Taking the pill as a male.

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    Hi,

    My wife wishes me to take the pill (contraceptive pill) to reduce libido and frustration. I currently wear a cage 90% of the time and strapon sex has become our way of having regular sex. My wife also has a no orgasm policy for me- unless its accidental. I've read positive and negative things about taking the pill, including losing the ability to become erect or to achieve climax seem to be at the top of every list - however this isn't something out of the normal for me.
    I've yet to take any, but will begin tonight after she come home from work.

    Any thoughts? has anyone tried it?


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    Jay.
     
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    So it sounds like she don't want to give you pleasure she may want to do her own thing, cuckolding you.
     
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    Not her thing. I find pleasure in being controlled and she is the opposite. My wife enjoys giving, she orgasms wearing the strapon, and we have a great time, but in the quiet times, I can get frustrated sometimes and this is her solution.

    My libido dropping wont have any effect on having sex, wearing the cage or using plugs- she loves it all to much.
     
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    Well that's good.
     
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    We're best friends.
     
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    Right there, that is l that matters.
     
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    Not sure contraceptive pill is way to go. Other more experienced voices here should be able to help with this, but there may be unintended consequences with this route. I'd do some research to see if other meds might lower libido without female hormones.
     
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    I can’t speak about the pool part.
    But I can brag that you don’t have the only wife that can have wonderful orgasms having a small vibrator inside her while going to town on me with the strap on.
     
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    You might want to consult a professional before doing something like this. It sounds like there will be other consequences and better options for what you two are trying to achieve.
     
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    I think the pill will also have feminizing effects. Is that what you also want?
     
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    The contraceptive pill is real medicine designed for a woman’s body. It can have many side effects. Many women have to switch to different prescriptions before finding one that works for them.

    You should not self medicate. Have a serious discussion with your doctor before trying it. Stay safe.
     
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    to me, a large part of the enjoyment of chastity *is* the libido high and incredible frustration, constantly aching for that which you cant have, providing a strong drive to serve your keyholder. I guess everyone has their own reasons for their interest in chastity.

    That being said, I have to agree with caution as mentioned above. self medicating, even with knowing the possible side effects, may lead to undesirable results and is in part why doctors are so valuable, they can give a much more informed perspective.
     
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    #13 Chrishoney, Jun 4, 2020
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    Birth control pills have too little medication to have a noticeable effect on normal males. If you have hypogonadism or are castrated, which it doesn't sound like you are, it might have an effect. No you cannot increase the dosage so they become effective. At high enough doses, oral birth control is like play pharmaceutical russian roulette. If won't be a matter of 'if' you die, but when. Also most birth control is formulated with artificial estrogens (sometimes called estrins) and artificial progesterone called progestins. Why? Because they can be patented. Both estrins and progestins pose SERIOUS health risks and IMO should be avoided at all costs. Google the Women's Health Initiative which was halted less than half-way through its intended 20 year study period because study subjects/women were dieing, as in dead. They were getting Premarin, a cocktail of estrins derived from mare's urine and depoprovera a powerful progestin. Both should be removed from the market IMO.

    If you want to curb your libido in a safer manner with hormones, consider low dose bioidentical estradiol such as injectable estradiol cypionate, estrace (estradiol valerate tablets), estradiol patches or cream. There are potential complications when administering any hormone by mouth, that get worse with age, smoking status and other co-morbidities. Blood clots are just one of those complications. The risk of complications significantly decreases when taking bioidentical hormones such as estradiol and/or progesterone. Furthermore, hormone administration sublingually, by IM injection or transdermally are MUCH safer than by mouth. Make no mistake, estradiol will decrease your sex drive, but it will also eventually have feminizing effects, even at 1 or 2 mg/day. Some of those effects include breast growth, reduced and softer body hair, softer skin, body-wide fat redistribution, penile and testicular atrophy, decreased muscle mass, and becoming more emotional. If taken long enough, sterility in addition to impotence is very likely.

    You might also consider going the herbal route. Pueraria mirifica is a powerful herbal estradiol analog easily available from multiple sources online. Combined with anti-androgenic herbs such as red reishi mushroom, white (Chinese) peony root extract, spearmint tea and/or pygeum, and you will potentially need viagra or other herbs just to get an erection and your libido will be in the toilet. Again, make no mistake about pueraria mirifica, when taken in the 1500 to 2000 mg/day range, it will eventually have feminizing effects. Unfortunately or fortunately, that is also the dosage range you need to quell your libido. As for anti-androgenic herbs, red reishi mushroom powder and white peony extract are VERY effective.

    All of this information is available online. Do not believe naysayers in the trans community that claim all phytoestrogens are a scam. Many are scams because they either don't actually contain the herbs listed, or if they do, they combine so many in one capsule that none have sufficient dosage to be effective. However, if you source your phytoestrogens from reputable sources and you take them at adequate dosages (remember YMMV) they absolutely DO work.

    How do I know all this? I am a medical provider with a strong background in research so I know how to read and interpret studies, I have researched this topic HEAVILY, and lastly I have personal experience with almost everything I mentioned above, including pueraria mirifica, estradiol patches, injectable estradiol valerate, depo provera, oral progesterone and the herbal anti-androgens. And yes they have had feminizing effects on my body and mind. Proceed at your own risk--you have been warned.
     
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    you can raise your natural estrogen levels and lower your testosterone. Just by eating meat and, by eating a lot of green salads. So I have read, I don't know how true it is .
     
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    Where do I sign up? ;):p
     
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    You'll have to go to the dark web for that. On the other hand, they have cookies:rolleyes::D
     
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    I can vouch for spearmint tea as a libido killer. Two cups per day pretty much did it for me
     
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    I would not recommend taking such medications without expert guidance because there are potential health risks. Our bodies exist in a delicate balanced hormonal window and when that typical range is breached it can be devastating. I'm not saying dont do it. Thay is a personal choice. I'm just encouraging you to get all the facts and to appreciate the potentialong term health effects it can have. Good luck
     
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    Why not try hydroxychloroquine. Seems to work for Trump in negating any sense of decency and humanity. And accepting responsibility. And telling the truth. I could go on. We all could.
     
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    That's a good site AND a reputable source of pueraria mirifica. (PM) A better source for "natural breast enhancement" including PM, AND the effects of pharma hormones is www.breastnexum.com There are pages and pages and pages of info on exactly what herbs and hormones do what to achieve your desired results.

    I also want to emphasize Locked2serve's point above that even herbal breast enhancement is real, it's powerful and can potentially adversely affect your health. Pharma hormones are even MORE powerful and not to be taken lightly. Transwomen have literally DIED from abusing DIY hormones. You REALLY REALLY REALLY need to research the fuck out of this before you try it. AND you need to know your own health status as well. Screwing around with your hormones sounds kinky and fun, but it's no joke and many of the effects are PERMANENT.
     
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    Good advice. Thank you
     
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    I totally agree with this!
     
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