Marriage and No Penetration

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    We started off doing MFM threesomes and swinging, and gradually evolved to hotwifing and then cuckolding. For the past few years, we have had almost no PIV sex. My husband has used other techniques, including his fingers, his tongue, vibrators, and dildos, to pleasure me. My favorite is a BBC vibrating dildo. On a rare occasion when I allowed him to penetrate me last year, I really did not feel much, and I asked him to pull out and use the BBC dildo. I did not realize until later that I had inadvertently humiliated him, but he reassured me that he was actually aroused by the humiliation. I also have regular PIV sex with other men. Unfortunately, because of the pandemic, my physical encounters have been replaced by video sex. Also, for the first time, I have started pleasuring myself alone without another man being physically present or on video with me.
     
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    I've had my wife do and say very similar things to me. She has told me to stop and pushed me off because "This isn't doing anything for me." I've also heard "I can't feel you" and had her ask "Are you in yet?" It's extremely humiliating, but it's also exciting enough to almost make me cum just from hearing her say those things.
     
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    My wife has decreed that I will never have PIV sex again. I am not even allowed to look at naked female genitalia or anuses, except, at her discretion, what is required to properly worship and serve her. And occasionally she gives into my begging and graciously allows me to kneel behind and push my tongue into her lovely asshole while I jerk off.

    She still very much enjoys PIV. It's just that she needs something much bigger than what I have and that can last longer than a few seconds. So I know after years of experience that when she says she wants a cock inside her I need to put on my panties and get the big dildo out of my nightstand.
     
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    What a wonderful concept. You're a lucky guy;)
     
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    Complete denial for me since she became my KH.
    I honestly think its better that way.
    Having learned to have no expectations I can focus much more on her wants and needs.
     
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    I only allow my hubby a CHANCE at PIV ever six months. He goes without any release/relief for that entire period, then has a week of supervised masturbation and cum eating (6 days). If he is successful with entertaining me, and successful with the humiliating ways he has to do it. Then he will be allowed the privilege of intercourse with me( last time he failed after day 2). So it's been over 13 months since he's been inside me. He still isn't allowed to cum in me and I have him do it doggy style,otherwise I wouldn't feel anything worth while to have him in me. He must pull out before he cum's and finish on my ass and lick it up from there (he only lasts a minute or so this way). Otherwise if he wants to cum in me, I will spray his penis down with numbing lotion and put two condoms on him, then he can cum in me like that. He does last longer, but also has to suck out the contents when he's done. His next chance at this will start on December 5th. After that I am moving to only once a year for his training and chance to be inside me.
     
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    As I said I'm an earlier posts, I have been PIV free this whole year and have been told by the wife I'll always be PIV free. She said if I have been really good, she may make me take a Cialis and penetrate a fleshlight while she watches. That is the only pussy I'll ever penetrate she says.
     
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    Miss Amandas boy Submissive to Mistress Amanda

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    I am allowed penetration when Amanda wants it and only for as long as she wants it. She decides how and when. I am not allowed to orgasm inside her.

    She can also get pleasure from rubbing against my cage, providing her with sensation, but allowing me none.
     
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    My Wife/KH new new preference is for me to use a lube injector on her then do her with "his cock" a very large, and very realistic black silicone dildo. After she has comes, I ask her for sloppy seconds. Somtimes I have to beg. She will unlock me for sloppy seconds on some rare occasions and I love the feeling of another man's cum ( albeit just lube) inside her. Other times she tells me "his cock" took care of her needs and I will stay locked. Either way, I am loving on our new kink!
     
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    Going back many years, I became accustomed to PIV sex only ever occurring after she was satisfied by the dildo. I learned that when she wanted to have intercourse I should quickly put on my panties and the strap-on... and, later, to put on panties (if I wasn't already wearing them) and grab her dildo ("the real cock"), as she developed a preference for having me lick her clit and/or anus while being penetrated by the higher quality, ultra realistic dildo.

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    , after she was stretched and worn out and basking in the glow of her orgasms, I would be allowed to put on a small condom and hump her for a little bit while she watched TV or read or napped or, if I was lucky, engaged in brutally humiliating me for my inadequacies. But over time this post-dildo penetration was allowed less often and was definitely the exception and not the rule.
     
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    When Mrs Edge and I play, I've always been locked up for long terms (weeks or months). We bought a harness and a Vixskin dildo so she can still have her PIV intimacy.

    About 2-1/2 years ago, we started another play session. It's still going, and she has told me that we're going to be continuing this one with no end in sight.

    I'm not denied because I'm too small, inadequate, or a poor lover. It's not punishmentz nor is it because she has no interest. I'm denied because she finds the idea of keeping me locked up and always aroused for her to be really hot. In return, we're having more sex, and better sex, than any time since we were married. So, on my end, I'm enjoying this so much that I'm willing to keep going.

    Almost every morning I wake up aroused, and as I feel the tight cage, I realize how crazy it sounds that we both want this.
     
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    3 years since I was last allowed inside my wife, and now my PIV denial is permanent

    Made a recent post about it here.
     
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    My wife and I breezed right through our anniversary this week. We had a great time traveling. Allowing me intercourse was the further thing from her mind.
     
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    Wanted to add since my last post on here. My WIFE has made some new rules.
    First I will never see any of the female naked form hers only when see wants to play. I am not even allowed to watch a TV show with any form of nudity. She believes that if a male cannot achieve a full erection he should not receive any forms of stimulus.
     
