I tried milking myself with a Lelo wave prostate toy and Im not sure if i did it right. Actually, I was going for a prostate orgasm but honestly wasnt sure what woukd happen. It felt good and after a while a little leaking of clear fluid (precum i guess) and then once or twice i felt a tiny little spurt with a very small quivering or tightness in the upper part of my urethra (near the opening). What came out was clear mixed with the tiniest split pea size of pearly white. I wanted to keep it going but no luck. So what actually happened? I was laying on my back and caged if that matters. I so want to be able to experience a prostate orgasm that goes on for a while. Ive read about it but am still clueless.
There are no sure fire ways to achieve prostate orgasm or milking as what works for one person, won't necessarily work for another. For me to get more than a drop or 2 of clear precum, I need girth and depth. I have a large(ish) toy that I use, Doc Johnson Titanmen Rumpy that I have successfully milked the prostate of a fair amount of white fluid, but that has not come with the sense of an orgasm. No toy has done that, yet, but I remain hopeful. The times I have done this, its been a while between orgasms (more than a few days, that might not be "a while" by some standards here though). Some swear by the aneros range of prostate massagers to achieve prostate orgasms, others using a glass or steel dildo to firmly rub against the gland by thrusting and/or angling the device so the top pushes forward towards your belly button, and for others its vibrations that does it. You need to relax, clear your mind and just focus on the internal sensations. Don't chase the orgasm, thats a path to frustration, just allow your body to accept the sensations happening for what they are. Your body will take over.
for the orgasm you have to keep doing it, your body adjusts to it. its never that strong the first few times but as far as amount, either you need to wait longer, get your body in a more relaxing position, or spend more time before getting aroused a prostate orgasm isnt like a penile orgasm, a prostate one can take time, and has a lot to do with being relaxed as opposed to turned on dont rush it, or expect it to be great at first. like all great sex its about time and comfort
Thanks, thats helpful. How long should i wait before trying again? Should i try to have multiple ones at a time or at the beginning do you just go with whatever feels right?
not everyone can have multiple to try for your first, hold off as long as possible I routinely did 20 day sessions, with a milking, and felt little when I got near 30 days, it was a very different story I was about 32 days in the first time I had a prostate orgasm. no release but my whole body was numb for about 5 minutes after, and the orgasm just built for about 5 minutes before being another 3 to 4 minutes of intense feeling you have to listen to your own body, but try your limits first. if no orgasm then, try for longer how long it takes depends on your body. it might take a longer chaste session to get that
Will milking make it harder to have a prostate orgasm? How often show my KH milk me? I think i read the more often its done the more fluid the body will generate which can then be milked?
maybe, it doesnt for me, I cant have one without trial and error my friend. be safe and if it hurts, youre doing it wrong well of course everything on the internet is a fact
I was experimenting last night, a lot of this is still new to me I found laying on my side with a leg cocked up in the air was the best method, I didnt reach it last night because i want to keep my abstinence going but it felt amazing and im quite confident if id done it much longer i wouuld have had some delicious results
Just put a fairly nice size plug in, put on a thick diaper (Abena M4/L4, confidry24/7, etc), drink some water or a cocktail or two, smoke some cannabis, and watch some porn. Preferably while sitting or laying on your belly. Pee into the diaper. This will clear out your Urethra and once you’ve peed don’t let go of that muscle feeling of leaving your internal bladder sphincter open. This is key, because once you start milking you’ll feel the urge to pee and automatically try to stop that with your internal muscles. You just need to continue on with the feeling that you’re peeing. Keep peeing, the thick diaper will absorb it and also keep the plug in (and any mess from lube around the plug). Now since you have the diaper on to contain this mess, you can try pushing the plug out with your anal muscles and right before you hit the extreme edge of that plug, relax. Between the physics of your butt, the plug, and the diaper holding the plug in you should relax into the feeling of the plug pushing right back into you. Almost like your constipated and trying to defecate but you keep succumbing to the plug and snaps right back into you and pushes against your prostate. As you do this, try to keep urinating at the same time (don’t worry, you’re wearing a diaper, just let the warm flood around you). Watch some porn, lay on your stomach. Or just think about how humiliating this is: here you are, with your penis locked up in a cage, disallowed to even have an erection, with a plug up your ass, and in thick diapers like a child, and wet ones at that. Focus on the idea that you could be jacking off like a real man is, but you’re in a position that is completely antithetical to that. Maybe you want to imagine some mistress milking you on all fours with her gloved fingers. Or maybe you fancy your partner cuckolding you with man whose allowed to be erect and ejaculate while you’re not. Or maybe you just think the position you’re in is just so humiliating and emasculating that this is how you’re going to get off compared to a man who is able to have an erection and full ejaculation. If you must, place a pillow under yourself and try humping it in your diapers. trust me, this works. Even if you’re not into the diaper thing. I know this may sound like I’m trying to convince you of a fetish you don’t have and I must have, but this works. It’s scientifically proven to work, or so says my mistress who is wearing a classic nurse uniform with white vintage shapewear on underneath holding a clipboard taking notes while I’m told to perform this act in front of her.
How long does this process take you? How long can you pee for or are you not really peeing the whole time? Could this be done in the bath maybe instead of the diaper? I think the diaper would really turn me off from anything
It could be one of those discreet diapers from the drugstore. Absorbent underwear. Whatever works. Bathtub could work but you got to either be on your belly or sitting up on the plug. Takes about an hour if you’re not experienced. Typically 10 mins is where it starts for me. The trick for me, personally, is to read and watch porn on my phone while I’m laying on my stomach (or have a pillow under me to place me on all fours kinda). While I watch or read erotic stories that gets my mind off of the intention of milking. And as soon as I focus on urinating while trying to distract myself with erotica that’s when it starts. The muscles need to relax and let the flow happen. The reason why lots of men have trouble with this is because they are trained to hold back liquid and milking is the same feeling as peeing.
I have never been able to milk myself with either fingers or probe. My wrist and arm just can't get in a good position and I end up with arm and shoulder pain. In the beginning my wife even had problems getting a fair amount of fluid out of me until one time it just all clicked. It was part position, part knowledge from trial and error. We also find the more she talks dirty to me, the more aroused I am and more fluid is released. Its not an orgasm, but a point where free fluid is released until I am drained. Now talking dirty is not about sex between the two of us, but what she is doing with one of her girl friends that night, or how she intends to punish and use me for her satisfaction.