Comments on pictures: body-shaming

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  1. MistressNicx
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    I am sorry that has happened, I can only see three photos on your profile and they are all beautiful (including the one of your husband).

    I am a large lady and have been body shamed most of my life, but never in these type of forums. But I guess that men in here respect ladies, but clearly not men. Body shaming is not acceptable, male or female.

    good luck with your journey xx
     
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    No such body shaming is allowed here. Every man and woman come in different sizes and shapes
    The chastity domination taking the roles come in mind not in physic.
    Be here and u would appreciate the fun and responses slowly
     
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    It was not a complaint from my end, in fact a compliment to the men here, just disappointed that some feel the need to be unkind to a fellow man x
     
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    That comes with age is it :)
     
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    haha at this point, what can anyone say that I haven't heard before.

    I hate that type of body fixation. We all look different. Life leaves its marks and we carry that map with us and to me the idea that some person will take it upon themselves to judge the appearance of others here of all places (note: unless someone explicitly asks for it, no shame there) makes me think that said person has some issues to deal with. Those pics were great. And not all are nicely lit photos but everyone is fucking brave enough to show themselves as they are. And kudos to them. And complainy mcwhinerson - grow up.
     
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    This is a damn fine answer. Thank you for posting it.
     
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    Nice to see this is not expected at The Mansion .
     
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    Glad to hear this kind of behaviour is reported. Totally unacceptable.
     
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    Just to add my two-pen'orth to everyone else's.I've just had a look at the pictures and think they are lovely, tasteful and completely appropriate. Please don't let the action of, hopefully, just a lone(ly) idiot put you off. I've been a member here for years, as you can see, and have found it to be a very warm, friendly and accepting place to be . . . hope it becomes the same for you.
     
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    It is funny that a lot people will "spam likes" at photoshopped pictures of male heads on a woman's body on this site... but there exist a small proportion of the site that body shames...

    My point is... there is a higher like count of pictures on the site that are clearly fake when compared to real images. I find it ironic & funny.
     
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    I'm sorry that happened. There are some great people here, and sadly some douchebag winners as well.
    A site like this provides an outlet for both the good and the worst in society.
    Gotta keep a thick skin unfortunately.
     
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    It is unfortunate that negative comments have been directed towards you and your partner. We open ourselves up on these forums sometimes revealing our most vulnerable selves hoping for acceptance in a terribly unaccepting world. CM is generally a safe place to peel away the facade and bare for all to see and comment on.
    Age and the confidence I have grown into has helped me own my imperfections and show them with pride. I now wear those imperfections we all have like war wounds. Every line on my face every sag of my sin just says I have lived and laughed, bore children and worked hard. Learn to love and accept yourself and the attitude of others will not matter so much. Best wishes ❤️
     
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    Thank you so much for all the positive comments and nice remarks. We really appreciate it. And yes, we are doing fine. Proud at the pictures we posted and enjoying CM as well.
    But we would like to adress it. So we started a topic to create awareness and a positive vibe. It is good to notice that all comments are kind and the members support a positive vibe and reject body shaming.
    It is more lack of communication skills of some men and forcing their own kinks in a negative way Just make normal contact and ask some polite questions instead of placing your own remarks about your own kinks. But for now I wish everybody alle the best en lets enjoy chastity and kinky stuff.
     
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    Maybe you could point out the obvious fake and photo shopped pics for me?
     
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    While body shaming happens all over the internet, I have to wonder if the uptick has to do with some trolls going a little stir crazy lately and taking it out on unsuspecting users?

    It's not a solution, and it's really a poor excuse, but it could be an explanation.

    Body shaming is also a crap thing to do with someone. Perhaps whoever these folks are, they could consider taking up a valid hobby past insulting folks?
     
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    I agree, let Lucy know.
     
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    SO VERY sorry this happened to you. I saw your photos, please post more, they are perfect photos for this site. Unfortunately, there are jerks everywhere in this world. They know they're jerks, just ignore them. They are nothing to me, my Queen, or anyone else. Would love to have a convo with you (both?) anytime. Just message me (us).
     
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    I've been on here for a long time, and haven't had any trouble. I do get some SPH once in a while, but I appreciate that instead of disliking it.
     
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    There are always a few people who are inconsiderate, total perfection is not possible. Most people at CM are supportive and considerate. All of your photos were beautiful , a photo of (What is yours in a nice cage would be a nice addition)
     
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    You're welcome to take a look at my pictures!
     
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    we have excellent moderators and mostly excellent members, but in every walk of life there are idiots. Sorry you encountered ours.
     
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