All or Lock

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by ashes1334, Aug 23, 2020.

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Lock it or Lose it?

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  1. Yes! Lock me up.

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  2. No! But this bums me out.

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  1. ashes1334
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    Make believe situation so don't take as a serious question. You're presented two options, be it by your holder/mistress/wife/partner etc.
    Locked from here on out or no chastity altogether. Which do you choose?
     
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    Title was supposed to be all or nothing. Wups.
     
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    I am not sure that the answer is that simple. It takes time to build up to that sort of decision.

    If it has been carefully decided by both, then why not?
     
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    Scary thought.......arousing thought......

    I think you highlight the irony of our "sport": So many of us wish for the proverbial never ending lock up.....yet, if you truly forgot what it felt like to be free and cumming.......The sting of chastity may be gone.

    I voted for Yes, Lock Me Up.
     
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    Right? That's a tough decision. I'm not sure myself.
     
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    Easy one for me. I would never make a decision to eliminate PIV from our relationship so chastity would have to reluctantly be put aside.
     
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    Yesterday after my 10 day hiccup I was as 12 days no cum. Out a couple of times for cleaning and once for play with no cum. I must honestly say the feelings I had yesterday where so powerful I was having to squeeze my legs together to numb it a bit.

    wife could see and took pity last night I was out again but for ruined orgasm.
    I would rather have had a good. Lap to the balls to take my mind off it.
    Still feeling it a bit today but only a fraction of what it was
     
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    It's kinda scary being asked this kind of question by a guy who has Rammstein lyrics about cannibalism as his signature ;)
    Nevertheless, I'd choose option 1.
     
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    Yeah! That's some story isn't it?! Actually happened.
     
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    Germans are very advanced when it comes to fetishes, I'll give'em that. Too bad they blew all their goodwill when they abandoned the M62 engine.
     
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    Lol Still have Rammstein which is good enough for me.
     
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    I'll ride this spank train and go all in!
    The reality though is more complicated as the thought of only having cage gasms is a tad frightening. Even though I'm locked damn near 24/7, I know there's still rewards to be had.
     
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    Could you imagine being in that situation? She's holding the cage and gives you those two options. Be pretty hard to turn down! Might regret later. And the final click of the lock..
     
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    In my vision the sub is restrained. All answers are final. No going back once you've said yes, the cage is going on. Make believe of course. Lol
     
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    I love the paradoxical aspect of this choice. I think if truly locked for life, it'd be terrible. Yet, most of us have at least thought about it while swelling in our cage.

    So much for a "dumb" survey......lol. It really got us thinking.
     
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    Me too!
     
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    Thankfully it's not a realistic scenario! :)
     
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    Not necessarily, as long as you're in a loving relationship.
     
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    going down this path now with my lovely and strict keyholding wife who is 20 years younger. We are married for 10 years and we've been into chastity from day one, for me its been 26 years practicing chastity on and off. Finally I am in a very secure and tight fitting Cage with a PA.
    It took a long time trial and error to get it right. The options now better then ever!
    Now that she wants me locked and completely denied always and forever, I am feeling calmly accepting.
    Remember reading 24 years ago on Lori's chastity website of her permanently locking her slave away and thinking how macabre and torturous life Pauli was condemned to, yet now I don't feel the same way about it.
    Chastity IS the new orgasm for me and this is my new normal.
    Think how easily the world changed and billions of humans now wear masks for God knows how long to be...only 6 months ago that was unthinkable!
    Chastity is such an amazingly powerful tool, I am in awe of it - now more then ever and grateful to continue on this path.
     
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    I'm not being sarcastic, I love that you compared it to wearing masks though! Lol I'm not sure why, I just had to laugh. 10 years! Congrats! So as long as you're both happy that sounds awesome.
     
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    Honestly, the thought of staying locked for good fills me with contentment, whereas the thought of permanently unlocking makes me pretty anxious. I know exactly what my choice would be, and I’d make it without hesitation.
     
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    Having held virtual keys if you will, I didn't like it when subs were too content being locked. I'd then tease the hell out of them. Otherwise there's no power in giving what they want. Unfortunately they'd break the key out. Lol
     
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    Long term contentment, punctuated by bouts of frustration. Still better locked than unlocked, for me anyway.
     
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    The frustration was what made it fun for me. Especially the overlapping kinks, made it easier to trigger it. Only useful tool I think to being an online holder. Otherwise there's not much fun to holding. For me at least. I don't anymore.
     
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    Agreeing to never go without being caged for life? I'd really have to like the holder. Like @remyruff 's situation.
     
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