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    Hi, I'm wondering if anyone else has achieved this, and how, I've found before that if I spend several days without touching myself, and then proceed to watch some porn or stare at some sexy photos that I can achieve a hands free orgasm emptying out spontaneously whilst watching... but has anyone been able to acheive this without an erection? Whilst flaccid? If so how? How many of you have emptied out spontaneously of cum.
     
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    Spontaneosly? You mean without "doing anything"? No TENS, no vibrator, nothing in the butt? No tensing of kegel muscles?

    No, that has not happened to me.
     
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    after a period of chastity there is often an unprovoked discharge from a flaccid penis. This discharge is different from normal semen, being much thicker and more viscous. There is no sensation of climax with it, just a discharge.
     
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    I never tried to do that on purpose, like watching porn, etc.
    But when I'm locked for long periods it empties by itself on regular basis(after peeing), no porn, no stimulation...
     
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    what kind of periods? Like for how long? And what chastity cage do you wear with what ring size? Do you use spacers
     
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    When there was no teasing of any kind, it was like 14 days in between.
    At the moment I am locked, but often she unlocks me for some teasing then locks me back, I can leak cum every few days.
     
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    It most definitely happened to me. Last year... I was completely flaccid and all of the sudden I started pouring out cum from my cage. I was mentally aroused, but I wasn’t throbbing in my steel.

    I asked a urologist - everyone is different. I don’t need to worry about how infrequent it happens. Nor will blue balls hurt me.

    For me the longest I’ve ever gone without a spontaneous spill is about one month. Normally it happens after two weeks and before three weeks denied.
     
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    yes, it's round about the two week mark
     
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    Really? What was you thinking about? Because when I think about those things I start to throb...
     
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    Do you think it would happen if not inside of the cage as well?
     
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    It was August 2019... two months into three months of orgasm denial - “Spilled from Louise Sutton’s chapter on Male Chastity and an woman marrying a virgin man 12 years younger. It was an FLR marriage and she loved tease denial and oral sex for her. She kept him a virgin for 5 years and then longer.

    I gushed out of my cage daydreaming about that. I wasn’t hard. I was aroused. But I didn’t feel it rise. I only tingled slightly. Perhaps it was my skin rolled over my glans and a slight pull over my oversensitive frenum in my cage? But I gushed. It was a massive thick pool of white.”

    And it kept pouring out. It felt like it emptied for a minute. But perhaps I experienced it in slow motion. Who knows. All I know is I don’t need to be let out or get hard to spill.

    My wife was thrilled when I told her. A month later I got confirmation from a urologist that those keep me healthy just fine and I don’t need to have any twitches and spurts and nice big climaxes. My wife knew already but loved hearing that I faced a doctor and was open about it, and that orgasm denial and constant blue balls won’t break my body....

    just my mind.
     
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    yes it does. I follow the honour system and don't use a cage. When I'm long term it happens just the same.
     
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    Are you thinking of anything sexy/kinky prior to when it happens? Is there any feeling? I wish I could achieve this... but keep getting throbbing erections :(
     
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    not always thinking of anything. Sometimes, but it's not a main cause, and certainly not an erection. No, absolutely no feeling other than a dribbling sensation.

    It's not uncommon. A few people have posted about the same experience, so stick with it. It may happen. All you need is time and chastity... :)
     
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    So basically I just need not to masturbate for a while and it'll just leak out randomlly
     
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    For me, I have started having wet dreams again. I haven’t paid attention to the intervals. But I have woken up to semen-soaked panties a few times.
     
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    how long before this started happening to you? Does it feel like you’ve had an orgasm when you wake up and that you’ve kind of got to reset and start again? Humiliating? Frustrating?
     
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    No feeling of orgasm at all. Just a release of fluid.
    The first time it happened was after about 3 weeks of lockup.

    now it varies between times. Though the more teasing I get, the more likely it is to happen
     
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    Yep
     
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    After 7 to 9 days I leak semen in the morning after a bowel movement. Must be the pressures on my prostate.

    Two days ago I put in a butt plug and watched what I label for my wife "you porn" meaning videos of her with other guys. In that case I was squeezing but not touching in my Contender. It had been 12 days (Locktober) and it gushed lots in my boxers. Wow! First time for that!
     
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    I would be the other end of the scale. My record is 100+ days locked up and while I did leak from excitement, there was nothing in the way of an unprompted cum dump anywhere in that time. I stay locked most of the time now and whether she decides I need two weeks or two months, I have never in my life had a spontaneous ejaculation.

    Never.
     
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    Im sure everybody is a little different, but most guys have some sort of fluid loss if they go without an orgasm for long enough. I leak most of the time, and sometimes have to wear a panty liner when it's heavy. I also get a discharge sometimes when my wife/KH takes me with her strap on. It's not like a traditional orgasm, but it is an unusual feeling.
     
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    I sure wish I would experience this spontaneous cum dump soon.
     
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    there is not much to experience, there is no sensation or feeling of me, I just see it has happened, and that’s it.
     
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    I get very aroused when I am allowed to please my wife with my tongue and the dildo. I get very aroused any time I can watch her in ecstasy, even if (especially if?) I am denied the same.

    In fact, many years ago my wife started ordering me to wear tight bikini or thong panties to catch all of my leaking (pre)ejaculate and keep it from messing up her bed when I would wear the strap-on to 'fuck' her. And later on when she decided she preferred the dildo was her preference, in part because she couldn't stomach the thought of me pretending to be a real man with the strap-on, the panties have remained a requirement.

    Anyway, our go to sex position is now me on my back with her on top of me in sort of a 69 position and I lick her clit while working the dildo and sometimes inserting my finger in her anus. Despite her face being mere inches away from my little penis, I am allowed absolutely no physical stimulation. She won't touch it or kiss it, and the only thing I might hope for is her hot breath as she moans and maybe a stray lock of hair that I can barely feel through the panties. If I attempt to raise my hips to meet her face or body, or hump the air, or especially if I try to reach my hand down there and touch myself, I will immediately get rebuffed, yelled at, and later severely punished.

    And yet I have on more than one such occasion managed to cum in my chastity cage and panties.
     
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