I have an appointment about premature ejaculation. Just wondering what to expect from a visit to the urologist. I’ve never been, so I have no clue what it entails.
It depends. Normally it covers a complete exam of the external genitalia and a rectal exam of the prostate. Maybe also ultrasonic rectal exam. I would also expect questioning about the circumstances.
It may also be an ideal opportunity to discuss the fit of your chastity device with an expert and confirm no issues with long term wear.
So if the Doctor has her hand up your butt, and you react, as who wouldn't, with an erection. Does she jack you off, to see how quickly you cum? Maybe have the nurse, watch and time you? Well, if it were a porn movie doctor visit it would, but probably not in real life. Good luck with exam and hope they give you some help.
You should definitely mention your cage, explain how it is used and how frequently you are allowed orgasms. No point in undergoing treatment for a problem that may not exist. I don't know your personal circumstances or how your relationship works, but have you considered that being locked and denied is almost certainly going to result in extreme levels of extended arousal and cumming in seconds once released?
It would be better for the doc to have all the pertinent information. I understand the emarasment but you could end up with the wrong treatment.
It was a problem before chastity. Initially, we got into chastity to remove any chance of me cumming so we could focus on her getting orgasms every time. It has since morphed into long term/permanent chastity since she found she enjoys my denial. I’ve just finally decided to get things checked out and see if there’s any issues that caused it.
Just ask since you're there anyways having your junk examined. That way if a future problem comes up you'll know for sure not to worry about your cage.
Long periods of denial have exactly that affect on me- I can literally explode just entering my wife I'm so sensitive. While as a domme my wife finds it rather funny, it does bring challenges to me as I absolutely am NOT allowed to orgasm until told to do so. She has had mercy on me a few times and I'm literally like 2 strokes and done. It happens.
I actually visited an urologist when starting my experiences with chastity. The doctor was surprised: "Usually men want to have more sex, more erections and more ejaculations." He anyway checked my junk and could not say yes or no about whether it's safe and sound or not. I gave him some keywords to google and left.
Just my opinion and no offence is meant. But I feel very uneasy about exposing a professional to my "kink". I have no doubt that most if not all would take in their stride but it really is not part the job description!
I to believe that involving unwitting people to your kink is not a good thing but i dont think that applies here. Asking a medical professional for a medical opinion is fine. Especially if the subject is raised in a respectful manor. I also believe that chastity usage is becoming a lot more common. It looks like china is mass producing cages with very low price margins. Thats only be possible if a lot of people are buying them. If your urologist is not aware of the trend i would sugest they need to be.
Yes we shouldn't force our kinks on others. But medical professionals are hired to care for us. So when it's relevant to our health it's our responsibility to discussion them in a mature and respectful way. There's a difference between trying to shock and get a thrill, versus discussing things for medical care reasons.
I see your point. No offense taken. Just wanted to be safe and ask a professional, whether there may be dangers ahead. The meeting with the urologist was some years ago and I don't remember it so well, but I do remember two things. First was that as I am not circumsized, and I had painful swelling when I kept my foreskin rolled back for prolonged periods, I asked whether something can be done about it. The doctor told me that "Actually no, it is what it is." Luckily I did not believe the doctor and decided to try to keep the skin back longer periods each day and this paid off. Now I keep the skin pulled back all the time and it is just fine. The doctor mentioned that there's some fluid buildup in my right sack and told me to keep my eyes open so it won't get worse. And if it gets worse, he told me that it can be fixed. And, as it happened, it got worse couple of years later and I had to visit hospital. I have been quite careful about cock rings since. Too tight a cock ring and strong erection created too much pressure in the sack and something broke. My right sack was as large as my fist before they punctured it. The needle hit the testicle accidentally and I can tell you that it is not something you want to experience. Unless you are a pain junkie, of course. I am not. So the visit was a "technical" visit, I was not there to flaunt my perversions to a bystander.