what? Driving home, my cock started to fight the device. The device wins.. This scenario takes place at least eight time over the next twelve hours. Jan 16 It is Saturday, so Im sleeping in. When I awake I really want to get off. I try to get some friction down there, nothing is happening. I just got to cum. Im not getting any where. So I get up and do my Saturday routine. Later that day while flaccid, I try to pull out, but Im stuck and captive. In the evening I try a vibrator and then running water, but still Im denied a organism. I could take it off but I wont allow myself to do so. I didnt buy this thing to cheat. I put down several beers, hoping the alcohol would help me sleep. Jan 17 It worked, but Sunday morning is just like the previous morning.. I manage to distract myself till bedtime. I try a butt plug that massages my prostate. About an hour and a half later, a small amount of watery fluid runs out of my dick, feeling some thing like a wet dream. Im tired after all that and fall asleep. The next night the blonde would be home and I would explain what I was doing.
i think what you're going to find out is it's all about will. When She has the key, it becomes about submission to Hers. As can be found elsewhere in the Forum, within the context of a marriage, it becomes an enforcement of one's vows. From personal experience, an highly-sexed Woman will tend to use male Chastity to enforce a Female-Led Relationship and to harness a man's desire to serve Her own needs and interests. Once harnessed and controlled thusly, it becomes the man's challenge to find new and inventive ways to be of service to Her desires and needs. To my way of thinking, this is a very creative harnessing of male desire to make it useful, focused and creative. It is tough for a man to get to this point, but the results are almost universally beneficial to both parties. This tends to grow relationships. It is my hope that this small kink blossoms for the both of you and the Women who will hold your keys. Will it become more "heavy" kink? Maybe not. But, if you get to the point where your energies are redirected to Her leadership, you'll have a great relationship.
Thanks cbtok, good words there! I feel very lucky to have a keyholder that's not only willing to tolerate this, but is as into it as I am. I think I'd get bored of it quite quickly if I felt she was just doing this for my benefit. I'll just have to wait and seewhat plans she has for me once she gets the keys, although she did suggest that she'd keep me locked up for the entire first week without release! As to where this ends up, time will tell really - we don't have any set expectations, we're just going to see how we feel and where it takes us. It might end up a long term thing with a D/s flavour, or it might end up just as an occasional fun game. Who knows? One thing I have to bear in mind is that she does have a submissive side as well, so I think we'll need to 'switch' from time to time - which has the benefit that I can get revenge for all the things she's done while I'm locked up... Anyway, an update on today: As mentioned in my last post, I went to bed locked up last night. No real issues getting to sleep, and I did find I could sleep on my front, as long as I arranged myself properly. I slept the whole night through (which is great), but then woke up at about 7am feeling like my balls were on fire. :-( I had expected this, but didn't really know what to do about it, so I tried to ignore it in the hope that things would settle down. No such luck - I lay there tossing (ok, probably not the right word!) and turning for a few minutes, then gave up and got out of bed. My first stop was the bathroom to go to the loo - bad idea! I sat down (I can't stand up with this on - too messy) and let go. Uh-oh, blockage - nothing coming out! But because I'd 'gone', I knew that as soon as the erection went down and the blockage freed up I would literally piss myself, so I had to just sit there on the toilet and wait. Good job I've got some reading materials in the loo... And so my day started! ee: (One lesson I've learnt already: I, like a lot of guys, always used to get impatient with women when they spent ages in the loo. Now after two days of sitting, I can sympathise. Sitting down to the loo, with the best of intentions, is much more hassle and simply takes longer than just whipping your cock out and letting go) The rest of the day went OK, no comfort issues at all. That's a day and a half with no chafing or discomfort - this is easier than I thought! Tonight was the first sex session with it on - I gave my GF control of the keys, just for tonight, it was great. She started by stripping me off and teasing me in the cage, then got a little alarmed at the way my balls went purple! Once I'd assured her it was ok and I'd let her know if it started to hurt, she carried on. I think she's a natural at this! Just the right level of teasing and torture. Once she'd had her fun she unlocked me, and the sex was amazing! I'd not touched myself for nearly two days by this point, and was ultra sensitive. I surprised myself by lasting a lot longer than I thought I would, and the orgasm when it came left me feeling weak. If this is the result of chastity, I like it! Once we'd finished, she cleaned me up and had a go at fitting the cage back on me. It's a bit tight to get on and she was a little nervous about hurting me, but with a little guidance she had it on (and with only one little pinch). I think she enjoyed the experience, and I expect I might end up going some time without touching myself! Speaking of which, I realised after she'd locked me up that I hadn't touched myself while I was out at all. That means in the last two days , she has had more time with my cock than I have! A taste of things to come?
Update Well, I'm locked up properly now. We decided that if I could go 48 hours locked with no problems, then I was ready to hand the keys over. That happened last Friday, so as promised, I gave up the keys. To be honest, it was a little anti-climatic for me, I was wearing the device anyway and wasn't too worried about getting out. I think my GF enjoyed the handover though, for her it meant that she could now have an active part in this! She unlocked me on Saturday morning and we made love, she decided to give me the weekend off (not a bad decision really, we were visiting family and I had a 5 hour each way drive to do). Already, after just a few days, it felt a little odd to be out. My squishy bits were squishy again! The weekend passed fine, we made love again on the Sunday morning then travelled home. After a bit of relaxing, I was told to go and have a bath and shave myself in readiness for going back in. So off I went, got myself ready and presented myself to her. Five minutes later, I was all locked up again, this time properly! So what now? Well, we'd originally decided to see how it went for a week (with releases), and then see where we wanted to go from there. But as I'm having no problems at all with wearing the device, she decided that I shall simply go a week before any release. Since then, that's been upgraded (by her) to 'at least a week' - so now I know I'm locked up until Sunday night before any possibility of getting out. And it might not even happen then - if she so decides, she'll keep me in there until she's good and ready to let me out. Damn, that makes me feel horny! I think she's really getting into this - already, over the last few days, it's gone from 'We'll see how it goes' to I might let you out next week. If I feel like it'. I seem to have been removed from the decision making here, which is exactly how it should be. I tried talking to her about rules, but she wouldn't have it - apparently, agreeing rules mean negotiation, which removes a little of her power. So she makes and enforces the rules, and I have to abide by them, like it or not. So far, I have to say I like it! Tomorrow will be the big test for me - she's out for the night, which normally means I'll stay home taking the opportunity to watch some porn and masturbate. Not this time! I'll be home alone, probably quite horny, and unable to do anything about it. To add to the teasing, I know she's taking her new dildo and some lube with her, so I know she'll be having some fun tomorrow night! And on Thursday, she's promised me some sex action - except I'll be locked up for that, which will be a whole new experience for both of us. There'll almost certainly be some penetration going on, but I get the feeling it won't be by me...