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    Finally got round to introducing myself, having been a member for 3 months.
    Discovered male chastity through reading Elise Sutton's book Female Domination. That must have been over 10 years ago. Since then, apart from dabbling in self locking a few times, it never progressed any further. However, the desire to incorporate chastity into a relationship has always been there.
    Fast forward to 2020 and my GF of 3 years now knows of my desires and we have tentatively made the first few steps. We live apart, albeit only 500 yards distance! The Covid-19 Lockdown seemed a good opportunity to introduce a different type of Lockdown!
    GF was sceptical at first, but one night I got told to wear the cage I had previously shown her.
    Shortly after that, I gave her a copy of the book by Lucy Fairbourne - Male Chastity a guide for keyholders. I was delighted that I got positive feedback when she had read it.
    Seeing her wear the key on the necklace I gave her was a turn on.
    Been wearing the CB6000S (Chinese version) on and off, but comfort was hit and miss. Followed the excellent advise & tips by denying thumper on a different website with regard to getting the fit right. Best I managed was 8 days. But other times I struggled with discomfort after only a couple of days.
    Cleanliness & hygiene were also an issue, and she is now not so cool on the idea. She also didn't feel any benefits, which I know has to be a motivating factor in this.
    So, having looked at a few steel cage alternatives, and got some good reviews here, I decided on getting the A271 & A273 (Chinese) models to try out.
    I still have some work to do with persuading the GF, but hopefully she will come round again.
    Any advise on this would be appreciated.
    In the meantime I am testing out the two cages to see which one is most comfortable for long term wear.
    Locktober 2020 is not far away!
     
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    Welcome, formally, to our community. Hope you participate more, now that you are out of shadows, and find it useful and enjoyable Good luck.
     
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    Thanks, I'm sure it will be both useful and enjoyable as we progress on our journey
     
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    Welcome to The Mansion!!! Hope to meet you in the chatroom sometime!!!!
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    hello and (belated) welcome. Good luck with your explorations.
     
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    Welcome to the mansion!
     
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    I am somewhat new here also but I have found everyone on this forum to be honest and supportive. I have learned so much about the different aspects of our kink. I do not feel like I am different, I feel like I belong. I hope you will too.
     
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    Well, I think the girlfriend is now getting a bit more enthusiastic in keeping me caged.
    Since changing from plastic to steel, I haven't had anywhere near the level of discomfort issues I had previously. Cleanliness and hygiene are also much easier to manage. She no longer has to release me twice a week for this purpose.
    Once I had got used to wearing the new cage, I broached the subject of Locktober. She readily agreed, and asked for the keys. I did see a glint in her eye as I did so, which led me to think that maybe she was getting turned on this time with the concept.
    I was asked to keep a diary every day of Locktober of how I was feeling, and give a score out of 10 on levels of horniness & frustration. I text this to my girlfriend every night.
    I have had one release during Locktober, that led to piv and an orgasm. However, the subsequent drop in libido after being so horny is not a feeling I like. I feel much better ensuring she has as many orgasms from my tongue that she wants, and retaining and increasing my horniness. She has definitely noticed how much more energy I have for her when locked.
    Hoping this will continue beyond Locktober!
     
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