PA Piercing Update For Those Considering

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    So I got the PA 2 weeks ago and thought those interested might want to know what to expect.

    The Piercing:

    Go with a good piercer, this is your junk. Look at https://safepiercing.org/ and find one in your area. It will be more expensive but this is an important part of your body an you would hate to have to let it heal and redo it later. It cost me a little over $200 which included jewelry and aftercare saline spray.

    The piercing was much easier than expected. With a professional piercer, it is just like visiting the doctor. Only about a half second of pain and minimal blood.

    Next day, after a night of nocturnal erections, I woke up with a bit of a horror show. Not too bad but I was stuck to my underwear. Fun. After that, it stopped bleeding very quickly.

    No saline soaks, I used a saline spray and just sprayed the piercing every time I went to the bathroom. Healing has gone very well with minimal irritation.

    The biggest issue has been dealing with getting used to the metal in my urethra. Was very bothersome for about a week. Two weeks in and it does not irritate me any more although I am still sensitive.

    Had the pleasure of trying it out PIV today and it was definitely too soon. Wife REALLY and I mean REALLY liked the jewelry but those spasms of pleasure were a bit painful for me. It should be a lot of fun in the future, especially as I gauge up a bit.

    Ordered a custom Glans Armor 2 from malechastitynow.com expecting a month of wait and Mark shipped it out after about 4 days. It will be here Wednesday and I will have to use my patience and wait to put it on. Ordered a 6 gauge, so i need to size up from 8 first. Patience, patience.

    Not an expert by any means but if you are on the fence and have a question, please feel free to ask. I am more than happy with my decision.
     
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    Thank you for sharing, very informative.
     
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    You will get used to having something in the end of your urethra. The skin will toughen up over time.

    I have a 2 inch urethral tube inserted which cannot be removed with the cage locked on. I got used to it.
     
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    I am also glad that it went so smoothly for you. It is really not a big deal if you are serious and committed to taking care of it.
     
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    i'd love a piercing but too scared LOL
     
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    Honestly the hardest thing is going to be patient about gauging up. I am going to let the piercing naturally stretch and when the 6 gauge barbell fits, cage is going on.
     
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    @starflyer
    Seriously just do it. No big deal at all.
    Do some research and you will see that everyone says that.....because it is true.
     
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    There is nothing to be scared about. my PA was my 6th piercing and honestly was the least painful of them all.
    i also had two nights of the quoted horror show. Wear underwear to bed and use a maxi-pad. There will be what looks like a point of blood staining if you don’t. But you won’t die.
    As for recommending piercings it would depend if your wanting pierced for chastity or for her pleasures. Chastity is what the PA is for. If you want pierced for her pleasure then you want a frenum piercing, she will love it flicking back and forth on each stroke more than the PA
     
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    You are at 8 gauge? My experience was that you have to stretch that with tapers, because the weight of the jewelry is not really enough to stretch it.

    I waited about 10 weeks before I stretched from 8 to 6. Don't rush it.

    Subsequent stretches take less time, but you want to make sure that it is fully healed from the initial piercing.
     
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    @Alceste
    Yes I am at 8 gauge.
    Thanks for the real world experience.
    If I need to do a stretch I am thinking about going with the tape method to gradually stretch. Trust me I am going to move painfully slow on the first stretch. Not even going to think about it until 6 weeks.
     
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    I used a taper to stretch. When the piercing had felt comfortable and stable for several weeks I would take a shower and slowly work a taper into the piercing. There was always some clear limit to how much my tissue would stretch but usually large enough. After I got the taper far enough in, I would swap to the jewelry. It felt tight for a day but then fine after that. That is what worked for me.
     
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    What function does it serve?
     
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    It is integrated with my PA lock. It increases security.
     
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    I see. Thanks.
     
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    Last night was a huge win for me, first penetrative sex and first orgasm with the PA. I was coming off about 4-5 weeks of chastity with so my KH just let me go at my own pace and come when I wanted to. No pain, no discomfort, and felt amazing.

    When she started to glow and say, "Ohhh I can feel both sides of the jewelry and it feels AMAZING" it was all she wrote.

    She's already told me today I can go again tonight but no O for a few weeks. Gotta get my hormones right again. No way she gonna spoil the sub lol.
     
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    Sounds like things are going well for you. It’s good to go slow. Painlessly slow ;)

    I am aware about the tape method. (I didn’t trust myself based on my plumbing skills.)

    I bought and used stainless steel tapers for stretching. Probably from BodyArtForms.

    https://bodyartforms.com/products.asp?jewelry=tapers
     
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    Had my regular 5 week manzillian wax today. My girl goes Oooh, never seen one of THOSE before. Guess I made for some water cooler chat after I left. No way does she keep THAT secret to herself, lol.
     
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    @Peter Rabbit Thanks I might go with the tapers, we will see. It doesn't help that I have my GlansArmor in a drawer in the bathroom. Ordered it at a size 6 gauge so I need to do one stretch.

    Mark got it to me in about a week, can't beat that. I might have to send it back to get the extra bars that you got, there are a lot of sensitive areas exposed under the cage.
     
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    @SubSnuggler You will feel everyone staring at you next time I am sure.
     
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    I’d wear it for a while without getting it modded. Don’t immediately try to defeat it. Work on comfort. I only added extra guards after years...
     
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