What strap on / dildo would you recommend for me to wear while caged? Comfort,cleanliness,and quality in that order. Please and thank you
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There is a conversation going on about a man whose wife is considering taking a lover, and part of that is talking about strap-ons as an alternative. The conversation includes soe recommendations. https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/well-it-happened.38634/
There are plenty of discussions on this topic, it is worth searching. We use a Spare Parts Deuce, and a Vixskin Maverick. The harness has a pouch for your cage and most of all, stays put. It can be tossed into the washer for cleaning. The Maverick is very life-like. Warm it in hot water first and use plenty of lube. The Vixen toys are pricey, but the quality counts especially if she is luke-warm about trying it out. Be aware that this act will mess with your mind. You go through the motions, you see it, you hear her respond, but you feel nothing. On the other hand, it is great to focus on only her without worrying about your own ability to perform. Good luck.
Do NOT cheap out on the harness. VixSkin are awesome but a great harness seals the deal. Check out the https://www.amazon.com/SpareParts-Deuce-double-strap-Harness/dp/B0049H7IHI Spareparts Deuce. It makes the dildo part of your body.
Can't recommend this harness from Locked-in-Lust enough... https://lockedinlust.com/product/crotch-rocket/ Great quality and it's actually designed to be used with a cage. Works with pretty much any dildo too.
Well, as long as everyone else has an opinion, here's mine: https://www.stockroom.com/catalogsearch/result/?q=Terra+Firma+Dildo+Harness "Terra Firma: the Earth may move, but your dildo won't." Marketing blurb from original creators Stormy Leather. The Stockroom bought them, and has co tinued carrying the line. The Vixskin series are expensive, but worth every dollar in terms of realistic feel. Our preference: get a model with no testicles; it allows you to wear it lower on your hips for a more natural position. And again, there are several good threads on this topic. Search on Vixskin to find them. Note: we've been calling this "foxing". There may be a thread on that, too.
Wow, you got our exact combo. Wife loves the Maverick. It is the only way she can orgasm from strictly vaginal stimulation. Be sure to warm it up good before you use it. Good times in your future.
If you get a cheaply made harness, the dildo moves around and you can’t control it. It is already a challenge since you don’t have any sensation and it is in a different spot on your body. A good harness makes all the difference. You got a great combination.
The spare parts harness hasn’t arrived yet. But Maverick came in and boy did it get the job done. I was worried it was to big, and so was she when I pulled it out. She took that cock like it was her job! I was was and am so proud if her. My little size queen!
My experience with the Maverick is the same. My wife thought it was too big until she tried it. Now it’s her goto toy.
Be prepared, if you choose to buy a strapon for you to wear, it is a mind-bender. You see the action, you are making the moves, she is responding, and yet you feel nothing. And, she may choose it over you!