Hello! Im new here but have been into the lifestyle a long time. I actually started self cbt when i was only about 8 years old if you can believe that lol. I learned about chastity about 18 years ago and i have been fascinated ever since. Fast forward a bit i have been with my fiance for 3 years and she hasnt been into chastity much.... until now. Self locked my record is 2 weeks with her in charge it was 4 days. Until now at least. She seems to fallen in love with it now which is amazing and terrifying. I spent 3 days in it with teasing while in cage, today she gave me a list to paint the house while still caged along with a timeline and reward /punishment for completion/failure. Well i completed in time then because she has never been one to whip me hard or anything i made a foolish futile bet after i found out my reward was to be free and orgasm then next night i was going back in. Well i bet my orgasm if she could make me say ow in a 15 min time frame... well i was tied up hands above me and she took our riding crop and boy did she let me have it. I shouldnt of been so cocky and provoked her but she taught me a lesson. It took 7 minutes but she got me. I squandered my orgasm i earned and now here i am locked and even more blissfully in love with her than before. Then we found a spot on the wall i missed.... so tomorrow after work im getting put in the humbler while i remedy my mistake and get punished for it at the same time because my already sore balls are getting a work out tomorrow as well..... pray for me!!!
Navy veteran here! Be careful with those riding crops! They can do some real damage in the right hands!
Honestly im not sure its anything i did. I have tried for some time to get her to try things with me and i didnt push it just told her how it made me feel and let her come to it on her own terms
Welcome aboard! New here myself too and am amazed by the great hospitality and friendliness of everyone.