She locked me up for her period.

Arbitrary is the most mind bending schedule. I thought I was getting out Friday night, but when she was done milking me, she suddenly decided it would wait until Saturday, then it was Sunday, and now here I am locked up at work on Monday wondering when this session will be over. If I had just known it was going to be 3 weeks instead of 2, it wouldn’t have messed with my head at all, but this is driving me crazy.

 

Sounds like good progress. Many of us are orgasm free whilst our wives have their period - I manage it without a cage too!

 

My wife locked me up for the week leading up to her period as she is generally less amorous around that time. I never know if I'm going to get one more shot at the title before her period comes. Last month she casually mentioned she got her period while we were eating dinner. As if to say "oh by the way your out of luck for another week".

 

There is a book a guy wrote about that very thing, he is locked up every month for his wife's period. They aren't going to have sex anyway and it keeps him from masturbating during that time. He said it is show some sympathy for his wife when she doesn't feel well and makes him more attentive and helpful around the house. And, why should he be pleasuring himself when she doesn't feel good?

If you are using chastity for occasional sex play like a lot of couples do, I highly suggest to wear it one time at least for 2 weeks, you and your spouse will see the changes and you will come to enjoy it more. During the two weeks, you aren't going to be begging to get out or anything, just wear it and skip having orgasms.

 

Ah the realisation that your cock is locked and She has the key. Its thrilling. First time my wife did it to me I was ready to submit to anything she wanted. When I asked if she would not like a hard stiff cock, her answer was "No, but I bet you do, goodnight".

 

Being locked while she is on her period seems reasonable to me. Of course, a more beneficial approach might be to remained locked all the time, just not released during that time frame. Being controlled constantly is a significant sign that she is more important than anything else and that you are available at her preference. But each couple has to find what works for them. Enjoy.

 

I'm locked 24/7. She lets me out to have piv when she feels like it. I don't get to orgasm. Last Friday we played a game. She had me put my buttplug in and go to bed after she had a orgasm. The object was to keep it in as long as possible from 11pm to 7am. At the point I couldn't take it much longer the remaining hours became the number of days until I was allowed to be unlocked for piv. I made it two hours. So five days.

The twist was that it was five days of us making out and her getting to have orgasms. Which we don't do every night. So those five days could span two weeks! And if her period lands in the middle of it could make it three weeks!

 

Interesting. The more things change, the more they stay the same. For literally thousands of years observant Jews follow a "Niddah" pattern. From the onset of a woman's period until about 5 days after her period. (roughly two weeks) she is considered off limits for sexual touch. Needless to say, the husband was not allowed to masturbate in the meantime.

If you look at the 28 day cycle, you'll see that this practice opened things up right at the time of her greatest fertility.

 

The agreement my wife and I have worked out changes terms when she has her period to from...

at least 1 orgasm per X days...

too...

no guaranteed orgasms until the period is over...

Things change and you gotta respect that.

 

This is Mrs. Dirtwork guy. He gets so much enjoyment out of this site, I thought that I would get signed up as well. He (dirtwork guy) has a tendency to be extremely and previously was able to talk his way out of being caged for more than 24 hours. The other night he was bragging about he capabilities of getting unlocked! I stopped what I was doing, I think it was a pretty good edging session. I gave him a kiss and said goodnight. The look of shocked horror on his face was priceless! Since then he has been more mindful of his mouth and doesn't know where he stands or what I will do next. He is confident that he will get out before my period is done, but he shouldn't count on it!!

Ms.T

 

Well done

 

Why stop there? If he can make it a week, surely he can make it a month?

 

As a complete newcomer to being locked, I am using my wife's period to try being locked for an extended time.

I did my first overnight last week, went ok but a bit restless with frequent pee stops to relieve pressure. I then locked up yesterday morning and will be locked until the next weekend with the exception of my 2 day shave. 2nd night locked up went better, but still no deep slumber.

This is all self induced, I told her what I am doing, but she hasn't yet embraced this journey but it's early days.

 

I've been locking my husband for a long time now and if I remember correctly at first he was a real pain in the ass about sleeping in it at first but eventually he was able to do it for extended periods of time. It's all about right belt, and practice.

 

Now 4 nights in, only removed twice for shaving. Pretty similar patterns generally waking every 90-120mins for a pee. Before being caged it was probably 1-2 times up in a night unless I was in a really deep sleep so its not affecting me having to get up.

 

So, are you still wanting sex or masturbate really bad? Not sure how often you had orgasms before, but your brain is also wanting that dopamine rush of orgasm that you are likely used to. Once you get past that, it is a lot easier and actually feels nice.

 

I refer to the week before my period as the valley for this exact reason. Not much action happening during the valley.

 

Just as she should of! Next step is she makes you wear a tampon every day till she finishes, so you can share the discomfort a woman has to go through!

 

Interestingly, the urge for release didn't really hit. Her period this time around coincided with our normal working week so sex usually doesn't occur anyway. I did a "dry run" the week before before I got my cage and had a no masturbation week to see what it would be like. It was only the last night or 2 where I struggled to sleep due to the urge.

This time round all caged I didn't really feel the need, sleep issue more related to discomfort from night time erections and frequent peeing, but not the urge to release.

So today is Saturday here and her period finished. She gets very horny for the week or 2 after her period so I was instructed to remove the cage, only after she was well catered for. She did comment that my orgasm felt like a fire hydrant going off inside her and I must say, it was a real body shaker / toe curler for me too.

 

Well said Ron. And I feel correctly said.

 

I have mostly locked myself and gave her the key. But the first time she asked me lock up and give her the key was during her period. She knew I would usually masturbate during her period since there would be no sex for 5 days atleast. So on the fourth day she asked me to lock it up. She released me the next day and we had a great sex.