Was just on this site looking for information and asking a question but looking around it looks like a nice forum so I'll be polite and introduce. Dutch guy, only recently got more serious into BDSM, after exploring it with an ex girlfriend years ago(after breaking up) who had become serious in it on a dominant side, while that dynamic was great and that was when I figured out I was a sub it also didnt work with all the relationship history. After that I found it something missing in vanilla relationships, with women who were either clearly not dominant or when they were had no interest in BDSM, so after the last one I thought it was time to look for people who actually were from the start. After various short term things I met someone online some months ago that just really clicked and ended up being her sub in a 24/7 D/s relationship. Long distance even still and due to the pandemic issues not yet been able to meet in person, but an amazing connection and understanding...she 'had me at hello' lol Now just to find a cage that actually works without being CBT...
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