I don't have a girlfriend or Mistress at present so I self lock. Sitting here now with a nice glass of wine with the key in front of me. Really tempted to unlock and have a .......well...... you know. Should I do it. Answers are non binding! S.
If in the morning you would regret it then - NO - dont do it! And only you being totally honest with yourself can answer that question. Not much help I know! Ax
Well thank you Goddess Jen! Still chaste but it's sooooo tempting to slip out of the CB6000 and do the deed.
When you self-lock, it is very tempting just to unlock when you get horny. But that is not what you wanted when you locked yourself up. When I lock up myself, I have made it a rule that I never unlock myself unless I decided so the day before. Such a rule can be hard when you are horny, but helps a lot with the chastity fantasy. Of course there may be emergencies like swelling or rashes that calls for an immediate unlock. But even in this case I don't cum the same day. When we are locked up, we always know it there is an emergency, or if it is just because we are horny and want to cum. In fact, when I self-lock, I don't usually set a time, but instead just go a day at a time, knowing that I will not unlock unless I decided the day before. So my advice to you is: Think about if you really want to cum. Even if you do, don't unlock yourself today, but wait until tomorrow. Feel the frustration that is part of the chastity fantasy today, knowing that you can unlock yourself tomorrow if you decide it today and still feel the same way tomorrow.
If this sissy had " Goddess Jen " (curtsey) as a " key holder" , this sissy, would stay locked up untile Mistress give her permission to be unlocked & have some relief :smilies_xxx02: My " WIFE / KEYHOLDER" is not into this " sissy" chasity after " 3 1/2 months " of lockup , i'm asking for the key back on Valentines Day. I know i should not ask for it , but This sissy knows she will lock herself back up :smilies_xxx22: HUGS & Good luck , misty :valentine-heart-loc
you need to find a keyholder as soon as possible so the choice will be out of your hands. Believe me, self locking is not very fulfilling. If you want some suggestions on how to go about finding a keyholder, let me know. There are lots of women out there who love the power they have over us by holding our keys. You can find someone local, or if you don't travel by plane or go through metal detectors for work, you could have a distance keyholder. I know some women here in Florida who are personal friends of mine who can hold keys for you.
jojobean2, Yes, it would be nice to have a Mistress / Keyholder and suggestions on how to find one are welcome. Unfortunately, I fly at least twice a week for work as I commute so a distance keyholder is not practical. The thought of a lady in sunny Florida holding my keys sounds great. However, it is such a long way from me! S.
Yeah i"m self-locked aswell, even when added alcohol I still don't remove it hehe. I actually don't wanna masturbate when i"m drunk. Im bi-sexual so when I get horny I can resist unlocking myself by pleasuring myself other than with my cock (you get the idea). And before you think about unlocking yourself, make sure there is enough days under your belt. set a goal and never give in. If you reach your goal and think you could do better keep on going. Usually for most guys its 10+ days if you don't have a mistress or master. Just dont give in too easily. I'm really submissive and I can take my device off for cleaning without having the urge of masturbating. Everything goes well with the cosmos.