My wife and I are trying to have a child, we have not had much luck. Therefore, I am being sent to what we are lovingly calling a 'Jiz Clinic." This week I am being told I have to be orgasm free for more than 2 days but less than 5 days and cum in a cup. Well we are on our time to play (good for me right!). BUT, Since my most recent lock up;I really want to make my chastity last. Basically, I want to be in full servitude of my wife and not my self pleasure. Being told to self pleasure without her presence directly conflicts with this?.... Anyone have a suggestion of how we should handle this? Servitude to her is a must. Should I be punished for touching myself? Suggestions are appreciated!
Isn’t having a child your goal. Whatever you need to do to accomplish that goal is serving your wife and your familial goals. Do as you are told by your healthcare professionals. Being a Dad is going to require a lot from you. of course you should be punished for jerking off in a cup. You broke your vow of chastity and servitude to your lovely keyholders. You should double whatever the punishment is. Learn to clean the house to your wife’s exacting standard. You should assume all of sexy/fun time is gone after your becomes pregnant. Be husband and a dad. Your wants and needs come dead last. Enjoy the hell out of the time you have until then.
It is, we are not the lock up permanently type. I am locked to make sure my orgasm is only for her. We are honestly trying to have a child and I have been released when the time is appropriate in the month. We haven’t been successful after a moderate amount of time, therefor we sought out a Dr who suggest we both get checked. Thanks Rodeocowboy for the words of encouragement I know the challenges ahead are real
If you are serious about this, wouldn't the orgasm be for her? Consider you are trying to use some type of artificial insemination that she is obviously agreeing to as well? I really don't see how this is an issue at all...
Me neither. "Jizz Clinic". What's the confusion? Regardless, "May your first born be a masculine child". Jk jk. Lol. IDK. Good luck.
We are not going the artificial insemination route currently. This is a visit to check counts and motility. I am not trying to avoid the appointment more seeking advice on how to incorporate my wife and my servitude to her. I am locked to stop masturbation and orgasm and to only have her however it seem almost against the rules to be freed and masturbating without her. I am quite surprised how judgmental the responses can be to someone just asking for some suggestions of how to incorporate my wife. I do like the suggestion that rodeo Cowboy gave he seems to understand how I feel which is that it feels as though a break in my vow of chastity for her.
If you are wearing a cage, take it off. You are hurting the sperm in your testies. The testicles need to move freely to help regulate the temperature of your sperm. A Cage prevents this from happening. If you are trying to have a baby, game time is over. Attempting to conceive is serious. You are attempting to create a human and bring it into this world. Anything you want, like or desire no longer matters. It is now and forever will be about the baby. From this point forward, life is now about the well-being of your child. Take the cage off you will have to supply the will power to be true to your wife. Start wearing boxers, cut back on the Coffee. However, have a cup of joe 30 min before attempting conception. It makes them swim faster. It worked for us. Eat well, no more fast food. Get 8-9 hours a sleep a night. You want to give this new Human every chance to make it. Because having a miscarriage is an emotional pain that I do not wish on anyone. The scar that it leaves on your soul is there forever. The joy of being a parent, especially that of being a Father is indescribable. Good luck to you both. Iso.
You can't drive a car and catch a bus at the same time. Choose! If you really want a child, give up the chastity for a while. get the wife pregnant as you both want, and by whatever means is available, and then you can continue your chastity game. You want to be in full servitude to your wife but you don't want to comply with what's required to get her pregnant as she desires. That doesn't sound like full servitude to me. Many of us have a similar situation. She wants PIV so she unlocks us for sex when we know we'll be more content remaining locked up. Do we selfishly refuse to have PIV? No, we do what's required. It's what she wants, can you not see that?
This is good advice and iso said similar to me in a thread I raised. I don't think we were is strongly into chastity as you guys so it wasn't much of an issue. Our clinic said we could produce the sample at home if we wanted but we lived close to the clinic. You could maybe ask them about this? Like others say tho this is a special exception I would say.