slipping out of chastity cage..

Hi guys, new here, I found one thread on this but no real answer and it wasn't the same as my problem..

i'm an online slave with a Mistress, and recently I've learned I can slip out of my chastity cage. and I don't mean my balls slip out accidentally, I can kind of push my balls and the cage forward and then slip my dick out of the top of the ring so the cage ends up turning into a kind of cock ring almost. it's not very comfortable but I can still jack off and cum that way (it looks weird lol, like a ghost dick. there's balls and a cage and no dick inside)

It's lame and it's cheating and I don't want to do it but sometimes I can't help myself knowing it's an option.. and I wanted some advice on either how to remain disciplined or if there's some way i can avoid the slipping out? Someone mentioned some kind of method so that she can tell if you cheat, but i can't think of anything since we're online and it's basically the honor system. the only answer I have right now is full honesty and discipline but would be nice if it was possible to remove the option entirely.

thanks!

 

Darly, you're not wrong, I need to be a better slave first and foremost.

Lucky, I read your other post on the anti pullout and it sounds amazing.
Do you have a recommendation on which cage you bought?

This is my current cage (very small) with 40mm ring already;
https://www.houseofdenial.com/colle...teel-hod-s75-ultra-small-male-chastity-device

Thanks so much for your help!