Hello everyone, Nice to meet you. My name is tom andi identify as a submissive male. In the vanilla world i am pretty alpha but it does not feel like my natural place in relationships. In 2017 i started what i consider my journey proper in the ways of D/s and female Led Relationships. And by that i stopped denying the truth to myself and became focused on learning the lifestyle and trying to make it a reality. As with many of us, that journey started online. Fast forward to today and i have made some pretty special connections within the lifestyle and have learnt much about myself. One of those connections was a Dominat lady who whilst being very special to me and has guided me on this journey is only possible online and so to fullfil my desires in life i am still looking for that real life connection. In real life i am making friends principally on the Reading fetish scence and at London events. Principally Femdom events in nature. Regarding chastity specifically, the online Domme i mentioned above has me locked up and under Her control. At first this was mental chastity but 9 months ago She moved me into physical chastity using the Vice chastity device. And that is about it. Please come and say hello whenever you like. I am a pretty socialable guy.