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    This one could be the one that does me in.
    But f it. Here goes.

    Are a majority of chaste men closeted homosexuals? When you begin to look at it, more turned on by viewing other men in chastity and/or panties than a woman. Don't mind giving up piv altogether in placement of pegging. And men dominate the forum. All contact I've had online in personal messaging was from a male contact with the exception of one female who wanted to convince me I was gay.

    So... Is that what it really is when it comes down to it? Or no? Remember, I said majority, not everybody.

    Just food for thought. Don't expect an answer.
     
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    ummm, clearly not a majority. no.
     
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    Again, not trying to be offensive and nothing wrong with it if it is that way. Just, crossed my mind.
     
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    I think chastity may be a thing in the gay community, but honestly I dunno. The demographic of this site seems solidly, overwhelmingly, hetero. There may be more people willing to experiment, but I think you would expect that in a kink community..
     
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    The phenomena that I found interesting was you're more like to get props for being chaste from another male than female. Men are more inquisitive into the matter overall.
     
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    Just wondering. Not stating.
     
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    i would be the first to say i'm kinky, a little odd, and enjoy watching my wife with other women, but other men never appealed to me.
     
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    Awesome question. Very insightful. Although, you may have let a few off the proverbial hook by saying "closeted". If you had said "latent"......I'll bet there would have to be plenty of yeses....
     
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    It's not a bad thing. Just crossed my mind like I said.
     
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    I think the kink community is just more accepting of different types of people.

    If someone wants to dress up as a woman and watch his wife get pounded by a bull. Good for him/her.

    There does seem to be women out there that think a submissive male = gay, and a raging homosexual if they like anal toys.
     
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    Interesting question.

    I'm not sure about "turned on by seeing other men in chastity", but I do look at pictures of it from the view of "could I find that comfortable", "am I wearing it right", "how does it look on", that sort of thing. When it comes to chaste porn, I am more research / scientific in my viewing, looking for ideas I can bring into the bedroom with my wife rather than specifically being aroused by the site of a caged cock.

    To draw a line between closet homosexuality and chastity though I think is a stretch.

    Many people watch porn, predominantly shot by men, for men and includes more often than not a close up of a blowjob, closeup of PIV or PIA action and ofcourse the money shot. Now I would guess that the bulk of men watching male on female porn identify only as "straight", but does the fact that they get aroused by seeing another mans penis performing sexual acts also make them "closet gay", I'd say not. Perhaps its because they envisage themselves as the penis owner on the screen rather than fantasizing about the dick itself?

    I was thinking about a scenario this morning in the shower. If I was to go through an airport scanner in my cage and it got picked up and they wanted to see it, would I want a male or a female officer?

    I actually concluded a female. In my view, a female is more likely to be less judgemental of the device and more professional in their viewing, I'd feel far more comfortable revealing my junk to a female than a male.
     
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    There's absolutely nothing wrong if you had chosen male. I don't want to come off as being critical. And I don't want to accuse anyone specifically. It was just a thought.
     
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    This is finally the thread that makes me add you to the ignore list. Congrats
     
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    Oh man. But all the good times we had together. Noooo.
     
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    Admittedly, and I stated it was controversial. It was a question. Not a statement. And there's no bad answer! Chill chill. So answer seems to be no. Thank you. That was all.
     
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    Gender is a difficult subject.

    I don't find men attractive. I don't find men with vaginas attractive.

    I find a majority of women attractive. I find some women with a penis attractive.

    It must be the femininity I'm attracted to. Not the genitals them selves.

    You're trying to connect dots that won't draw any conclusion. You're trying to rationalize something that isn't rational.
     
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    I find attractiveness in both depending on the person.
     
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    To add. How do you figure every man on here is turned on by other men in chastity?

    I'm not. Do I browse the gallery? You bet! It helped me tremendously picking a device and gauging how mine should fit and look when it's right. This is the only reason I post my pictures. I hope it helps someone else get the right fit.

    I have so many other things I'd rather jerk off to. If I had the capacity to jerk off!
     
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    Fitment is an extremely good reason. I'm not being sarcastic. Product photos really don't give you a good idea because they don't show it modeled.
     
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    On this forum we have such a great diversity of models. It's a Terrific resource. Not wank fodder.
     
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    Completely understood. It's why I prefer to ask rather than assume.
     
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    But again. I don't want to discourage anyone who is lbgtq+ from the forum. Whether for fitment or you just enjoy it, there's nothing wrong with that. We're all in this together.
     
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    I've done bi things on rare occasions with people I know well and trust, but I'm definitely not gay. I don't like the idea that doing something with a guy somehow makes you gay, because to be gay, you'd have to have never found women attractive sexually, which is far from the case. Lots of guys do like forced bi, as it adds to the humiliation level that they crave. Again, not gay. My gay friends consider me straight, even if I've had bi experiences, because they also know that I'm not gay. My Mistress is queer, but she's also not gay. She's dated girls and guys, although she prefers girls, but I'm her partner now. It's not a black/white. Gay/not gay world.
     
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    To be fair I didn't say gay. I said homosexual. Which literally by definition is a same sex act. Again I'm not critiquing anyone. It was a question. It upset many. And really I'd prefer for the thread to die as it wasn't my intention to upset anyone. From here on out I will be silent. I really am cool with anyone. I just felt bad if there were people out there afraid to be open about having homosexual tendencies, be it bi or other. Be comfortable in your skin. I'm not here to judge.
     
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    interesting point but i think moor lickly to be bi sexual i know i am ive sucked moor cocks than ive licked pussys . but then theres far moor cocks avaliable to a sub slut like me lol
     
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