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    For the life of me, I could not find a thread related to Loctober 2020. So may this be the one.

    I fully plan on participating this year. Perhaps my chastity skills and endurance are finally sufficiently well developed to stay locked for the entire month.

    May I ask, can folks respond with some of the expected guidelines and things? Like all things chastity, there are probably levels of being hardcore.

    Let's hear from y'all.

    Laz
     
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    At the moment I think people are still relying on the pinned thread for Locktober 2019.

    For me, with an asexual wife who also dislikes my chastity wearing, Locktober is 24/7 with no removal at all. I wear a Lori 5 and cleaning is manageable without removal. I may be getting scheduled (finally) for gastric bypass surgery though, so that could be the only reason for removal.
     
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    Good luck with the surgery good man. Any surgery is tough, but I am guessing this one is particularly challenging. So I wish you a great Locktober and successful future health!
     
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    I've been locked since May. October won't be any different.
     
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    Since May? A most noteworthy achievement. Be sure to offer any tips and recommendations for us newcomers to Locktober. I admit, it's scaring me.
     
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    Same here, October won’t be any different to the other 11 months of the year for me.
     
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    Don't we have to get through Sextember first?
     
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    Are you it's not secure September?
     
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    "Keptember"?
     
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    Locktober, NO-vember. It's all the same to me! I've been locked up for a long time with no end in sight! But I'm loving every minute of it so I have no complaints! :)
     
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    well @Lazlo Toth i think the way to do it best is when you locked up is try not to keep think bout it and then its a bit better for men i think.
     
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    I was 'denied' and we started the clock over again last weekend, September is already a given as it would be too soon, Loctober is an every year thing, NOvember, same... These 3 months, I'm sure to be kept locked. I'd be happy to 'participate' in something themed, but not any sort of celebration at the end, that's not up to me!
     
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    I'll be updating my well-read Locktober posts on Tumblr again this year, but we're also working on a more vanilla version for partners who aren't ready for the kinkier stuff that it progresses to later in the month. I'll be sure to come back with details!
     
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    Last Locktober was my first and I was locked for every day, but allowed out for cleaning. I had two cages Os, and one free release with an immediate recaging. Before that, my longest number of days in a row was 10.

    I have been using an HT nub and can’t go too many days without a cleaning, but it’s usually only of for 20 minutes during our shower and cleaning.

    This year I was told to find a more open cage before Locktober so she won’t have to unlock all month. I’ll have September to get used to it. She has also indicated that even a caged release may not happen during Locktober. Luckily she hasn’t said anything about “NO”vember or Deny December.
     
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    Right now on probation, hoping to meet my goal and then will be available for Locktober. My wife said she had some interesting things planned for this year. She had me replicate a fucking machine I built many years ago into a whipping machine that we still hadn’t used. I turned the axle mechanism sideways, put a pause servo on it, and even have an ITTT interface so she can stop and start it remotely.
     
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    Let's not belittle those that have not been locked long term or don't go 30 days without an unlocking (except for cleaning, of course). For many, 31 days is a difficult challenge.

    For me, last year it was the first time I went 31 days without an O, edging, milking, or any other stimulation. It was quite a challenge and I will do it again this year.

    Remember, everyone is following their own personal chastity rules and rewards. There is no right or wrong way to do it.

    I welcome all who join us on this journey.
     
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    The foundation is a comfortable cage. If you can wear it for a month with no issue then you can wear it for a year.

    Hygiene is the next issue. With my contender it doesn't need to come off to stay clean. I took it off once a week at first. Then I went two weeks, then three, etc. I found when I'm totally flaccid I can fit a pinky all the way in my cage by pulling my penis out as far as I can. Its still anchored by the pa but it's got enough strech to let me give it a good scub. But I have to remain flaccid or things get too tight to move. So no chance of a pinky masturbater situation.

    Dry everything off as good as possible and cover everything in coconut oil. Food grade coconut oil actually kills bacteria and fungi. Due to the fatty acids.

    Shaving is the other wild card. Some have to be hairless others don't. My wife doesn't care. I keep things trimmed as close as I can and don't worry about the rest.

    I've gotten a few small abrasions after being teased. Due to the open design I was able to successfully heal them without removing the cage as well.
     
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    Given the challenges of recent months for many (if not all), I'm wondering if there is anything "fun" that could be done to make Locktober something special/different?
    Nothing specific in mind, just thinking aloud....
     
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    O's in LOctober...
    Wow, if you are going to "participate" in Loctober, having orgasms of any sort SEEMS to be 'against the rules'... Entirely up to each individual and their partner/keyholder, but I'd consider that in bad taste.
    Everyone's chastity journey and the arrangements that a lockee has with themself or another person regarding their chastity experience are and/or should be defined..
    If being caged is the only thing, then enjoy! BUT, if not touching your bits and not having sexual release is the objective, then don't try to have orgasms....
    Sorry, just our/my views. To each their own.......
     
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    The chastity community needs to ditch Locktober in favor of an actually inclusive No Nut November. Not everyone has a chastity device, wants one, or even needs one, so focusing on the wearing of one does not help spread the idea. Chastity devices should be presented as a tool to aid, not the end goal.
     
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    You could call it "Not-tober" instead of Locktober. LOL.
     
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    Great suggestion on the coconut oil. I'd have never thought of that. I'll have to try some.
     
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    Guess you could say that we are just wrapping up Nah-gust or Nogust?
    o_O
     
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    Abstinence August.
     
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    Fully intend to participate in Locktober.

    For me, it will mean no release from my cage for sexual purposes. I shave twice weekly and remove the cage for that, I would find it too uncomfortable to not do this (plus both I and my wife prefer the look and feel).

    Will it mean no milking or caged orgasms / caged ruined orgasms, don't know. They aren't really part of our repertoire yet, but in a month with no actual penis stimulation, she may want to try something different, I'm good either way.

    As for something fun for the month, not sure but no orgasms for a month or no penis stim would be challanging enough to begin with for me
     
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