Need help! My domme wants me to find her an online class

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    #1 SubSnuggler, Mar 22, 2020
    My wife and I have been in an FLR for I guess about 3-4 years now. Every so often she 'reboots' the relationship and moves it around to better fit her ideal. Last night I got my bottom tanned and an assignment demanded: find her an online 'femdom 101' class.

    So I'm asking this community- does anyone have experience with online femdom classes? Any recommendations?
     
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    #2 Unlucky, Mar 22, 2020
    Femdom 101 has one lesson:
    You and your partner know your relationship better than anyone else. The two of you negotiate the rules as what works for other people might not work for you.

    I know that's not what you wanted, but the request seems guaranteed to find nothing but fantasy bullshit or people acting like what works in their relationship is how every relationship should work.
     
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    #3 SubSnuggler, Mar 22, 2020
    I don't see anything wrong with what you said OR her desire. There are lots of classes in every field you can imagine where people share what worked for them. Why can't women help other women direct and guide the men in their lives?

    There are a zillion classes promising to help men be more submissive. There should be some out there helping women achieve dominance in their relationships.
     
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    #4 Unlucky, Mar 22, 2020
    The fundamental difference is the one is the choice of all involved parties while the other doesn't necessarily inherently require that. Advising a woman to achieve dominance in her romantic relationship when the partner doesn't want that is almost certainly telling a woman how to abuse her partner.
     
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    #5 sissydavenport, Mar 22, 2020
    I'd suggest checking out Miss Bonnie's Collar N Cuffs (https://collarncuffs.com/). It's the only other web community that I know of that is 100% Femdom (CM is practically so) and I know they were doing Female Dominance courses online. Link: https://collarncuffs.com/
     
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    #7 sissydavenport, Mar 22, 2020
    Have You tried the membership Kink Academy stuff? I'm just wondering if it's worth it to learn some intermediary/advanced stuff for a couple or if it's more nuts and bolts for beginners.
     
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    #8 Byrdie, Mar 22, 2020
    I’ve taken classes in person from some of the educators who have videos there, and found them quite useful, but I can’t remember if I actually ever signed up for Kink Academy itself.

    They do have a way to sort for beginner level classes, though.
     
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    #9 sissydavenport, Mar 22, 2020
    Much appreciated. I like that it was founded by a Domme. We always try and support Women-owned businesses so it goes into the consideration pile.
     
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    #10 madams-sissysub, Mar 24, 2020
    thanks for this, will check it out.
     
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    #13 SubSnuggler, Jul 30, 2020
    Holy smokes that is expensive!

    In our household that would be a very nice Christmas present, but not an everyday thing :eek:
     
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    #14 LockitMan, Jul 31, 2020
    Well sir, shouldn't YOU be doing the work? Wont it mean more to both of you if you find it through your own due diligence?
     
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    #16 luckyhubby83, Jul 31, 2020
    my wife has expressed interest in taking a class on proper use of canes, floggers, etc
    teaching how to give a punishment one or erotic one....
    aftercare. how to avoid seriously injuring me. etc etc

    any recomendations?
     
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