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    Sex on wedding anniversaries is pretty much a given in our house! With the strap on and my penis safely locked away! It's not really denial though, after all chastity was my idea in the first place. She is merely fulfilling my wishes!
     
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    Our wedding anniversaries have really driven home my denial.

    It was three anniversaries ago when I last had PIV sex. We went away for our anniversary, as we usually do, and the first day in our hotel room she told me to put on one of my small, custom condoms and lay on the bed. Then she straddled me and guided my little penis inside her. We almost never attempt this position because of how small I am and the fact that I fall out if she moves at all. She began to very loudly humiliate me for how small it is and how she couldn't feel it or move, how she knew I was only going to last a few seconds, and how all of that makes sex with me such a chore. Between the open windows and courtyard outside and relatively thin walls, I knew that my humiliation was overheard by other guests. All of which turned me on so much! And so I came after only 20 seconds or so. She laughed and laughed, and then she looked me in the eye and said, "I hope you enjoyed that because that was the last time you'll ever have sex."

    She has kept her word too. The following anniversary we went back to the same place and stayed in the same room, but I was locked in chastity the entire trip (and some time before/after), and she did not bring the key. Instead I knew it was my duty to pack her favorite dildo and other things for her pleasure, and only her pleasure. That first night when she got horny she told me to go put on some pretty panties and fetch the dildo and eat her out while she got 'properly fucked.' And if anyone heard anything this time it was the sound of her pleasure along with the occasional comment about how much better it feels to have a "real cock" inside her instead of my puny dick. After I cleaned her and the dildo I was ordered to pull my pants over my pre-cum soaked panties and leave my face unwashed so I could continue to feel and smell my humiliation as we enjoyed our anniversary dinner.
     
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    Likewise here.

    Before we married we agreed that I am locked whenever we’re together.

    Sex has always been with me firmly caged and the strap on or her favourite toy.
     
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    Since being locked, we are have more sex, in various forms, than ever before. I just don’t get to finish very often. It became a new ball game when she took control.
     
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    Although I have a small this penis , my wife has said that she enjoys the intimacy of me ejaculating inside her. It’s a strange one as I cannot get her to orgasm with my penis alone, and I only last between 30 seconds and a minute she enjoys the intimacy. Our relationship is built around her deciding when she wants an orgasm and how. I cannot initiate sex (although we have plenty of kissing and cuddling. Most the time she wants an orgasm through oral sex or her dildo but occasionally she wants me to ejaculate inside her ( as she likes the bond it creates between us.). It is very rare that we actually do this, and its only on her terms.
     
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    Since we started chastity we have had more sex then ever, just not PIV.

    We didn't have very much PIV anyway due to pain on her part and inability to ejaculate from PIV on my part. So chastity has really just formalized that arrangement for us. In many ways it has helped since I am now free to focus on giving her pleasure in other ways.
     
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    Don't bother to get married. Too many legal pitfalls if you sign the contract. Do a youtube search for red pill and see what the consequences would be. Marriage is a tough gig as it is based on the legal inequalities, then you add in a women who isn't going to provide any to the relationship that you can';t get elsewhere, why get married.
     
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    Oh dear. Pity you feel that way. I recommend the institution of marriage, absolutely love it. Mind you I'm fortunate enough to have Mrs Chaste. Like most things in life getting married isn't a guarantee of happiness and does rely input from both sides to work. Having said that plenty of people are more than happy without wedding vows. A matter of choice really.
     
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    Still PIV free and no end in sight. I think maybe I've had 4-5 orgasms this year, few others have been ruined. Not in cage mostly it's honor system as she can tell if I did release when she's not around. Quite frankly I wouldn't do that anyway.
    Like some men, it's as if the brain has been rewired. A couple months back she was edging and jerking me asking if I wanted an orgasm. I actually begged her not to make me orgasm rather ruin it.
    She smiled and said that's a good boi. Uhhh
     
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    There are only 2 time periods a year I’m not allowed PIV, lent and Locktober. Sometimes Locktober is extended and the rule still follows, in fact milking and any stimulation beyond teasing also forbidden. During this period, she will have me wear a strap on and her mood determines the size she will ride. The longer I am in chastity, the larger the strap on in the harness.

    There is one couple in our small circle where the husband is not allowed any PIV and has been locked for the last 18 months. He brought this on himself with cheating on her and this is his punishment. He will remain locked for another 3 year, one year of chastity for each year he had his affair. Why does he tolerate this, she owns the company he works for, iron clad pre-nip, the fear of scandal, and they really do love each other.

    The worst part of his punishment is she chucks him and he must be there to witness part or all of the evening. None are an emotional coupling, she thinks of her partner as a human dildo. We have never witnessed this, both he has confirmed hoeing cucked and while wishing it would all stop says it hot watching her. She goes on a cuck bender every 6 weeks but has been slowed down by the events of this past year.

    I consider my self lucky I get PIV every 2 weeks, but wish I could swap places with him for a few weeks. My wife and I discussed this many times over the years but for other partners she prefers her girl friends instead of another cock. My cock is all she wants when she wants one, but will let me join her and her lady friends mostly while I remain caged. I still want the watch her with another guy, but should be thankful for everything else.
     
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    That couple sounds like the unhealthiest relationship I have heard of in a long time.
     
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