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Discussion in 'Introductions' started by Nykyta, Oct 5, 2020.

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    It's a good question. For full-time or longer-term chastity, there are two key items you need to pay close attention to; getting a correctly sized, well fitted device, and hygiene.

    Most experienced men will tell you to invest in a custom device that fits. You can find pretty good imports for much less, but the quality is often lacking. Imports are often heavy which can be a drag over long lockups. Getting a good fit can require some trial and error, even with custom units. You may also have a preference for a particular aesthetic that may guide your decision.

    Keeping things clean is important. The easiest devices to clean are those with stainless steel bars. Custom devices usually use high-grade stainless steel that stays bright and does not go black or rust. Plastic devices and solid tubes require more effort to keep clean. I toss my Male Chastity Now stainless cage into the dishwasher when she lets me out, and it comes out looking new.

    Once a day or more often, little bit of silicone gel lube or baby oil gel can be very helpful around the ring.

    Once you find a device that meets your requirements and covers these two key items, there is no reason he can't be locked up full time. Personally, I think being released once a week (maybe for some teasing) to let the skin stretch out and get blood moving around is a healthy approach, but many go for very long periods locked.

    Be sure to ask any question you may have. There are a lot of very experienced people here that are happy to help you both out.
     
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    Hi Nykyta,
    Long term chastity shouldn't be a problem at all if the cage fits correctly. That may take a bit of experimentation.

    I think a bigger problem will be with your son. When my son was that age it was perfectly normal for me to sometimes be nude with him, like when taking a shower or changing into bathing suits.

    If your husband is caged he won't be doing that, which might put a crimp in his relationship with your son.
     
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    Welcome!
     
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    Thank you for your answers. It took e forever to get back to it . I'm terrible with the media.
     
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    Hello and welcome to Chastity Mansion.
     
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    Well, you do have competing priorities! We are here when you need us.
     
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