Nipple piercings, yes or no

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Lakeman, Jul 3, 2020.

Random Thread
  1. Lakeman
    Offline

    Lakeman Long term member

    Joined:
    Mar 5, 2017
    Messages:
    913
    Likes Received:
    927
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Australia
    Local Time:
    5:08 PM
    In the last year or so I’ve really got into nipple play, the pleasure pain is wonderful as my wife goes to work on them. I’m now thinking of piercings, and am interested to hear from CM members on the topic. What are the pros and cons?
     
    tomf_22033 likes this.
  2. MissyB
    Offline

    MissyB Long term member

    Joined:
    Mar 16, 2019
    Messages:
    7,912
    Likes Received:
    11,375
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Occupation:
    maid, (I wish)
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Tennessee hills
    Local Time:
    3:08 AM
    I've never been a fan - basically nipple is wonderful on its own and there are so many ways to play, tease, and taste them, that a piercing would just get in the way. Course, i'm old school, so that probably explains my opinion.
     
    Shepherdsflock and 1mlockedup like this.
  3. DaedalusBelt
    Offline

    DaedalusBelt Active member

    Joined:
    May 23, 2020
    Messages:
    74
    Likes Received:
    45
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    3:08 AM
    I want them, I think they are cool! Unfortunately, me state currently isn't allowing piercing.

    From my reading: they won't make you more sensitive, but they still enhance the sensation itself. So if you are already sensitive, it'll likely be really nice. If you are not sensitive, don't expect that much change. Aside from that, it takes a long time to heal. Anywhere from 6 months to a year. If you're prepared to go up to a year with no nipple play, I say go for it!
     
  4. jet_silver
    Offline

    jet_silver Active member

    Joined:
    May 24, 2020
    Messages:
    51
    Likes Received:
    100
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Occupation:
    Engineer
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Space coast of Florida
    Local Time:
    3:08 AM
    They are just delicious. They made my nipples much more sensitive and I am very happy I did it - 30 years ago. Yes, they're still incredibly erotic and the only regret I have is that I didn't have them pierced sooner.
     
    Missy Tanya likes this.
  5. tomf_22033
    Offline

    tomf_22033 Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 6, 2008
    Messages:
    3,040
    Likes Received:
    3,713
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    VA USA
    Local Time:
    3:08 AM
    I wasn’t a fan of them until my ex got them. Omg I fell in love. I want my done, but I’m waiting awhile until the time is right. I have some personal reasons why I can’t do them now.
     
    Anonoman likes this.
  6. rxbuk
    Offline

    rxbuk Member

    Joined:
    Oct 31, 2019
    Messages:
    27
    Likes Received:
    31
    Trophy Points:
    13
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    8:08 AM
    i too want mine pierced, i like the look of straight bars as opposed to rings. i love nipple play quite a bit, probably too much and wondered about using clamps on them when pierced would it be safe?
     
    tomf_22033 likes this.
  7. Miffy
    Offline

    Miffy Long term member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2018
    Messages:
    354
    Likes Received:
    1,624
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    8:08 AM
    My wife likes options so i have one pierced-i love it for it's symbolism and increased sensitivity
     
  8. Burn_e
    Offline

    Burn_e Long term member

    Joined:
    Mar 7, 2019
    Messages:
    152
    Likes Received:
    273
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    9:08 AM
    Absolutely recommended and great for nipple play.
     
    tomf_22033 likes this.
  9. LesterBallard
    Offline

    LesterBallard Long term member

    Joined:
    Oct 2, 2016
    Messages:
    15,689
    Likes Received:
    5,522
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Management
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    United Kingdom
    Local Time:
    8:08 AM
    mever been a fan. Why hide something so beautiful behind metal?
     
