Other sexual activities when locked

i get most of my sexual pleasure from nipple play i can have many many mini orgasms this way

 

We were attracted to chastity so I would learn to have sissygasms and it is working. In our relationship it is fine for me to have orgasms as long as I am in my cage. I get a lot more sex now because my dominant gives me to their friends periodically, as well as using me themself. It is utterly delicious, I am far, far happier with the clit in her cage.

 

i never though of having orgasms in a cage how do you uasuly achive them ? must say it sounds very atractive

 

I like having my balls squeezed and tugged quiet hard also my nipples squeezed too.

she did it for the first time this morning while I was pleasuring her and it was heavenly. To me it’s always pleasure for them uncomfort for me.

My wife is very vanilla so this was a big step forward.

 

Since I'm into BDSM in general, sex is a lot more..."comprehensive" than genital focused. However, since I'm currently single and I don't have anyone to provide service to or to top me, when I masturbate it's only anal.
For my body, anal orgasm is superior to penile orgasm whether I'm locked or not.

 

@debbie jones , one comes while in chastity by a number of means. I am now learning to have anal orgasms, and here is a video I used to do it the first time: https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph57e933f6ce3a2#1 . It takes quite a lot of effort now to get there, and my purpose is to learn to cum every time I'm fucked.

My nipples have been orgasmic for years, and I used a technique written in the *original* "The Joy of Sex" to connect nipple sensations with clit sensations. They transferred very fast to anal sensations, so the right person and the right bondage can bring me off with my nipples only.

 

hope it continues for you x

 

I hope so too! I think I have convinced her to sign up here as she is a bit overwhelmed with it all.
I explained she could chat with verified females
In the key holders section and promised no to read here thread.
I have so many ideas but I want it to come from her, I am in my 22nd day locked now only 1 cum
Which was a mistake on my part, I woke early and she had left the key on the side! I was 10 days no cum and horny as hell temptations got the better of me. I owned up she took it quiet well to well no punishment of anything.

 

yes

yes its not easy getting you female into this chastity thing ive mentioned it to my wife recently but shes not said anything since so im leaving her to think about it for now befor i mention it again

 

Anal and prostate stimulation can make me cum but only if I have been edging in my cage for a day or so. After I cum I only want to remove the cage. In an effort to stop that I’ve resorted to putting my key in the trunk of my wife’s car when she leaves (I don’t have a KH yet and I use chastity secretly). With the key out of the house I use toys and vibrators until I dribble cum from my cage. Now all I can do is clean up and wait for her to get home with the key. By the time she does I’m ok with keeping the cage on longer. Not ideal but it’s working for me ok for now.

 

When I'm locked we seem to have more sex than usual. I must be doing chastity wrong haha. It's just such a turn-on for both of us, so it'd limit our activities quite a bit if I had to stay locked. For us though it's never about denial, it's more about building anticipation and control.

For other sexual pleasure though I can recommend oral (giving), strap-on (giving and receiving), vibrators, anal toys and also any type of kink play like bondage, wax play, sensory play etc. Those can all be rather hot to do and you don't need your cock for it.

 

Giving her oral is my favourite, I think I now get at least as much pleasure as I used to get from PIV. One thing's for sure, most times it lasts much longer!

 

You've been a member of this site for 12 years. Have you not browsed it at all ever? Every 3rd post is about the topic.

 

We engage in more intimacy now than before and I certainly grope her bum and boobs a lot more. She will also pay more attention to my caged penis than she used to, possibly because it is a tease / denial thing and she knows it won't lead further than she wants it to.

As for sexual activities, we still have PIV once a week at her discretion / direction so long term isn't yet a thing, but outside of that one PIV, we will engage in oral and toys for her and even have introduced me wearing a strap on. Still figuring out how to make the most of the strap on, but its an enjoyable journey.

 

you could try a double ended dildo if you fancy reciving

 

When my husband is locked in his chastity device we have much more sex than when he is without his cage. Of course we dont have PIV nor he gets penile orgasms. But he is going down on me much more often, even when he isn't told do do so and he does it with much more enthusiasm. We also give me pleasure with my vibrators, womanizer and toys and often he says after playing, that it was like he had an orgasm....but for sure he was locked all the time.

We are on a point of chastity lifestyle where his penis and his orgasms are not longer in the main focus. My orgasms and my pleasures are the most important and he accepted it and loves it.

TKIM

 

your husband is a very lucky man im very enviouse of him i would love to be in his position id be quite happy for my wife to cage me and throw away the key . but unforchanatly shes no longer interested in sex so i dont get the chance to pleshure her . i do however get to meet guys as im bi and she does not mind me pleshuring them its better than nothing but id much sooner be doing it to her x

 

When I am caged and there is no hope of my release, it’s all about her. Summer is usually an at any time it strikes her, the warm weather, the pool, and having the ability to be without clothes because of the size of the property and the tree lines with no neighbors nearby. At any time we are enjoying the sun and the water she can beckon me over to her chair to please and pleasure her.

some weekends it can be multiple times on Saturday and Sunday, it depends on her mood and if she has a few alult drinks in her. After I am done pleasuring her, we take a quick dip in the pool and then either do a task or back on the lounge chair. She remains stark naked, while I remain in my cage.

If I have been extremely good but it’s not a scheduled weekend for release and she wants to reward me, she will tie me to the cushion ropes and tie me to the overhead sunscreen and then play with my cage to edge me on. A few times she has worked me up, stopped, gone into the house and returned with her Hitachi wand and turn it up full speed and place it on the bars of my cage. In less than 30 seconds, I will be rewarded with a great caged orgasm. You know it’s great when you can see it shoot out of the end of the cage or if it strikes a bar it splatters all around.

 

For me, when I'm locked, sex all becomes mental. Feeling more submissive, exploring my sissy side more completely and just realizing that my pleasure isn't necessary. Physical release isn't my decision, it belongs to my owner. I just try to focus on making Her happy and using the extra energy I'm not wasting on my own sexual pleasure to be a better submissive.

 

sounds like you have a greatr life

 

That's the right direction, naturally. Anal toys and strapon all the way.

 

We do have one that we have used a few times in the past, not for a long time though. Find it a bit awkward to use and last time she complained that I had too greedy of an ass, as I took the lions share of it . She has pegged me in the cage which was enjoyable

 

lol

 

Yes, many of the locked up guys here get sexual pleasure in ways other than having an erection-based orgasm. Personally, I have grown to love it when my wife/KH takes me with her strap-on. I can actually have a discharge from the urethra while still being caged from the strap-on. I've started to enjoy it to the extent that my wife purposefully taunts me. She'll say, "I always knew you were a faggot," or something like that, which of course just gets me even more excited.

In other words, sexual excitement is not limited to a man's cock (or a woman's vagina, for that matter) but is derived to a far greater extent from his or her mind.