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  1. johnjames55
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    If you could go back in time what would you tell yourself?

    Me: Be careful what you wish for :)

    And be brave, you live only once so be brave enough to follow your dreams/desires.
     
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    Enjoy your self and don’t worry about what others think.

    Oh and it doesn’t hurt lol
     
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    Tell her now don’t put it off!!
     
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    Kylara Happy feminized sub owned by Mistress PHEBUSA

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    I would have say to her 30 years ago, feminize and dominate me, you will love it 30 years after so you can now too as much as me.
    We just don't know this exist in a world before internet.
     
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    The lottery numbers, invest in Facebook, Tesla, bitcoin etc.

    I know it's not kinky but would be pretty rad.
     
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    How far back? If it were to the start of our marriage, I'd want to tell me to submit for real and not try to steer Xena into being a standard issue domme.
     
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    Go back to begin of our marriage and get locked up. Imagine what 24/7 by 23 years what her/my penis would look like today. That would have been heaven.
     
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    It goes without saying but I would tell myself to submit and confess my deepest desires to my wife. We'd have been much happier much earlier if I had.

    I'd tell myself true submission is when she gets what she wants, and not some twisted porn domme fantasy that I want. It took me too long to learn that lesson.

    I'd tell myself to get that PA at 21 instead of 48.

    Sounds crazy but I would have also invited my wife to consider cucking me. She definitely would have, with great gusto, earlier in our marriage.
     
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    Move to a different hemisphere.
     
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    2020 will be absolute shit
     
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    Easy:
    1. I should have asked to be caged years ago. When I finally brought it up, she was immediately up for trying it. I didn't have to bring it up again. The device is part of our life now.
    2. I should have asked her to shave my pubic hair years ago. We sometimes shower together and her shaving me has become a special treat.
    3. I should have asked her if I could wear panties years ago. She said OK immediately!
    4. I should have bought her a whip (actually a flogger) years ago. I brought one home last year and and now when "i"m a bad boy" I have to drop my panties, bend over , and take a flogging to my ass and balls. She clearly enjoys it. My dick gets so hard in my cage!
    5. I should have asked her about MFM years ago. I only lately found out she is turned on by the idea of unlocking me for "sloppy seconds" after she has had another man's cock. I would love to do that! But with COVID, that is not likely to happen any time soon.

    She doesn't share some of my other kinks, but you never know until you ask.

    Sometimes women will surprise you.
     
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    [QUOTE="Parley, post:

    She doesn't share some of my other kinks, but you never know until you ask.

    Sometimes women will surprise you.[/QUOTE]

    Always :)
     
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    Dr MBogo You heard the lady! In you go.....

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    I definitely would have started chastity earlier. My wife and I were both 58 when we started, about 4 years ago. We'd had a very lackluster sex life for the past 10 years or so. I wish we'd started as soon as the kids were grown and out of the house. If we had, I'd have been locked for almost 15 years now. I wonder how small my cock would now be? LOL.
     
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    CaramelMochaBoss Caramel skin. Likes to be boss in bed.
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    Nice one.

    I'd tell myself to:

    1. Love myself more and care for myself as how I usually treat others

    2. To embrace my domina side early on

    3. Pick submissive guys as i would be much happier and fulfilled this way

    I guess i wouldnt be so amazeballs today if i didnt make my past mistakes and learn from them too. So i would tell myself that:

    4. Im so proud of u

     
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