Locktober 2019

I have tried locktober and failed. Maybe I will train for this year and build up to it.

 

I Can't fail Locktober - I don't have the keys

 

I did it last year and with exception of a few days it was fine

 

I am looking to get some lock up time under my belt (pardon the pun!), before taking on the Locktober 2020 challenge.
Curious, as a novice, to understand whether it is generally accepted that any continuous lock up time allows for regular release for cleaning /shaving or not.
Being locked for 30 days and denied an orgasm is one thing. 30 days without any release for cleaning is something else. Just interested in how you all interpret such periods of being locked up?

 

I am curious too, but it's going to be tough to find out. I am SURE that it has been talked about a lot.....but finding that specific post(s) could be difficult. (This is a huge string, not sure the search function would find it.)

Perhaps you could start a new post with a very specific title?

 

I've been locked for 15 months, the cage I wear is a fairly open cage but does it's job efficiently.Cleaning is not to much of a problem, cotton buds can be used for the awkward bits, tissue when I pee etc. Incidentally, due to Lockdown Mistress last removed the cage at the end of January for cleaning, I have not had a problem since then.

 

I use a plastic cage it needs to come off every fourth day for cleaning. I did loctober last year but had cage off for cleaning but not allowed to cum. I went from 28 September to 8 November

 

Does anyone know if it is possible to escape from Cellmate- I’ve transferred authority rather foolishly and my Domme is refusing to release me

 

I have been informed we will be participating in Locktober. So far this year she has only let me cum once in May and once in June, so going all of October will be business as usual

 

If your going for a full fem look, its kinda in the way. If it is just a lifestyle party then it is what it is

 

Started long term this morning. First day. We are intending to have me locked all the way through Locktober, starting now. Who knows, with the way my Mistress feels I may also do no nut November as well. I did last year but didn’t start this early. We will see. Wish me luck with the lock.

 

I wonder if there is a way of changing the title or this thread to Loctober 2020, or maybe Loctober.

 

Is there a Locktober 2020 thread? I know that wasn't your question. But should we start one?

 

Hard to believe it is nearly time to be planning for Locktober again. When you are married to a vanilla, asexual wife and doing self locking that she has no interest in there is not as much enjoyment from it. I still might jump into the pool though.

 

-To me there's no reason not to do this, you participate in a shared experience and get to piss and moan in our happy torture. I think it'd be awesome for you to join us all @smlocked

 

The reason I asked about renaming this one is it is pinned to the top of the screen. A new thread would get mixed in with the other ones.

 

For Locktober 2020, my Mistress has decided that I will fully commit to it and participate. I will obey.

 

Sounds interesting.

I'm currently on day 13 of a planned 14 day period. Its the longest I've been locked yet (the prior record being 10 days). My wife and I have agreed an unlocking after 14 days for some mutual fun, although I have already pleased her on a few occasions during this period,

I've always noticed that distinct euphoria after about 5 days, but this time am feeling it step up even further after about 11 days. Its crazy. Its such a lovely feeling, Such a feeling on being on the edge all the time, Even my nipples get erect often and clothes brushing against them makes me breathless. I feel so sub all the time and willing to do anything sexually at all. So, 13 days so far and this is the best its been.

So the thought of going the whole of Locktober is very, very exciting. I think I will be doing it.

I always thought that those who want to be, or are, permanently locked were either fantasists or delusional. But I'm now beginning to understand the lure of it; its like a drug, a lovely high all the time. I can see its addiction and wonder if I'm to be the next one to fall under its constant spell.

But the way I'm feeling right now, Locktober excites the hell out of me and is sure to be the next step.

 

Locktober is always a challenge for us. My birthday is right in the middle of the month and my wife enjoys me being free, as do I. so I am usually locked until that point but I never get to officially finish the month. For anyone considering it though I will say the feeling you get being free after a long lock up is incredible. But be warned what used to feel amazing after a month locked up now takes three months to achieve for me so just know you are being conditioned by your own body to crave something that takes more effort to achieve and even more denial. Chastity play is very addicting

 

I love locktober. First month to see how long you can take it. But this year it will be different for the first time, as I'm permanently locked now.

 

This year will be the first for us to show our respect for Locktober and NOvember. Although I have stayed twice locked for longer than 40 days it will be the first time when we will try 2 months and will be the first time during those months.
We haven't took any final decision about how we will do it. We thought it will be OK for locktober to stay completely locked and not receiving any penile stimulation for the whole month. Maybe only anal play if my mistress will have the pleasure to fuck me. For NOvember we though that I will be allowed to have oral or handjob teasing and edging and she is thinking to give me ruined orgasms. She likes piv so will use me for sex but I will have to wear a lidocaine condom and a normal one in top of it so she will be sure I will not feel anything and I will not have an orgasm.
My mistress( wife) is still learning to be a mistress with me and that is why she has some doubts that I will be able to stay 61 days without an orgasm and also is still feeling guilty sometimes that I will not have any orgasm during this period. That is why she wants to give me in NOvember some ruined ones. The problem is that I want her not to give me those.
Although the thought that I will not have any orgasm in 2 months, scares me a lot the excitement brought by this thought is bigger and I can't wait to start it.
But idk if she will be so though to resist the urge to give me some relief. Any ideas how to make her to be more severe with me and how to make her to get rid of the guilt and of the regrets that she is feeling good and i am locked ?
I really need her to be more indiferent to my needs when I am locked and not having the guilt feelings she has. I always explained her that i am fine and that the final destination worth the wait and the mixed feelings during this time but she still can't overcome those feelings of guilt that appear after 3-4 weeks of being locked.

 

My key holder has me on a break at the moment (3 weeks unlocked) after being locked up for 12 weeks which was our longest lock up yet.
I’ve pointed her to this forum, so hoping that she might fancy locktober too!

 

Longest locking period for me was 72 days.
It was Locktober and NO-vember untill 10 december.
We usually play 1 free week per month. My wife picks the week.
Could be 3 weeks apart, could be 6 weeks apart.
The week that I'm free, I can loose 'free' days as punishment.
I had a lazy midweek once ... turned into 9 weeks of locking time ...
Be carefull what you wish for ...

 

I lock because I enjoy locking for my wife's benefit, and she likes locking me up because she likes control. I dunno if she is interested in Locktober that much just because...it takes away her control, lol.

 

What cage do you have