Why do chastity men act like it is not their choice?

Well of course, in most cases, it's a mutual decision. That's the way for a majority of choices in a good relationship. But it does make it feel more 'real' and 'exciting' if we pretend that our partner, wife, girlfriend, Mistress, or significant other is forcing us to comply. For me, it is the act of submission that is thrilling. Chastity is just one method of submitting and a visceral one at that. But for others, it may be the heightened importance placed on their penis by locking it up, or the switch in focus to more pleasure for their partner. So there are lots of reasons to go this route, but making it seem like we are innocent bystanders to the process just heightens the excitement.

 

If I was to 'secretly' get one in private, I'm not sure I could get away with it. The hormone shift for me is so severe and we've been together so long I'm pretty sure my Miss would notice. She's told me many times the punishment would be severe if caught. For me it isn't much of a choice. Sure, I started the journey but Miss picked the road.

 

Huh. I found that story in both the original version - and on page 28 of - Dossie Easton and Janet W Hardy’s “The New Bottoming Book” - copyright 2001 by Greenery Press. I don’t know the copyright date of the original version, but I remember the story from it.

 

I like this - especially the concepts of limits. Although I must admit, i've found that my preconceived boundaries are pretty soft, at least initially. Maybe after several experiences, i'd be able to more accurately define them. But the idea that both parties agree to participate is clear.

 

OOPS! I have that book as well, I misattributed the quote

 

It was my choice and wish in the beginning, but it was transformed into something else. She told me last week, that if I did not put my belt back on, she would not have anything to do with me.

Can I stop? Not really sure now. With a lot of talking, I'm sure.

 

I asked for it when I was off work for six months after surgery, I’d of wanked myself to death left to my own devices. She was gracious enough to say yes on condition that she kept both keys and made the rules. She seems to have come to love it....

 

Chastity is essentially sexual roll play. The roll of chastity slave calls for reluctance.