locktober 2020

Not exactly, just bad timing. I had already decided that I wanted to get it done when the piercing shop opened again. They made appointments available over a 10 day period, and those appointments went fast.

 

I think you made right choice.

 

I'm generally locked 24/7 and I expect Loctober to be no different.

Don't need to unlock for hygiene with The MCN Contender, and I am trying to not schedule any medical appts where I'd have to unlock (urology) next month. Sounds like "I'm in."

 

Despite using the honour system, my wife is very intrigued by Locktober. I’m currently on day 18 of chastity and moving towards once a month at best. I was privileged to be able to enter her three times last night, each time for no more than 5 thrusts.

 

My wife decided we will do the locktober and NOvember too. I will be out in the first 30 days only for cleaning and in november she will edge me but still no orgasm. It will be the first time so many days without orgasm. She said I will have the next one sometimes in December

 

Chastikey app?

 

I participated last year. I am not going to mention it this year.

 

I’m being told I am on the cusp of this as well but I’m not sure she will make me do it so soon. She realized the other day that October was approaching and got all giddy and smiley at me. She said “ooooh Locktober is coming!”

I was enjoying my freedom to frequently it seems. The PA is coming though. But as I feared I think Locktober is first.

 

For what it's worth, the pain is intense but brief, it lasted about 2 seconds for me. ...and then you will need to re-learn your penis sensitivity. ...I am still healing, so I'm not even sure if this is a long term thing, ...but WOW!

 

My BR and I are in. This will be our first locktober. Looking forward to the struggle.

 

Just got done talking to my wife/KH about it, and I'm officially in for locktober! It's been a long journey getting here and loving every frustrating minute. My previous best is only two weeks, so this is the beginning of something big for both of us! Seems like my KH is really seeing the benefits. Though, she really likes PIV sex, so this might be frustrating for her too

 

I get it as I like PIV too. I think it might be harder on us ladies.

 

Mrs Sen did ask if Locktober meant no PIV, when is the month of lots of PIV. Strapon is a reasonable substitute, but its still not the same for her

 

This is one of three reasons why I don't like "Locktober". It pushes a couple to cede control to a random made up month-long holiday on the internet rather than doing what is best for their relationship.

 

I certainly understand that perspective and part of me agrees with you. It's is the same reason I think Valentine's Day is ridiculous. However I and BR are excited to participate as it does force us to appreciate and recognize all that chastity brings to our life and relationship and I expect I will turn up the heat on our play a little in celebration of the month. It forces a couple and specifically women to embrace the life their men have chosen and asked for, recognize the sacrifice and submission. I guess locktober is a time I can honour and show my man some appreciation. Chaste men everywhere should be recognized during this time.
Much on this site is men with selfish agendas pushing their kink on their vanilla women. However if we reframe this and look differently these vanilla women have much to gain by opening their hearts and minds to all the pleasure that is a chaste man. I choose to honour that. Much love to all chaste men out there much love to my BR

 

So wanting to participate in the next three months of insane denial!!!

 

We couldn't wait for Locktober this year so I started on Sep 1st and plan to go until Dec 31st. To make things more interesting I'm also not allowed an erection for the entire time.

 

Thank you so much @MrsBR_Saiph for your kind thoughts. We appreciate all the great contributions you and @BR_Saiph have made. Please accept our love in return.

 

That was lovely my dear XO.
However, just being honest, as much as I've always wanted to try this, I find my heart doing double time in fear of the unknown. I've done 10 days before without being let out for some playtime so a whole month is looking scary!
I know there's many a champ on here that would scoff at such a short time as one month but hey.
It's like that thrill you get riding to the top of the roller coaster. You chose to be there, yet to the fear of the unknown of that first hill is equal to the thrill of having that very experience!
I do like being appreciated and honored though, and I am sincerely excited despite my moaning
I just hope you were joking yesterday about the lockdown already starting

 

You're going to find that you miss your erection more than you miss spurting.

 

You can do it! It'll give you a new appreciation of your erection when caged morning wood is all you have, and dramatically enhance your submission as well. Be strict, MrsBR.

 

And all will be had by a good time
Just sayin

 

It's going to be an interesting month for sure! @MrsBR_Saiph is a natural at being strict

 

I want to do it but idk if my gf will be on board for me being locked up.

is there anything online for me to let her read about locktober and she what’s it’s all about?

 

What it's all about? Someone thought that they were witty when they noticed that Oct and Locked rhyme so they came up with a way in their mind to celebrate male chastity while simultaneously excluding people who don't wear devices or focus on control over denial. Not very inclusive, huh?

I'm sure someone has come up with rules and tenets which are 100% guaranteed to be bullshit. The only rule or tenet should be to do whatever is best for your relationship and idiots on the internet don't and can't know what that is.