Hello everyone. I'm a 62 year retired professional man living on the coast of the South West of England. I've toyed with chastity in the past and been a submissive and slave to two women I've been in a relationship with. I've also been a dominant to one of the women, but we soon realised we were in the wrong roles. I'm now single following a serious illness I've fully recovered from. I believe I'm a natural submissive as when I was a child I was fascinated with stories of slavery from Roman times onwards and as soon as I was sexually active I practiced CBT on myself whenever I could. In my teens I read an article on Monique von Cleef and was fascinated by pictures of people in bondage and submission which I can still clearly recall. In later life I came across the chastity site of the late Tammad Ramalia and was immediately fascinated and hooked. I made a variety of devices and harnesses which I wore in secret. I later purchased an early version of the CB 6000. Most people who know me would describe me as an Alpha male, rugby lovin', pub going kind of bloke. Very few people know the truth. I'm a single parent to two grown children who have both recently married. I'm alone now, but I still feel the need for discretion. I've recently been seeing a professional dominatrix once a month until she scaled back due to Covid. Instead she conducts Skype sessions and sets self punishment and tasks every week. Covid also made me learn we need to live our lifestyles when and how we can. I'm a recent convert to electrical play and use a device with built in electrodes. I aim to be locked up 24/7 and feel naked without a device and today is one week 24/7 since my lockup. I look forward to contributing and chatting with you and forming friendships however far away you are. Thank you for reading and I hope you are all safe and well during these troubling times That's me. I look forward to maybe chatting
So delighted to have you here, I’m looking forward to hearing more about your story. I have to say I’m quite curious about the comment about Roman slaves and the leap to chastity. I’m definitely going to be digging into that one more
Back in the sixties there was no easy access for me to porn. However the occasional pictures I would stumble across in library books of slaves and people in dungeons and chains were a big turn on for me. I lived to see the beginning of the Internet which is when I first saw images of bondage, spanking, pony girls and later chastity belts. I came across Tammad Rimilia who had pictures of the first belt he made - a cricket box with a length of tube glued in and a waist chain and ass strap. I was off and I copied the design and wore it in private, as well as self bondage. After the advent of the first plastic series I noticed a slow building explosion of interest in CB's. I especially liked the Tollyboy & Access Denied sites. Now with the advent of online shopping there's a huge (often overwhelming) choice of designs /kinks. So not so much a leap from Roman slaves to chastity belts as a long slow stumble. I'd still love a full metal belt, but at my age I'm a bit too 'tubby' Hope that explains
@Enchained, thank you for that explanation, what an amazing journey you’ve been on to get here. I don’t think the generations that follow will truly ever understand the challenges of a pre-internet world, especially for those (myself included to a far lesser extent) that have had a kink gnawing away in our brain for years and not knowing how to process it, or if we are uniquely alone in our desires. thank you for sharing and for being here. check out @Behind Barz they make bespoke full metal belts (I have one) their workmanship and customer care is extraordinary, you might find getting a belt that works specifically for you isn’t as challenging as you might have thought.