  10. madams-sissysub
    Offline

    Joined:
    Apr 30, 2009
    Messages:
    12,375
    Likes Received:
    6,719
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    nurse
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    uk (west mids)
    Local Time:
    8:08 AM
    Highly recommend it! I used to have mine done, but they grew out, for it it really, really heightened sensitivity to them!
     
    tomf_22033 likes this.
  11. tomf_22033
    Offline

    tomf_22033 Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 6, 2008
    Messages:
    3,040
    Likes Received:
    3,713
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    VA USA
    Local Time:
    3:08 AM
    if you let them heal. And if they’re done right. So talk to the piercer before you have them done.
    Don’t be shy. Remember these are people that stick needles in peoples private areas, they won’t be shocked or judge mental.
     
    rxbuk likes this.
  12. jet_silver
    Offline

    jet_silver Active member

    Joined:
    May 24, 2020
    Messages:
    51
    Likes Received:
    100
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Occupation:
    Engineer
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Space coast of Florida
    Local Time:
    3:08 AM
    @rxbuk, qualified yes to clamps and flogging, definite yes to licking and biting after the piercings are healed.

    The qualified yes to clamps is that you want to go *around* the immediate piercing, and avoid clamping with the jewelry in the middle. Standard clothespins work fine because of the gap in the pinching part, see pics.

    clothespin.jpg clamp_surprise.jpg

    The qualified yes to flogging is the dominant mustn't let the falls of e.g. a seduction flail wrap around the jewelry and then pull away, that's a recipe for a good solid yank on the jewelry.
     
    rxbuk likes this.
  13. steelwaiting
    Offline

    steelwaiting Active member

    Joined:
    Sep 10, 2015
    Messages:
    113
    Likes Received:
    142
    Trophy Points:
    43
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    ireland
    Local Time:
    8:08 AM
    Had mine done loved them. I don't heal well with piercings. I've had many. I also missed rough play with my nipples. They are cool and sexy, and should be tried at least once
     
  14. DaedalusBelt
    Offline

    DaedalusBelt Active member

    Joined:
    May 23, 2020
    Messages:
    74
    Likes Received:
    45
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    3:08 AM
    Just got mine done. Idk what I was expecting but it hurts more than I thought it would lol

    Looks awesome though!
     
  15. mr Randb
    Offline

    mr Randb New member

    Joined:
    Jul 16, 2020
    Messages:
    8
    Likes Received:
    5
    Trophy Points:
    13
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    New Zealand
    Local Time:
    7:08 PM
    Yes, most definitely.
     
  16. jet_silver
    Offline

    jet_silver Active member

    Joined:
    May 24, 2020
    Messages:
    51
    Likes Received:
    100
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Occupation:
    Engineer
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Space coast of Florida
    Local Time:
    3:08 AM
    @DaedalusBelt - are you healing up and finding the pain decreasing by now? It shouldn't still be smarting except when you put on clothing awkwardly, or catch the seat belt of your car pulling at it.

    Top priority is aftercare right now.
     
  17. DaedalusBelt
    Offline

    DaedalusBelt Active member

    Joined:
    May 23, 2020
    Messages:
    74
    Likes Received:
    45
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    3:08 AM
    Yep they're not noticable at all unless I'm thinking about them or I catch them. I understand they will be healing for 6 months to a year, but when do you think I can put on a shirt without worrying?
     
  18. jet_silver
    Offline

    jet_silver Active member

    Joined:
    May 24, 2020
    Messages:
    51
    Likes Received:
    100
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Occupation:
    Engineer
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Space coast of Florida
    Local Time:
    3:08 AM
    Six weeks if you follow your after-care to the letter. Yes, you shouldn't up-gauge for at least six months, but after the first 12 weeks you can consider some sex play with them.
     
  19. cshorts
    Offline

    cshorts Locked in love for SL

    Joined:
    Oct 24, 2018
    Messages:
    491
    Likes Received:
    1,121
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Bay Area, California
    Local Time:
    12:08 AM
    I got mine nearly 20 years ago, for aesthetics. But in the last couple of years my vanilla wife has started to explore some pain okay with me, particularly nipple torture, both pinching, and twisting or pulling the bars. She can definitely get a bigger rise out of me using the bars as a torture device than without.

