like many others I have just started practicing self chastity. What do you guys use to determine lockup times. I want to lockup just like the thought that I can’t unlock until I am told to do so.
I'm a self-locker too and this is the setup I use. My total period in chastity is determined using Chastikey. The chastikey "lock" hides the combination to a key safe which holds my main set of keys. You can play around with many parameters to vary the type and length of lock you want. The other set of keys is in a kitchen safe. This acts as an emergency access should something go terribly wrong. But I also set it for 24-48 hours and when it opens I can clean myself properly before putting the keys back and setting it to another 24-48 hours. The kitchen safe requires some discipline to just clean up, lock up and reset the timer but this is the closest I've come to being properly self-locked.
I’ve heard of people setting there keys in tubs of water, and freezing them so you have to wait for it to melt before they can get them, you could alter the size of the container, and how soon you remove them from the freezer to lengthen your time locked.
I'm self locking and I use my feelings to guide me on how long to stay chaste. I enjoy denying myself but at a certain point, it seems to be right to orgasm. I average about 1 a month, but can go longer or shorter depending on moods. Good luck and enjoy.
Self control might be best but I have to admit my shortcomings there. I would use a key safe and emlalock or chastikey.
There is alway the old post them to yourself second class post them after collection on a Friday night and don’t get them until after work Monday at best
Put yourself on a cycle. Currently I am on a 7 day cycle. Every 7 days an Orgasm. Not only will this teach and reenforce control and discipline, but at the 7 day mark your hormone levels are way off the charts. When you ejaculate at this point your testicles are extremely full and not all of the Sperm and Hormones are able to leave your body. So you will still stay in the correct mind set, you just will not feel as "Full". The important point I am trying to make is self-control. It is not easy. If it was, everyone would be doing it. When you first start you will "fall off the wagon "from time to time. This is ok, this is how you learn. Soon you will have the ability to not succumb to your desires and you will then be able to apply this skill in your every day life. Keep busy during the 7 days. Idle hands are the Devil's workshop.