Have you wanted to be a female?

Yes.

i can definitely relate. Not entirely the same, i like the social privilege that comes with being seen as Cis Male in society. Outwardly i conform just enough to get away with it.

my wife would prefer me to be more male despite admitting that my less male attributes were what attracted her to me in the first place. She hates my propensity to submission and less masculine traits. Hates them.

So, whilst i understand the problems of being female or feminine enough to not desire it too much, it remains a potent thought experiment. Dressing remains a guilty pleasure, guilty because my wife hates it, but something i have so far been unable to stop. This year i have dressed just once, but it was lovely.

Sorry, you are not alone, that's the message of this. i don't have GID but nor would i identify fully as male. Also, on a bitter note, my penis seems cursed, so a life with as little of that in my life as possible seems nice.

 

Plan n simple I have wanted to be a girl since I give my first blow job n got to taste the warm milk shooting in my mouth at the age of 16 not long after that I got my first anal which I loved. However I know I will never be able to be girl so very content with who I am

 

I have a strong feminine component to my personality and I wish I could present myself in a more feminine way. I've felt that all my life. I really don't enjoy the male aspects of myself, but realize that changes like that impact more than me, so i can't make that change. If I'd known more when I was younger, it might have been different. For now, I'll enjoy those feminine parts of my life that I can.

 

I'm happy being a man and content with the Femdom & chastity lifestyle and I can't say I've ever had any thoughts of wanting to be a sissy or female. Lady C thinks likewise. However I do wonder what it would be to feel a cock erupt in my mouth, feel hot cum on my body. But that the extent of it!

 

I’d give almost anything to have been born female.

 

I've always wanted to experience being female, but I don't think I could live it. In the world I'm a very dominant alpha type male, and I love that. On the other hand, at home, I often like to play the part of the girl. A cute pair of panties and and some nice leggings are just the best house attire to me. I got my first pair of panties at around 14, and Loved them, ever since I've been chasing the feminine feeling, but only below the waist. I have no interest in make up, bras, breast forms etc, but a little black thong, leggings pulled down, dick locked up and a girl with a strap-on is heaven to me.

 

I have always found it easier relating to women than men. I have a long history of wearing women's clothes, from bras, stockings and panties to dresses and women's shoes. I am strongly attracted to touching and feeling sensual feminine clothing. I love being around women. I often find other men to be too masculine if that makes sense. I don't like the constant show of power and strength that most men have. I am definitely more on the submissive side more than the dominant side. I would love to try living as a woman, at least for a while to have the experience. Perhaps all men should do this once in their life to have a better appreciation for the woman's point of view!

 

I can very much relate to this.
From as early as I can remember, I had the feeling I should of been a girl. It's never gone away.
Even my wife will say I seem more content when dressed.

 

This.

I’ve never been or felt like a sissy. I have no interest in men. But I have felt that I should have been born female since I was very young.

 

When I was in my teens I used to cross dress, and I would do it every chance I got, and I would spend as much time dressed as I could, and there was a point where I wished I didn’t have to get undressed, but as I got older and bulked up, I felt less feminine and the urge to dress kind of dissipated, not sure why.

 

I've never wanted to be female. I have had a love/hate with my guy parts, and a strong denial fetish for forever though. I prefer women, although I've had some very positive bi experiences. My keyholder is a queer woman, and isn't into penis, and my wife enjoys piv sex, but also isn't into penis in any real way beyond that. Over the past 3 years, I've been chaste, sexually, and wearing micro-cages, and have been living with my penis up in my body most of the time. This, plus my dick not being allowed erections (outside of mandated ruined orgasms every month or two) or sex of any kind, has changed my outlook on being male.

My erections, when I do have one, are always a swelling in my pubic mound, contained by my micro cage. My keyholder believes that my ideal is to be a male, but without a dick, which gets in the way of serving and bottoming. I still feel fully male, but I don't see myself sexually in porn that I watch. I've become more of a bottom, and don't feel like using my dick sexually anymore. I see guys humping, or getting a blowjob, and if feels like something "they" do, but not me. Having a reasonably big dick has always meant that my kink partners expected me to top them with it, even in times when I felt the chemistry better with me bottoming. Now my pleasure comes from giving pleasure, and I'm mostly free of the desire to act in typical male ways, sexually. I'm not sure where that leaves me on the spectrum of sexuality, but I'm happy and content this way.

 

If someone could wave a magic wand, and I could experience life as a female, yes. I've thought this from a young age, when I first became fascinated by gender oles.

There are things I envy about women and wish I could experience (e.g., the closeness between two female friends). There are things about the expectations of being male that still baffle me - I wish I could read cues from women, flirt better, give attention where desired.

That doesn't change the fact that I consider myself a male, who happens to like to crossdress. Nothing can ever make me female.

 

no

 

Have always had strong feminine feelings and have crossdressed in secret over the years. When my wife discovered my interest in my feminine side, she at first deplored it, but after several months, came around and has been helping me dress, prance, and act feminine. I have loved it and thrive on Her attention in that regard. As we have aged and PIV sex is not so important, we have adjusted to privately live as girlfirends. In a different time in another life, I would love to have been female, but it's too late for me now.

 

Most if my life i have wanted to, and still wish i could be. I relate very much to what @anasyrma said earlier and agree with @Jessica Alexander
The fact that i seem to relate better to women has always played into my desire to be female. I don't know if i ever will be a woman, but I would like to be.

 

I think this is a difference why i like CD but don’t consider myself trans. i *wish* i related to women better than i do and want to be close to them. But i feel a definite barrier there.

 

It would be fun to magically turn into a hot female for a while to see what it is like, but I don’t want to live as one.

I am 100% heterosexual so I’d be a lesbo if I was a girl.

I’m not into cross dressing, but I love to shop for my wife. They have so much more of a selection of clothes than men do. That would be a fun part of being a girl.

 

Yes. I've done what I can to make myself present as feminine as I can. The correct genitals would be great. Anal is fine but no spontaneity.

 

I spent most of my life being very depressed and often suicidal because my my body was male. As you can tell from my avatar and things I have posted elsewhere on the site, I am taking steps toward correcting that.

 

I've never wanted to be a woman. I love being a sissy because part of it is the humiliation or being a sub.

 

The fact that people whos body doesn't match their soul can make changes is one of the best parts of modern medicine to me. I don't understand people who can't understand that. I am glad that you are able to take steps to make life right for you. I wish you much happiness and love.

 

I think that this is part of the confusion that the general public has between sissy or crossdresser and trans people, in that they perceive a similar outward appearance to their eye, but don't understand the core difference between fetish and gender identity.

 

Understandable as often crossedresser (not that there is anything wrong at all with crossdressing)are using the term transgender as their identity. For those of us who made permanent changes its puts us in the same category of identity as someone who dresses for sexual pleasure. Its different.