How old were you when you discovered your interest for chastity?

I put 26-30 but I knew of penis restraints before that.

 

I'm going to copy and paste my answer from a similar question a couple of years ago on the ChastiKey forums. The only thing is, the blog link (onlyshecums.tumblr.com) in the post is now defunct, due to tumblr's voluntary suicide purge.

The post in question was a description of the evolution of her and her chastity relationship with her boyfriend, now husband, and how she gradually restricted his orgasms over time, until finally buying him a chastity cage as a wedding present.

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I discovered it quite a bit later than you.

I've been into power exchange for as long as I can remember, and I also like the idea of hotwifing. Not the humiliation, white boi 2 inch 3 stroke dick vs black 12 inch that can fuck for 7 hours without cumming cuckold shit that you see all the time, but more like what you find if you look up stag/vixen stuff (Hence, the first part of my nick.)

Like most men, I masturbate, and I used to be able to cum 3, 4, or more times a day when I was younger. Now, I'm in my early 40s, and my recovery time isn't what it once was. So, in order to not cheat my wife out of sex if she wanted it some evening, I stopped cumming when I masturbated, and just edged instead. I discovered I liked it. A lot.

Fast forward a bit, and I was online looking at edging porn, games, what have you, and I stumbled across this post:
https://onlyshecums.tumblr.com/post/150706303522/love-your-blog-would-love-to-hear-more-prior-to

When I got to the end of it, I realized I was incredibly turned on, and as hard as I'd ever been. So, I ordered a knockoff CB6000 from China, and tried it out.
The rest, as they say, is old shit...I mean....history.

I've since tried being a KH, and a lockee, as well as being an online master to cucks, although that was happening before I discovered chastity, too. (Which explains the rest of my nick.) I do enjoy a bit of humiliation from the Dom side, but not the other way around.

I'm sure I could come up with more details if I thought about it a bit more, but I'm sure that will give you a basic idea.....


Stag

 

I quickly learned about tease and denial when I first developed an interest in girls. I was very shy and being able to rub a boob or lightly massage a panty covered was terribly arousing. I already realized I was under endowed so I was in no big hurry to even ask about unzipping for them to touch mine and the girls were happy with that.
I secretly wish i had been placed into chastity back then and then some of my male friends knew about it.

 

Hi AC, good thread you have started here.

As for myself, I am age 45 and wife is 43. Our mutual interest in chastity started only a couple of years ago. We played around with it for while, for only a few days at a time, but recently have gotten much more serious. I am currently in day 56 of an enforced 24/7 lockup, my longest ever by far. My wife/KH has really gotten into this and we are both enjoying it.

I might add, we probably would have been interested some years earlier had more information been available and had we known of websites such as CM

 

Pretty sure I first found out about chastity devices when I was 25-26. (I picked the 26-30 range.)
My very first device was homemade... rather crude, but it worked and was super erotic (at least for me!). My wife has tolerated my proclivities for many years, and has always played along as my keyholder, but only just recently has decided that we should take this to the lifestyle level and not just "sex-play" anymore. I am thrilled at the prospect!

 

Mid 20s at University pre real Internet. I discovered Victorian chastity devices in a book by Alex Comfort. Never looked back.

 

I was about 21-22 I think, and I found out about it when my madam showed me a femdom video and the slave was wearing a cock cage,(cb2000 to be precise) and ask how I felt about being locked, I said if it made her happy I would try it, a second later she had the CBX website up and told me I was ordering one before bedtime.
After measuring my self I ordered the curve ( it was far to long!) and that was the begging of our chastity journey.

 

Discovered chastity at 19. I read Cracked.com articles religiously in college, and they ran a listicle in 2008 about terrifying sex toys...

https://www.cracked.com/article_16032_the-25-most-disturbing-sex-toys.html (#20)

The chastity device caught my eye, my imagination went wild, intrigue turned into obsession, and the rest is history.

 

Early 30's. I realize now I had an interest in being tied up in bondage since my teens, and since my wife and I originally got together in college, we tried many things around that over the years. She didn't like being domme that much, so it faded out when we got into our 30s. I was masturbating a lot - generally to bondage and femdom stories and porn. Then I found chastity. And spent several years intrigued and masturbating to chastity porn as well. Finally got up the nerve to ask my wife to "indulge me" and try it. And been locked most of the time since.

 

Found out about 10 years ago just stared regular basis 4 years ago since off work from virus been locked every day for five weeks except for maintaince I have my key however I remain locked by choice

 

My first Wife and I had a leather lace up pouch and a five gates of hell way back when I was 22, 30 years ago... both bought from The Harmony Center in Manchester

 

Sadly to late around 2005 at 48 ish, wish it has been many years prior.

 

Interesting isn't it? Most of the relationships of my youth would have worked better with chastity. However, I might have stuck in one of them and missed out on my very kinky marriage.

 

She's definitely more comfortable with chastity than anything else we've tried (bondage - either with me or her as the sub, etc).

I think it's a couple things that make it work better:

(1) She mostly gets to be hands off. Literally! You may see in my other posts that I don't get teased frequently. I'd love to be teased more, but when I gave her the keys I gave up my choice ... as she frequently reminds me. And I think she very much likes it being on her terms.

(2) She likes the positives she gets -- she's said repeatedly that she likes how I treat her when I'm locked up, and it took a while but she realized that the only way to keep me treating her that way was to keep my penis in a cage. And I think she likes the fact she can choose to get off without having to reciprocate ... or even when she chooses to, I cum so quickly it doesn't take very much time or effort at all.

(3) I honestly think it appeals to whatever kinky bones she has. She seems to actively get off on telling me "no" and teasing/denying me. It doesn't happen that often, but she does seem to enjoy it.

For someone who otherwise doesn't show a lot of kinks, I think its safe to say she's more comfortable with this kink than anything else we've tried.

 

We have never been much into a kink lifestyle before this. In 20 years of marriage our sex life has been active but rather "vanilla", my wife has never exhibited any dominant tendencies at all. But since the beginning of my current 57-day 24/7 lockup (my longest ever, no releases and no orgasms allowed) she has changed, continues to increase her level of dominance, control and humiliation.

I am no expert on these matters, but I suspect she has had such fantasies all along only we never talked about it. Now she seems to be living them out big-time and is making up for lost time. She is in control now and she knows it.

I am certainly not complaining, I like her this way. Wish it happened sooner.

 

19 years old, by my sophomore year of college.

 

Annoyingly in my 40s but Submissive sexually since my late teens, just never really embraced it till 30s for fear I was a weirdo or something. Typical male brainwashed to think anything beyond being a mainstream Alpha male was wrong and perverted.

Really wish I’d explored my submissive side more, certainly I’d have learnt to be comfortable in my own skin much sooner.

 

Found it at 14 in a movie catalog, discovered purchasable devices and mail-ordered my CB-2000 when I was 15! Been locked in some form or another for the majority of my adult life, now rocking my Contender full time!

 

I was probably 27... ish. It wasn't long i moved in with my Wife/Mistress and we started experimenting with feminization.

 

I was 21 when I stumbled upon the old TPE/Altarboy website. I remember thinking "wow, this is EXACTLY what my vague fantasies were about."

 

I miss that site so much... That was my "childhood" in chastity, amazing place!

 

I was in my mid fifties.

 

It's still available through the Wayback Machine.