Highly Controversial.

@ashes1334 I wouldn't worry too much about having asked this. It provokes good discussion.

I'm about as hetero-vanilla as they come, but have to admit this cage or this kink has blurred a lot of lines and I can now at least understand a lot of related activity that I would have refused to even read in the past. Maybe some take offense yo the terms you use but there IS something to this that changes your brain - I'm convinced.

 

Even if it was true, does it matter? As long as it works for all parties involved, any kind sexual preferences is valid.

 

I'm laughing because while I first thought this was crazy, I thought back over my 20 plus years as a chastity device aficionado and, if not an expert, a long-time answerer of questions.

I can not tell you how many pictures of dicks I've seen, locked & unlocked, in the last 20 years. More, much, much more than I ever cared to see. And in the 10 years of running a much smaller board than this, I think that if we did not have rules against it, 80% of the men would set their profile picture as their locked or unlocked tonker.

Also, when other guys learn about my very, very long term "encagement" by Mrs Edge, almost invariably I'm asked if she pegs me.

And that's not even counting how often such questions come up here, or how frequently one sees those themes in chastity fiction, captioned pictures, and Tumblr posts.

So, you may have a valid question here.

For my own situation, we seem to be in the minority because we are not in an FLR or BDSM relationship. I love PIV, as does Mrs Edge. I honestly have no sexual interest in men. I'm permanently* locked because it's about the only thing that seems to give Mrs Edge a kinky thrill, and I do enjoy the high of the constant arousal. So, that's where we ended up.

* for some value of permanent, as discussed here:

https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/the-permanent-chastity-denial-matrix.35312/

 

I'm in the top right quadrant

 

There's a time and place for everything-it's called 'college'!

 

I think there is some truth to that however, I think the control and lack of access to male genitals just means we get relief where we can whenever our KH says we can.
I don't think just because I like pegging that it makes me gay and I argue that with my wife.

As far as liking the pictures, deep down inside I just wished it was me caged and feminized due to how humiliating it is. If my wife wants me to wear a santa suit in bed it would have a similar effect as wearing a pink thong. Yes I'd choose the thong because it's prettier and easier to hide. Just I'm pretending I'm forced to do something I "don't" want to do.

Don't get me wrong, I don't take any offense to the question.

 

Chastity is just such an umbrella term. Someone could be using it for a variety of reasons. Humiliation, power exchange, FLR (or equivalent if gay), deprivation, so on and do on. Someone who looks at men in chastity is as gay as someone who watches porn. Would watching porn with a woman with a man make you gay?...I suppose it’s the same question though. Everybody falls somewhere on the Kinsey Scale of sexuality.

 

The male body has no appeal for me but if Mistress instructs then well...

 

Chastity and FLM lead many down a road to depravations not otherwise brought up. I'm not sure bi/gay play is different from the other kinks explored.... but all started with wanting to give wife power over their sex organ...

 

You can keep trying but you know this thread is going to continue until the day you die. Even then, we are going to stand up and each give our thoughts on the subject instead of a eulogy at your grave site.

 

I would be surprised if anyone on this site felt uncomfortable being open about anything including homosexual tendencies. This is such an open and welcoming community. We may all have different preferences for different aspects of chastity and kink but generally all are very accepting.
If we are taking a vote all are definitely not closeted homosexuals. Many also like to assume women in the swinging/poly/cuckholding lifestyle are bi. Not this woman I am all about men. That being said I may find myself in a situation someday with another woman. I still consider myself completely straight.

 

I think sexuality is a fluid on a spectrum. Labels are irrelevant.
Just be yourself, respect others and be happy

 

I think there is often something odd going on around gender as much as sexuality. If you dig around, you find that eunuchs have historically been objects of desire for both men and women, so I do wonder if for some of us chastity functions as castration-lite.