    She overdid it a couple of months ago (not her fault, I didn’t use my safe word, and both got torn up inside (this after a full year of further healing from gauging up from 14 to 8 ga). Now I’m finding they *do* take a long time to heal and fistulas to re-form — particularly the right is still very tender and oozing after about 6-8 weeks (but I haven’t been great about aftercare, either).

    I didn’t notice that piercing made them any more sensitive (just gave he mr an anchor pout for pulling and twisting tortures). But gauging up, and wearing heavy shields continuously for months along with the bars has caused the nipples to quite noticeably enlarge.
     
  20. Disciplined Boyfriend
    Offline

    Joined:
    Jan 23, 2014
    Messages:
    1,604
    Likes Received:
    3,159
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    NE Scotland
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    8:08 AM
    Both Lady C and me agree on this one. Neither of us wants piercings anywhere. That said I sometimes find them nice to look at, but too many piercings for me are a turn off.
     
  21. Maddie Mae
    Offline

    Verified Female

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2019
    Messages:
    224
    Likes Received:
    5,105
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Female
    Occupation:
    Litigator
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    United States, Mid-Atlantic
    Local Time:
    3:08 AM
    Oh my ....Yes do it!

    PK and I each have one nipple pierced and have had them for over 15 years. The increased sensitivity is amazing. Why only one you may ask....I like the unique appearance.

    Worst case if you don't like it later on you can take it out. In most cases, it is the one of few the body piercings that will close back up completely.
     
  22. PinkCB2000Boy
    Offline

    PinkCB2000Boy Junior Member

    Joined:
    Sep 23, 2008
    Messages:
    62
    Likes Received:
    63
    Trophy Points:
    28
    Local Time:
    12:08 AM
    My mistress intends for me to get mine pierced when things return to normal. She has always thought they look sexy and believes it would be a nice compliment to my chastity piercing. Of course, she took me to get a PA on our first date.
     
  23. Thomas Gangman
    Offline

    Thomas Gangman Long term member

    Joined:
    Mar 15, 2016
    Messages:
    1,046
    Likes Received:
    3,372
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    IT Consultant
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Northern New Jersey USA
    Local Time:
    3:08 AM
    Years ago my wife had hers done during our bdsm phase and we used them quite a bit. I was the dog and she was the sub so it kind of made sense. When we started to switch the subject never came up but she did like using clamps on adjustable alligator clips on mine.

    When we moved to chastity, we did discuss me getting a PA but decided against it. However, she did get a few more piercings, one in the naval and several more in the ears. On her they look sexy, especially when sitting at the pool and the sun reflecting off them.
     
  24. Lakeman
    Offline

    Lakeman Long term member

    Joined:
    Mar 5, 2017
    Messages:
    913
    Likes Received:
    927
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Australia
    Local Time:
    5:08 PM
    @cshorts what are the shields you mention?
     
  25. Nosaint
    Offline

    Nosaint Member

    Joined:
    Oct 13, 2020
    Messages:
    37
    Likes Received:
    46
    Trophy Points:
    28
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    2:08 AM
    I had mine pierced over 20 years ago, no regrets. I think it made them more sensitive. I remember the day of the piercing it hurt to walk, but that quickly faded. Around 8 years later, I decided to increase the size from the original 14 gauge. I found they had stretched them selves to at least a 12 gauge, getting to a 10 gauge took a slight effort. In an attempt to enjoy a bit of pain I stretched them to an 8 gauge, sadly it did not replicate the original feeling. I've stayed at 8 gauge for over 15 years, I think anything bigger is just not attractive. 8 gauge is 1/8 of an inch, or about the size of the lead in a #2 pencil.
    The only issue I've had is with chest x-rays. I, of course, remove the barbells, but the x-rays have "nipple shadow" rare in men. It means it appears there is a spot on my lungs, but it's just my nipples.
    It took a few years for me to be comfortable with clips again. I was terrified that I might do some real damage, but that was mostly in my head.
     
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice