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    I have been locked up for about five days and it has been great. However, I am concerned about loosing interest or being as motivated to treat my keyholder properly after orgasm.

    Any thoughts or advice? How does your keyholder give you release but keep in in the right frame of mind after?
     
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    Wait for it. As they waited for us for weeks together on our excuses that we tired work load
    And so on
    Enjoy what they handle with us. Give them that pleasure
     
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    I do feel a change after a release. Usually a shift in submissive desirers and feeling less inclined to do as i should. That's where your commitment has to come in. For me, that's eating my release, right away and then putting the cage back on. I also try to submerse myself into chores, like vacuuming, dusting, or cleaning the bathroom. Anything besides, sitting down and watching sports on TV or having a beer. I avoid things i did when i was manly and not a sissy. Find those things that work for you, and keep to them. The goal is to refocus your energy on your Key holder. You'll get back into a submissive frame of mind that way.
     
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    Convince your KEYHOLDER you don't need the release your satisfaction comes from there happiness and orgasms.
     
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    Ruined orgasm. It works.

    I haven't had a full orgasm since before may. I've had three ruined since then.
     
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    I found that being locked up immediately after coming very quickly put me back into an attentive mindset. I mean, when you get up to clean off, before the afterglow has worn, not later that week, or the next day.

    "We're done, put the cage back on," even if (especially if) I didn't want to always had me waking up back in whatever mental space I was in right before an orgasm.
     
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    No more orgasm, only milking in this situation.
     
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    This is solid practical advice. It coincides with other piece of the equation where a Mistress can lose some of Her "Domme zone" after the orgasm, so this acts as a reminder for both of Y/you that submission is not a game, but a critical piece of you. And when all else fails, do some dishes!
     
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    Yes. And even though we do not have a DS relationship, I think it also helped her retain a level of control that she might otherwise not have bothered with.
     
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    We practice this too, for me it completes my orgasm mentally. My afterglow is spent concentrating myself flaccid as quickly as possible to be caged until...... She says.
     
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    Thanks for the feedback. I was released last night but afterwards she looked at me and said that i need to be ready to be locked again. Then this am she sent me a text that let me know I would be locked as soon as arriving home. I was looking forward to getting back home to her all day!
     
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    I agree with pretty much everything above.

    There is a real difference between a 'ruined orgasm' with no contact at the point of ejaculation and 'prostate milking'. The former removes the pleasure, the latter can be done without even touching the penis and should leave you feeling horny and frustrated immediately after having your balls drained.

    Having to seek your Wife's / KH permission before coming is quite effective. And I quite like the idea of having having an 'orgasm ratio': you having to give her a certain number before having any chance of getting one yourself. It's great on getting you to concentrate on the job is hand: giving her pleasure, without any thought or expectation of your own.
     
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    My go to is to try and use my Mistress's title as much as possible/appropriate for the next day or so.

    Doing that reinforces my role in my head and is also something she can respond to to help reinforce it as well. Also any rituals/routines you have should be consistent so that it doesn't fall away.
     
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    "We're done, put the cage back on," gets my head instantly back in the game.
     
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    I think my Lady's attitude is that there really is no need to find out what effect the DROP would have on me these days.

    She has certainly shown no interest in doing any research
     
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    Actually, what she has said a few times is "I'm done now. Back in the cage." Even though I didn't want to, it was hot to see her so enthusiastic about it.
     
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    Only been at it just short of 3 months, Madame Vanilla although disliking the cage, just EXPECTS the cock to go back in it.

    I use her key to unlock for Piv on her request/decision and later she'll ask me where her key is if I havent given it back.

    It was a sort of fantasy game that Ive been dreaming of for many years thats come true. She would nt listen for a long time. I seem to have conveyed to her at very last the benefits to her of stopping my bad masturbation habit.

    Ive a weird feeling that its NOT a game for her. She may actually believe now that the penis should be always locked. Im not sure.
     
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    Yes. I think this works because being caged for any reasonable length of time means that you're aroused more than enough to be able to cum more than once in any sex session. So if you only cum once and then are immediately re-caged, you very soon hit that euphoria again. That's my experience anyway.
     
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    I agree. Back when I used to be unlocked, one orgasm just never seemed enough.

    And now that I'm permanently* locked, once in a while she will make me come in my cage. She used to worry that it would stop me being aroused for her, but a caged orgasm (for me) is even less satisfying, and my motor is running again in no time.

    *for some value of permanent.
     
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    Thats easy... You dont get to have an orgasm.....end of...
     
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    Have you been talking to Mrs Chaste by any chance? She seems to have adopted this view as well!!!
     
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    i totaly agree ill gladly give up orgasyms for ever if i could find a mistress . i get my pleasure from giving orgasyms
     
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    Exactly. The last time I had a full orgasm was when the Queen wanted one in her. Afterwards she had me go down and clean up the mess I made followed by immediate lockup. This was quite effective in preventing me from leaving my sub space, despite the fact that I came.
     
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    I agree!
     
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    And it seems that my Lady has also.

    No orgasms No drop. No problems. as far as she is concerned
     
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