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  1. LockedInBama
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    LockedInBama I serve at her pleasure

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    #1 LockedInBama, Sep 14, 2020
    My wife/keyholder has had me locked up going on 8 months now.
    For awhile she would allow me to unlocked once a week or so so she could use “her” penis.
    For awhile she would enjoy teasing me and edging me...loving to see me try and get hard thru the cage.

    Now, I can’t recall the last time we’ve had PIV sex. I can’t recall the last time I was even hard.
    When she does allow me out (mostly to clean up), my poor penis doesn’t seem to even try and become erect. It looks like it has shrunk and feels almost useless.

    my wife loves sex and loves having orgasms, but she has sure made it clear she doesn’t need me for it.
     
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    #2 King Hippo, Sep 14, 2020
    are you ok with that?
     
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    #3 LukeVallentine, Sep 14, 2020
    Sounds like an interesting progress. Enjoy.
     
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    LockedInBama I serve at her pleasure

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    #4 LockedInBama, Sep 14, 2020
    Well, I of course miss getting hard and having orgasms but as long as she is happy, that is what is important.
     
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    #5 King Hippo, Sep 14, 2020
    Well everything that happens in a relationship should be mutual, even if that mean one of the partner's is giving something up. I am not a mind reader, but I hope you are satisfied with the situation.
     
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    #6 LesterBallard, Sep 15, 2020
    Okay
     
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    #7 starflyer, Sep 15, 2020
    I'm in a similar position
     
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    #8 BR_Saiph, Sep 15, 2020
    Unsustainable and best left to fantasy.
    It takes two to dance...
     
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    #9 Ormaz, Sep 15, 2020
    Yup, just like everyone else here. Me: eight years.
     
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    #10 madams-sissysub, Sep 16, 2020
    Same here!
     
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    #11 MissyB, Sep 17, 2020
    So do you get to help her have orgasms? Or have non-PIV sex? Seems there are many ways you could have sexual relations without using 'her' penis. Good luck.
     
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    LockedInBama I serve at her pleasure

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    #12 LockedInBama, Sep 17, 2020
    I do sometimes “help” her or at least watch her with her toys (she enjoys that).
     
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    #13 MissyB, Sep 17, 2020
    Then build on that. I'd love to help Her climax, or even just watch Her. Just find ways to share her excitement.
     
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    #14 MistressS, Sep 17, 2020
    You must realize She has you locked and your "penis" is hers do as she pleases. If your penis shrunk that's fine if she no longer uses it. If she like seeing you hard in you cage be thankful for that. I like seeing a locked cock and bulging out of it confines too. If she loves orgasms it is true she don't need you, but your tongue should be good. If she wants it. You should be honored to clean up. To me seems you have a great relationship others here would like to have.

    MistressS
     
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    #15 LukeVallentine, Sep 17, 2020
    A dominant lady that enjoys oral orgasms is real treasure and a great match for chastity-based FLR. You're absolutely right, this type of relationship is enviable.
     
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    LockedInBama I serve at her pleasure

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    #16 LockedInBama, Sep 17, 2020
    Yes Ma’am and thank you for your response.
    I do know that the penis attached to me belongs to her and she can do whatever she wishes with it (including doing nothing with it).
    I do hope she allows me to clean up.
     
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