Climaxing after extended confinement

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    I have a question for everyone.

    I find that my first climax (when permitted) after release is very weak and takes about a day or so to recover to normal "Pressures".

    In my mind this logic makes sense...but, then again so do many other things that others might not agree upon.

    My thinking is the mechanical process behind the ejaculation has been dormant for quite some time and like my pool pump...takes priming before it is up to speed

    What is your experience like...opinions appreciated.
     
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    What are u considering long time confinement
     
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    Anything over 2 weeks
     
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    My first confinement of a month my KH gave me a handjob I blew like mount st Helen's. I know have been in lock with no release for 45 days (with no scheduled release date) not sure what will happen it feels different doen there i can sleep all night with no hardons and the ones I get only last a couple seconds.
     
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    For me it all depends on the process involved in the release. If I can really get into it, get excited with some teasing and mental stimulation, then my orgasm can be quite explosive even after a lengthy lock up. But I've also had weak, basically unsatisfactory releases, where little pleasure was gained and more regret from having broken my chastity. So just depends on the moment and situation, so don't think physical denial has a significant effect.
     
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    It creates that endless dilemma. On one hand you can crave cumming like you crave a cigarette but you also know the disappointment of breaking your chastity. Sometimes I desperately want to make love to my wife but alas it's not my decision, some days I really could just blow like Mount Vesuvius.
     
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    I'm at 100 days today with zero release. Now I'm concerned what my "first time" is going to be like...
     
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    Some Mistresses are quite happy if you are allowed one orgasm after a long spell of confinement, and that orgasm is not satisfying: it adds to your frustration. Straight back in the cage after the one orgasm...
     
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    This has been my life for 2.5 months
     
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    After a while, you stop retaining fluid in your reproductive system and sperm is reabsorbed back into the body. I'm not sure what the optimal level or what the period is, I would guess it changes from person to person.

    I am orgasming once per week at my wife's direction. She has commented that she can feel it inside of her, like fire hydrant. All my orgasms since starting chastity have been internal, so I can't comment specifically on their strength from my perspective, only they do feel intense
     
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    There are a lot of factors involved. Your pubococcygeus muscles (the pelvic floor or Kefel muscles) may be underused, and not easily able to help squeeze out the semen. You may feel over-anxious and not have enough build up before ejaculation. You might be overly sensitive and orgasm before you've had time to build up a really good arousal. Or being unlocked might just feel weird.

    I know that when I used to get unlocked, the first orgasm after a long period might be physically strong, but usually left me feeling unfulfilled.

    Now that I'm never unlocked, Mrs Edge will sometimes "encourage" an orgasm in my cage. The last time, I managed to shoot down my legs, past my feet. So, physically it was pretty strong, although they always leave me wanting more.
     
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    I was always Locked right after being allowed a orgasm, or a ruined one or a tease. It did take me longer to get to orgasm after I’d been locked for several months.
     
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    I had probably my most satisfactory experience after a 50 day abstinence. Sadly I was on my own but I remained caged with a dildo inserted. I teased my caged with my wand. Wanting the moment to last I removed it but exploded from within my cage some seconds later. I don't think I have ever squirted so powerfully.

    The feeling that I was powerless to prevent what had happened was fantastic.
     
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    I have a really strong orgasm and ejaculation after being locked for an extended period. However, it can also be a little painful for a few minutes/hours afterwards (more reason to not have one :)
     
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    We’ve both discovered the joy to be had in ruined orgasms, the first one after an extended lock up is an interesting sensation to say the least. Also, I think, after 30 something years of “normal” orgasms, it’s something different, which is why I like them so much. If my Wife accidentally gives me a full orgasm I feel a little disappointed to be honest
     
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    The vast majority of long term confinements (30 or more days) is a milking the night before release. The next 24 hours is knowing I will get my orgasm soon and really keeps me on edge. When released and time to cum for the first time, I can shoot like my younger days. My wife always jokes about this one being dangerous, I could take her eye out.

    The worst experience of this is after I do orgasm, she plays with the head by rubbing it just so and its like torture.
     
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    I have had mixed results with this. I think the best orgasms I’ve had have been when I have orgasmed for the first time in months and it’s inside my Domme. However, if I just have a wank to end a spell, it can be very unrewarding.
     
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    Most guys will take matters into their own hands every few days (if not more) when they don't practice chastity in some form or another. Masturbation is the least satisfying option by a country mile. While solo play can be satisfying and pleasurable, nothing compares to sex with my wife.

    Sex with my wife after a month of teasing and confinement is almost spiritual.
     
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    Not every time, but yes that happens occasionally, probably about one in four times that I'm unlocked. Sometimes my erection is very weak and I don't cum on the first day/evening, but normal function has always returned the next morning.

    As I quite enjoy chastity and denial, I don't worry about it. The consequence of getting stressed about it is that the stress won't help the situation. Easier said than done though if you're not that way inclined.
     
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    My first cum after a 145 day lockup was a huge disappointment. It was like my dick had forgotten how to cum. I was still shriveled a bit, and the semen oozed out instead of squirting. It felt OK, but it was a long way from a good cum.
     
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    I thought I answered this yesterday so maybe it was a very similar question elsewhere.

    Yes, after an extended lock up, the first ejaculation is often meagre. Things then get back to normal
     
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    I’ll echo what many have said. From my experience if I have gone even a couple-few weeks without orgasm, the first one I’m alowed to have is very underwhelming from a volume standpoint. Yes, I do have that orgasm feeling, contracting as if I’m going to shoot ropes but it’s hardly ropes of semen. Usually it’s low volume, oozing out and sometimes will even burn. It’s as if your cock balls and prostate dislearned how to shoot ejaculate.
    After that, the next or the one after, things return back to normal.
    Since it’s been 122 days since my last real orgasm, how I know how underwhelming it will be if I’m allowed to have one.
     
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    My longest "period" has only been 8 days... though my last official outing was 15 days after lockup, but I had sabotaged things after 10 days...another story.

    BUT after 8 days Madame Vanilla's snatch rips the come out of me: always her on TOP. She has decided to make up for lost time after years of having a husband with a deflated libido from daily porn/masturbation and the consequent lack of sex..now she WANTS her piv.

    Watching her get herself off on my cock eventually sends me into nuclear fusion and I have mighty orgasms. As we use a condom I can see its nice and full usually.
     
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    I too blow like Mount St Helens lol, anytime after 10-17 days. 17 being the longest, but this month will change that!
    If it's with PIV, full stimulation, all jets firing, it's actually extremely painful, like a firehose about to split because it's so forceful. Good pain though, just unworldly intense!
     
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    The recovery period from the downtime you mention is often referred to as The Drop and for good reason

    The time taken to get over the drop can vary immensely even for individuals.


    There are many factors.. here are a few.
    The intensity of the orgasm/s
    If you feel you are drained physically afterwards ie. you feel empty
    If you really were 'emptied' or 'drained'
    If it was just a accident involving little more than a slight leak
    A dry orgasm
    If it was or they were ruined
    If you tried to not orgasm fpr what ever reason and failed to prevent it
    All these factors apply as does of course as one might expect age and virility.
    Did you disappoint your KH or yourself or both

    Not to mention your own attitude. and of course it can be different every time
     
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