What does NOvember mean to you?

I think it would be like Locktober. Rules agreed upon between KH and caged male. Sort of like an extension. I know some don't remove cage or belt at all, some for cleaning, and others might get out for edging, etc. As long as KH approves it, that's what really matters. For me, it was no orgasms, wearing cage constantly, except for brief cleaning, and more than anything, achieving the feeling that I had given up control. Accepting full time caging has been a mind changer for me. Going right into No-November would be challenge, but again, I feel it is not my choice, but Hers. Good luck and enjoy.

 

It will just be a continuation for us - we don't use a device regularly (even though I have a Behind Barz full belt) so Locktober was done on an honour basis.

I'd imagine that in NOvember I may receive a pleasureless prostate milking or two and plenty of edging, whilst she enjoys orgasms more or less on tap. She knows that squeezing my balls whilst massaging my prostate externally is incredibly frustrating and is the quickest way to drain me with no orgasm.

We don't discuss when I may be allowed a full orgasm so one month is like any other in that respect.

 

Do whatever you feel right as a couple. If myself or my wife suggested we do a month long denial period I would be ok to try it... but let's say there is a month called "NOvember"... and my wife wants to have sex with me. That month's name is no where close to what we want as a couple.

 

It means the same as every other month but I’ll be making memes about it for my Tumblr and BDSMLR blogs

 

Just another month of denial

 

The same as any other month!!!

 

snap!

 

It's just another month.

One that will find me caged and in all likelihood, leave me that way too. One that will add another 30 days to the counter of elapsed time since my last orgasm (currently 115 days). One that will find me servicing my princess as often as she will allow, and one that will find me sinking further into submission to the uncanny power that she wields over me without even realizing it....

 

I don't know what november means for anyone else, but for me it's national novel writing month (NaNoWriMo).

And no thanksgiving, this year, thanks to no family coming due to Covid, and thanks to being on the road constantly...due to covid.

 

November is, among other things, a great opportunity for boys who missed, or failed, Locktober.

 

For me it will be a little different than locktober. In october i was not allowed any piv or edging or any other touch to the penis. I was unlocked only for hygiene or because of the chaffing for a few hours. In november it will be possible to be edged, even piv( but with lidocaine condom ) but of course it will not be any orgasm. Or at least not a penile one because i will be pegged and if it happens during this activity it is allowed but usually it doesn't.
But till than it will be one more week because we started locktober a little late

 

Out of curiosity, is there the possibility of orgasm for you, seems that if there is no possibility of reward then there’s no reason to overly please your princess. Haven’t gotten to that point yet and don’t know if I will but just think the whole reason to be a good bitch is to get a good reward.

 

There is always the possibility. It's totally at her discretion as to how, and when I will be allowed to have another orgasm. That was our agreement when we started this adventure back on September 1st of 2018. In that time she has allowed me 10 orgasms.

I know it sounds counter intuitive, but when she allows me to service her, and when she cums hard and wet on my face, it's almost as if I have had an orgasm myself, even though I have not ejaculated. To date, since we started this lifestyle, she has enjoyed 269 orgasms.

Our arrangement may not work for everyone, but for now, I wouldn't have it any other way...

 

Take the month as a support for going to chastity and obediance. I guess it help to have a guideline for begginner and a goal to reach within the community.

I pass from 3 days to a week and now a month by trying to follow these month, it is a way to chastity success.

 

Locked 24/7 no unlockings except for cleaning. And only sex if She wants to. She playes with her toys and if She wants to unlock me then She will. If i asked to be unlocked then She will not unlock me and better lucky next time. So NO really means NO this month.

 

Just another month of denial of both erections and orgasms.

of course for some other people with different relationship dynamics that may be different

 

Cage issues resulted in several unlockings and even a ruined in October. My GF intends to make up for that in NOvember and only unlockings are for punisment pins or tube.

 

Sadly no cage for me

 

I have been locked since March, so it is another month locked.

I am completely supportive of people who are using this chastity season to stretch their limits.

 

For me NOvember means a month of no shaving to raise awareness for prostate cancer.

Also means 30 days of NC orgasm denial.

 

I'll let you know December 1st. I lost the contest and will be locked until at least thanksgiving.

 

As my wife/keyholder said last night after I admired her short skirt and no panties as we left for dinner, this is NOvember for you...

 

When I asked , which template should I start filling "NOvember2020" or "Lockvember2020", the answer was "Lockvermber" . I guess it answers a bit title question what "November" means to us .