Old man but new to BDSM

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  1. Baedrinsub
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    Hello!

    I am a 67-year-old, retired, married male who did not learn about the BDSM lifestyle until about 4 years ago. I was going through a rough patch with my health and job and a friend told me about this graphic chat service called IMVU (don't laugh). I made up an avatar and soon met a younger woman who was a Dominant and who very sweetly guided me through several other websites where I could learn more about the D/s relationship and lifestyle in general.

    I am a submissive and my strongest kinks involve humiliation (verbal, physical and sexual), feminization as it applies to the first kink, being used/abused by a Dominant and most recently, Cock and Ball Torture, although my little 2" worm does not really deserve to be called a cock.

    I do not consider myself to be a real man. Real men are strong and athletic and have large, thick cocks. Real men can do whatever they want. A real man does not eat his own dribblings. A real man does not masturbate with thumb and forefinger only. A real man does not kneel in front of someone begging to be allowed to lick cum off their pussy, ass or belly. That is what a sissy slut like me does whenever she's told by her Mistress (or Master).

    I am eager to continue my education. My friend from IMVU is a Dominant, but, unfortunately, She does not share my kinks and it made for a very uncomfortable D/s relationship. I am very glad that I found this website and look forward to my time here.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Welcome to our community and I hope you find being part of it enjoyable.
     
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    Hello and welcome. Good luck with your explorations. Better late than never!
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion - lots of useful stuff and nice people here. Enjoy
     
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    Never to old to do what you want i am 73 male, but in my mind ....
    Looking to the years i have, i enjoy every moment.
     
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    Welcome to CM! Please post often and tell us more about your experience. Many here will tell you they ar enot into BDSM, but most of us know that the cage is really a BDSM tool! Don't let age discourage you, either as there are many sissies here, including me, who are a few years older and we can enjoy it too!
     
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    hello @Baedrinsub and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well.
     
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    I'm 72 , an occasional cross dresser and bondage fan for most of my adult life. I'm sitting here now in stockings, a nice pencil skirt, bra, silky blouse, and strappy heels locked in my cage for the 15 day running enjoying a nice glass Merlot and a square of dark chocolate. What's not to like?
     
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    Hi, Bobbie,
    Glad that i am not the only old man on CM, 73 years young, you are 72 but in your profile you mentioned 55 years , how old are you?
     
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    73 is just a number as far as I am concerned ;)

    Pleased to have it though, rather than the alternative:)
     
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    Thanks Carrie
     
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    Welcome to CM
     
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    I'm 72, accidentally hit 1964 instead of 1946 when I did my profile and it won't let me change it lol. Must have had a " senior moment ".
     
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    thank you all for your encouragement. Really glad that I checked out the site when I encountered it with a google search.
     
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    Each to their own. I would rather have a Shiraz
     
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