Hello from Eastern Canada folks. Over the past year with the help of the internet I have been exploring my kinkier side to see what I might or might not be into. It’s been a fascinating and eye opening journey so far that most recently led me to an interest in chastity cages. Locking up occasionally for fun sounded like something worth trying and as I discussed things I wanted to explore with my same sex spouse, he too had an interest in trying it. In part to explore that interest and in part to help figure out measurements and what worked or might work for us, I bought a cheap holy trainer style knock off from China. When it arrived we both gave it a try. He liked it well enough but for me, squeezing my testicles through the ring and finally after the excitement subsided, getting the cage locked in place, it was like something unlocked in me. I have always been an ass man mostly, and perhaps that contributed. But locking my penis up, losing the ability to feel my penis through the tube and not being able to achieve a complete erection and not having any hope of a good old fashion penial orgasm, felt right. Well really it felt fantastic. It felt like my penis was meant to be locked, something I would never have thought possible. So suddenly locking up took on a whole new dimension for me. Maybe this would be something much more serious and way beyond just occasional play. So I started wearing the cage for longer periods. It started with maybe an hour and has gotten now to the point of several days. That is nothing I realize in the context of what some folks here have achieved, but it’s a milestone I did not know even existed for me just a month or so ago. I was trying for the whole week this past week but had to unlock when I noticed some swelling in my foreskin. As an uncut guy I had heard some folks have this issue. But being locked feels so good and so right I won’t give up. Today my penis is all good again so I will give a longer stretch another go starting tomorrow. I blame the design of the cage and given I know this is something I want to do for longer and longer periods, perhaps one day becoming permanently locked, I have now ordered a Cobra cage from Kink3D. Having chatted with numerous uncut guys in chastity, this cage seems to work well so I have high hopes. So locking up unlocked a desire in me that I never knew existed. I will lean on folks in this community as I advance this journey. I am hoping In taking the focus off my penis as a source of pleasure, I might find my interest in much more intense ass play also unlocks so to speak. That will make me a very happy man! Therefore with this introduction out of the way, I am off to explore this site a little more!
Welcome to the mansion, you will find heaps on here to read and explore. Your chastity journey is your own, "a few days" may be a cake walk to some but to others it is a huge milestone. No one judges for your level of exploration and you shouldn't judge yourself against other either. The change in mind set from chasing your own orgasm for sexual satisfaction to obtaining your sexual satisfaction by serving your partner is a bit of a hurdle to get over, but if you find yourself heading down that path, it is extremely gratifying. Don't rush things, your body will take time to become accustomed to the cage and pay attention to your health needs. If you need time out of the cage for medical purposes (e.g. abrasions on the skin, swelling etc), then don't put it off. Its a marathon, not a sprint.... Enjoy Sen
Thanks for that...I intend to look after myself as I take this journey for sure. I may want to cage it but I love my cock so want to keep it healthy.
Hello and thank you for that report. Indeed, although i am just starting out, the feeling of “rightness” is remarkable and I never would have thought it would really be true. I don’t know how long i will make it in this beginning but honestly it feels so good and right, it could be a very long time.
Welcome to the mansion. It looks like you have come across a sexual milestone in your life. If I had to explain to someone that I have willingly given over control of my orgasms to my partner. I think they would think I was mad. But like you if just feels right.
Quite right. Most people would think you are nuts to say it feels both really good and right...how your penis was meant to be..locked. I actually am still processing myself why I like this so much....totally unexpected.
Well the cobra cage arrived last week. I have been wearing it for varying periods of time but I think I need a different ring...the only one I did not order with the cage wouldn’t you know. I ordered a 51mm contoured, a 47mm contoured and a 47mm standard. I find the 47s a bit too tight for now as I have a tight scrotum and need to stretch it. With the 51 contoured my smaller right nut pops out fairly regularly when I move. So I am thinking the 51mm standard might actually be the best fit for me. I won’t have it in time to start loctober so I will work with what I have and wear it as much as possible. I have a stainless steel one ordered now as well. It is the one that has a separate lock on the glans cover part so that while keeping the cock locked, the glans can be exposed for play/ teasing or whatever. I also ordered the optional urethra tube to try with it...I play with sounds a lot and can take an 11mm so I don’t expect I will even notice the 8mm tube which was the only available size. Looking forward to trying that cage and hoping it will be comfortable.