Finally got round to introducing myself, having been a member for 3 months. Discovered male chastity through reading Elise Sutton's book Female Domination. That must have been over 10 years ago. Since then, apart from dabbling in self locking a few times, it never progressed any further. However, the desire to incorporate chastity into a relationship has always been there. Fast forward to 2020 and my GF of 3 years now knows of my desires and we have tentatively made the first few steps. We live apart, albeit only 500 yards distance! The Covid-19 Lockdown seemed a good opportunity to introduce a different type of Lockdown! GF was sceptical at first, but one night I got told to wear the cage I had previously shown her. Shortly after that, I gave her a copy of the book by Lucy Fairbourne - Male Chastity a guide for keyholders. I was delighted that I got positive feedback when she had read it. Seeing her wear the key on the necklace I gave her was a turn on. Been wearing the CB6000S (Chinese version) on and off, but comfort was hit and miss. Followed the excellent advise & tips by denying thumper on a different website with regard to getting the fit right. Best I managed was 8 days. But other times I struggled with discomfort after only a couple of days. Cleanliness & hygiene were also an issue, and she is now not so cool on the idea. She also didn't feel any benefits, which I know has to be a motivating factor in this. So, having looked at a few steel cage alternatives, and got some good reviews here, I decided on getting the A271 & A273 (Chinese) models to try out. I still have some work to do with persuading the GF, but hopefully she will come round again. Any advise on this would be appreciated. In the meantime I am testing out the two cages to see which one is most comfortable for long term wear. Locktober 2020 is not far away!
Welcome, formally, to our community. Hope you participate more, now that you are out of shadows, and find it useful and enjoyable Good luck.
I am somewhat new here also but I have found everyone on this forum to be honest and supportive. I have learned so much about the different aspects of our kink. I do not feel like I am different, I feel like I belong. I hope you will too.
Well, I think the girlfriend is now getting a bit more enthusiastic in keeping me caged. Since changing from plastic to steel, I haven't had anywhere near the level of discomfort issues I had previously. Cleanliness and hygiene are also much easier to manage. She no longer has to release me twice a week for this purpose. Once I had got used to wearing the new cage, I broached the subject of Locktober. She readily agreed, and asked for the keys. I did see a glint in her eye as I did so, which led me to think that maybe she was getting turned on this time with the concept. I was asked to keep a diary every day of Locktober of how I was feeling, and give a score out of 10 on levels of horniness & frustration. I text this to my girlfriend every night. I have had one release during Locktober, that led to piv and an orgasm. However, the subsequent drop in libido after being so horny is not a feeling I like. I feel much better ensuring she has as many orgasms from my tongue that she wants, and retaining and increasing my horniness. She has definitely noticed how much more energy I have for her when locked. Hoping this will continue beyond Locktober!