My cuck partner will be going into chastity 24/7 soon and I’m wanting a small cage for him. However I’m not sure whether to start with a small one, or whether to go for something bigger for his first one until he’s got used to wearing it. I’d love to hear anyone else’s experiences with this. J x
From my experience and a lot of others on here is you do not want to big. I like something that is my flaccid size no room for growth. Much more comfortable that way
A first cage is rarely the only cage that a guy will ever be properly locked in. There are TONS of posts about 'us' having a collection of trial and error devices. I have 3 that can be worn long-term and a few others that are 'fun' for some occasions... None of my early-on devices are useful for daily wear any more.. IF you are extremely lucky to get all the right measurements and find a 'perfect' device, odds are pretty high that even that will become less perfect over time, you'll find another device that is more appealing or fits better.... That said, I think it's better to pick out a device that probably will fit and is functional to suit your needs/desires. Browse this internet thing, pick out a few and narrow down to the one that will be wearable and that you will enjoy seeing on your lockee. There's no one-cage fits all! Trial-and-error can be fun, I'm sorry that I cannot give you a link to a specific device that will be 'just right'... I honestly don't think that would be fair...
for my experience i can say that is better a small cage, as less room for swelling there are better is. Say that is much probably you have to made 2 or 3 attempt to find the right size/model
For 24/7 you want a fairly open cage. Fully enclosed may cause hygiene issues. Personally I would err on the small side I will also say. I doubt you will find the right cage on the first try. It takes a bit of trial and error to find what works best.
Over time I have found that I have migrated to smaller and smaller cages. They're just more comfortable for me. And the plus side is that they show less under clothes. I'd say start small and keep it that way!
I agree! Will be getting my next cage from here, just waiting on my madam deciding on what style I should have this time.
I've gotten 3 with two rings... If you are going to be reduced to nothing, go with whatever you can squeeze into (or behind as there is one on there that pretty much if held in place pushes anything you've got back into the body), but if you are going to have the headlock part, make sure there's enough room for your head to fit in or it's not going to really work. NOTE: ring gap vs actual gap. If you are accustomed to a parallel cage opening/ring, then make sure you have either a zero or negative 'angle' when selecting the ring. The measurements given on SW are from the bottom of the ring to the bottom of the 'tube' opening, not the space between the ring and tube.
That is the million dollar question. I'm on my tenth cage and still struggling. M has agreed to allow me to look at a custom Mature Metal Jailbird. What I can tell you is that open metal cage designs are consistently more functional for me and easier to keep clean. Everyone is different and ring size (around the genitals) as well as gap (ball gap space) can change. A smaller cage is often more desirable for long term wear but again we are all made different. It might be worth it to try so.e cheap Amazon cages for experience and get a sense for options. Good luck.
The best one I had was made by Mature Metal. They have measurement instructions on their site. The only thing I would say is go just a bit short (maybe 1/8" shorter) than they recommend. My only complaint with their device was that it was slightly too long when flaccid. Make sure he is as small as possible when you do the measuring (or have him do the measurements if having your hands on him will cause engorgement).
The open design of Mature Metal's designs are very good for long term wear. I kept my Queen's Keep on for eight months. I think I only had it off twice, and that was to pass through airport security.
My cage is 1.5 inch my flaccid size is 2inch I am very happy with this size due to night erections it keeps them from growing to painful size.
I concur, MM's cages are very well made and comfortable and I do wish I had sometimes went for a slightly smaller size (its a man thing pretending his manhood is big). Easy to clean, fit and forget and you will because you can sometimes not even feel it there and above all, very easy to keep clean.
Is there any cheaper cages that any of you have found that can work out for more of a long term permanent? Something to get in the mean time before spending the money on MM.
This is not an easy answer because everyone is different. Some guys get a cheap Amazon cage out of China and it just happens to fit them well and they use it long term. Other less fortunate guys like me have all sorts of problems getting a good fit for long term chastity cage wear. The custom or customizable cages allow for optimal fit where most cheap ones dont. Plastic and silicone cages are more forgiving in the ability to adjust (most) but for many guys are not easy for long term wear due to the hygiene issues. Ultimately, if you take away nothing else, remember that all men are made and shaped differently so what one guy loves another guy may not be able to use. A benefit of buying some varieties of cheap cages is the ability to try them out and see how it feels. The drawback is you might get frustrated because of the issues with fit and finish. Good luck.
I think I tried 7 cages before I found the right one (my 8th). Also, when first trying a cage, go on for a bit then off briefly (even if only an hour or two). I feel like just that little bit of introductory acclimation can do wonders for being comfortable in it. In my own experience a solid ring, that has no hinges, is best. Also internal lock seems to be more secure against pullout in my experience and more comfortable as well.