How many people do short locks regularly?

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    My wife/KH has a much higher sex drive than I do, and enjoys PIV sex regularly. When I'm not locked sometimes it takes a lot to get me in the mood. But when I'm locked its all I can think about. She has come to love this side of me so I'm finding that she is locking me up almost daily but unlocks me almost every night to have sex. Which by the way is some of the best we have ever had. She also enjoys teasing me and getting me to do all the little extra things around the house to ensure I get unlocked at night. Does anybody have any kind of arrangement like that on here? It seems most people do the long haul on here, for us that dosent seem enjoyable.
     
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    Yes, no, sometimes.

    My last lockup lasted about 20 hours, the one before that was well over a month. Typically I'd see we go a couple of weeks and rising.

    My Mrs would let me orgasm more, early on letting my out too often was an issue.

    We have a kitchen safe that she throws the key into if she thinks she's going to let me out, it's just gone in there for the weekend as we'll be having drinks tomorrow and she may do something she later regrets :D

    It sounds like short lock-ups are working for the two of you, keep at it and enjoy it until/unless it isn't working imo.

    At the end of the day there are people on here that are into things we wouldn't entertain, as a couple you'll find your groove.
     
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    I don't sleep with the device on, but that doesn't mean anything special is going to happen every night. My wife wants to be active with something once or twice a week though. Whatever she wants I am ok with.
     
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    We do short lockups. 2 to 3 days average, longest 5 days because KH wasn't feeling well. It does seem to increase the intimacy of our relationship which is wonderful.
     
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    Lucky you. I've slept with it on from day one. I wank when I'm half asleep and (genuinely) can't remember the next morning.

    I've even contemplated a belt avoid the ball strain at night
     
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    I would agree its surprises how well it works
     
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    My wife and I are becoming fans of the short--but frequent--lock-ups.
     
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    I can’t imagine what the Mistress would say if I was playing with myself in bed with her at night. I’m just not going to find out.
     
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    Yeah we wouldn't do long lock-ups without release. It would mean not only am I in chastity, but so is my Mistress. Why have control of something if you're not gonna use it?
     
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    Chastity is something different to everyone, and there is no right or wrong way to do it, it’s what works for you, if long lock ups work for you, that’s great, if short lock ups work for you, then that’s great, it’s what suits your situation and relationship! Just enjoy it!
     
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    Yes, chastity cages are not compatible with my job, so I do honour chastity most of the time, and caged (or KTB) around play sessions.
     
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    My previous KH was like that at the beginning. When she found out PIV was not indispensable to her enjoyment, and that skipping it motivated me more, she kept the same rhythm, but PIV became more and more of an occasional treat.
     
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    To quote the band Journey: "Any way you want it, that's the way you need it, any way you want it."
     
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    There are other ways to pleasure her besides your penis ;)
     
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    I'm aware, but that isn't up to me.
     
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    A vaginal-orgasm oriented lady and a man in chastity is an interesting combination. Maybe she'll allow you to use the strapon on her.
     
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    Any longer than 5 days in an HT style device and it's pretty disgusting in there! So releases for cleaning and sometimes a ruined one are essential when in a longer chastity period.
     
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    This is how I got use to wearing a deviceshort 2 to 3 day then a bit longer after a few months I did a 60 day stretch then one day out and then another 60 days in
     
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    I done it both ways now, short term lockup and longer durations. Depends on what the situation calls for, external conflicts, and what I mentally am prepared for. For a long time, I did short lockups of hours to days, interspersed with breaks. Now it's on more often or even continuously. Either is fine, if they work for you.
     
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    Somewhat the same situation here.

    We live in different cities so there's usually couple of days in in between I sleep at her place or the other way around.

    The cage keeps me ready for her needs.
     
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    Saturday nights were always date night for me and my wife. When we started with chastity, it was summer time and she had me put on the cage for the first time while we sat at the pool. That night she was like a wild woman teasing me and finally taking it off and screwing my brains out. For the next couple of weeks it was the same and she pushed me to wear it more and more. I would put the cage on now on Friday’s and sleep with it on and Saturday was fun day and hot date night.

    one Saturday night after we closed the pool, she tied me to the bed after the first round and teased me until I was hard and really drove me crazy until I blew my second load. Rather then release me, she reached for the cage and with some clumsy and torturous fitting, got my cage back on and locked. She left the room with the key and came back and untied me, we showered and went to bed. I expected to be let out on Sunday, but that did not happen nor did it happen on Monday morning when I was to start work. Since I was working from home it was no big deal but each day played out the same. Finally on Saturday night she let me out and when finished locked me back up for the following week.

    weekly lockup’s became the norm, we agreed it was fun and did help out our sex lives quite a bit. For the next year this was our standard, we moved from a few hours a week, to 24 hours a week to a full week. The. She heard about Locktober from a lady friend and we did our first. The same with Lent, and then finally a 100 day lockup. Our standard still is a week at a time, but we negotiate extend it to 2 weeks. We still honor Locktobef and Lent, but the control is all hers. When she wants it and she does, the cage comes off and I get to enjoy myself. The rule is, if I’m tied to the bed and uncared she has the control. If I’m not tied to the bed and the cage is off, then I can be the alpha and have her any way I desire.
     
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    We used to do very short lockups for several years, 1-3 days at a time. Once I finally got a device I could wear indefinitely, that immediately stopped and Mistress went to 24/7.

    I am only unlocked when Mistress wants to use me, and it goes back on immediately after she is done with play. Sometimes I get an orgasm during that unlocked period but sometimes not. It's like a 50/50 chance.

    I've been unlocked twice (maybe 3 times)? in October but probably no more than an hour or so total.
     
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    Not quite the same but, i'm only locked when we visit people or she is out with friends.
     
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