It's been over a month since we started this chastity journey, from a throwaway comment to the purchase of several cages to find ourselves here with a completely new dynamic to our relationship. 1 - from a shakey start on H's part she is now very content to keep me locked and herself in control, with the focus very much being on her pleasure over mine, that's not to say she's kept me completely locked during our first month, she has have the final decision on if I'm allowed out to use my cock as she sees fit. 2 - I never realised how much I was pleasuring myself. Sometimes 2/3 times a day. So for me this was quite a shock to the system, although I'm finding the near constant state of arousal without an erection almost welcome. 3 - I'm absolutely happy just to worship H's pussy and ass with my tongue forever. 4 - Turns out I really like looking at pictures of cocks, locked cocks, cocks in panties and dripping cocks. So that's new. 5 - There have been some lovely comments and messages from people on here, what a community of horny, kinky and kind people! Thank you. Here's to another month.
Good sign that you've gone this long and still enjoying it. I think this was a good decision on your part and hopefully your KH will continue.
After doing this for roughly a month, how long do you see your relationship using male chastity? Also, if you were to stop how do you think the relationship would change?
Glad to hear it's working out well for you! Was it a continuous month-long lockup or did you take breaks during that time? I'm finding that 1 month is my sweet spot for continuous wear, but obviously everyone's different and things are always subject to change. Yeah I can relate haha.
I quite enjoy looking at sissy captions when I get stupidly horny. I find them much more entertaining than keyholder captions. I'm not gay, not interested in cocks or cross dressing(unless the wife wants to dress me up)
H has already said that she is more than happy for us to continue, it's given our relationship a boost to be honest, she has made it quite clear now that I'll be unlocked only when she see fit, and for however long she sees fit, this may be days or weeks who knows?
She unlocked me a couple of times but only once was I allowed inside her, it was over in minutes, she has expressed a worry about this but was quick to forgive after my tongue technique has apparently improved
Same here!! Have to say I'm getting quite used to the dress up part now, turns out I have a thing for lace.
What I found when I first started chastity that after the first time of a couple of weeks, it is easier to get in that "zone" when you are locked up again. I am not locked all the time, but when I am, it is for at least 10 days to 2 weeks. I think nearly all males want to masturbate whether their spouse knows it or not and we end up wasting our energy doing that instead of being more attentive to our spouse. Our brain chemicals change after orgasm too. By controlling or stopping masturbation, you turn your need to meeting her needs, which most women enjoy. You can still have sex when she wants it, you are just not wasting your energy by giving yourself orgasms when you want it.
Don’t be surprised. Though very new to this. Went to look for some girly clothes. My vanilla “I thought” wife held up a pajama set and put it in front of me and said” this would look cute on you”.