Hot things your KH have said to you?

I said that if he was ok with it, that's what matters.

That doesn't mean I can't shake my head at the nonsensical double standards we see on this site. If men masturbating alone is selfish behavior that takes his attention away from the relationship, then the same applies to a woman. If a woman masturbates alone while her partner is in chastity, she better have a good reason (e.g. she's punishing him and that requires telling him before and after) or she's being infinitely more selfish.

 

Exactly. I would have thought that was self evident given the topic.

 

I don't know how you can say that's a "nonsensical double standard." I certainly never said anything that would make it so. I don't speak for anyone on this site but myself, nor would I allow anyone else to speak for me.

As I believe you said earlier, everyone is different. In my wife's and my relationship it is known, accepted, and expected that her pleasure is paramount. I am the first to say that she is and always has been selfish in bed, but that fits entirely within our dynamic. She can have whatever sexual pleasure she wants, whether it involves me or another person or her toys or whatever. Meanwhile, I am denied almost all physical sexual pleasure, especially at her hands. I am not allowed to put my penis in her vagina, her anus, or her mouth. I am occasionally graced with the touch of her hand, but it is usually to tease me while I am in chastity, or it is rubbing me through my panties while humiliating me and with the intent that I will cum very quickly into my pretty panties so that she can humiliate me even more.

And that may sound like a horrible thing to you, and it may seem at odds with what some other person(s) on this site has said, and I frankly do not care, because my wife and I love each other very much, and this is what works for us.

 

Cool, but this is a thread about hot things key holders say, not about perceived double standards.

 

It's also not a thread for you to lecture people on site etiquette.

Someone posted something.
I responded.
You posted after either not reading or understanding my comment comment which stipulated that if he's ok with, that's what matters in his relationship and said the same thing.
I elaborated.

This is a forum. Comments create discussion that might not 100% be related to the topic at hand. That's how things work.

 

Listen, I'm not going to go back and forth with you about this, especially with your ever increasing hostility.

In your eyes maybe your original comment was about hot things she said to him but the judgemental tone of it was dripping and I'm not the only one who saw it. So settle down and move on.

 

Wow you both look like you have been members here long enough to have this thing all figured out , too bad Unlucky is just that ....

 

This morning I was sitting on the toilet and drying things off and got to thinking about how long it has been since I last stood up to do my business.
So I of course had to text @MrsBR_Saiph with my concern,
"If you keep me caged long enough, I'm going to forget what it's like to pee like an alpha would."

Her immediate reply,
"You don't need to remember you are not an alpha"

Even though I was only musing, the Mrs never misses an opportunity.

 

I've been down and grumpy because having a wife that doesn't desire sex of any sort really sucks. She left the key out the other day for me which was nice to exercise my cock but I still haven't cum without her for about 4 months. This next morning I woke up very horny and decided I was gonna just cum so I got up early and put the key on my chest of drawers. My wife literally doesn't really think about sexual stuff so I was pretty sure the key was out of her mind. When she got home from work, she says...

'' Awe, you were very grumpy yesterday and this morning. I imaging that you're even more grumpy because you were missing something, weren't you?''

She smiles cutely, grabs my crotch and walks away. Yup, she took the key from my chest of drawers.

 

Saturday night. Sir and Ms Val were having anal sex. I was facing the corner listening and straining in my cage. When they were finished Ms Val told me to go get a straw like a good little felcher. Because Sir came a lot deep in her ass .
She told me to stick the straw in and suck all the cum out of her ass.
She said maybe we should change your name from Rachel to felcher. Now suck harder, bitch

 

I see this member is banned, however I post this for those who agree with him.

Why are you on this site if you think this is unfair? If you feel there is a 'double standard ' here, you're absolutely right. Because the majority men here have chosen to submit to their wives, who make the rules. So the women can do things the men can't, because they agreed to.

That's nothing to whinge about, unless being a submissive is not for you.

 

After 13 days of denial my wife let me cum on Tuesday night. Yesterday, before she left for work, she left a recipe on the counter for me to make for dinner and reminded me that it's back to "business as usual".

She said "In fact, you'll have to start working even harder to earn your next one".

 

My wife and I were texting earlier (we're both still working) and she said:

"I can't wait to come home to you. When we're in bed tonight I want to look at all the pictures and videos I took of you this past weekend."

(She takes them with MY phone and I have to wait for permission to look at them.)

 

So I had to remove my cage a couple of days ago to let some friction sores heal. I spoke to my KH on the phone last night and told her. She said I had done the right thing but before we said good night she said

" Now, even though you did exactly what I would have wanted you to do you should have called me at the time. With that in mind I have added extra time. I wont tell you how long but it is a significant period of time which reflects how serious I consider this "

Very fair I thought

 

My wife: "Tonight, you're going to make dinner then we're going to relax on the couch and watch tv. Well, I'm going to relax on the couch....you're going to sit on the floor next to me."

I'll be naked except for my collar and leash - which she will hold onto firmly and tug randomly. This will be our second time doing this - I had no idea she liked it so much.

 

Oh no it all about me, I got what I wanted so u can now be locked up again

 

My was having a go at me for not doing enough to please her around a house. I try my best; but she can be relentless. I was on my knees apologizing to her and she called me a useless bitch

 

Me: Do you find things better since I've been locked in this cage?
Wife: No.
Me: Okay. Should we go back to not using the cage?
Wife: No.

 

"Show it to me" I do and she inspects the locked Jail Bird.

"You know, I think I'll let you out." She still inspects it.

"If you don't try and get hard thinking about..." she proceeds to come up with some random trigger from my list of excitements. I hear it and try to clear my mind.

"Better think about something else if you want to be let out... of course [blank] is really hot to think about isn't it."
"Uhhhm.... no...?" I try to keep the images at bay.

"Ut-oh, you seem to get all hot and bothered about that. Too bad!" She quickly sends me away or gives a task.

 

Nice!

 

I'd already told Miss Sandy just how much I hate the soft cheap pink cage I'm now wearing. We spoke last night for the first time since I received my new Holy Trainer small. I've already learnt not act without permission so hadn't changed. I asked to swap but she said....... " I know how much you hate that one, keep it on until i tell you but leave the superior HT visible so as you can long for that which i wont allow you "

 

(Mrs Edge has kept me locked and denied since March of 2018. We have settled into a twice a week lovemaking routine, usually a midweek evening, and a weekend morning, with me wearing my Vixskin strapon. That's when our conversations usually happen).

Last weekend, in between lovemaking and some sexy conversation, I mentioned how hot it was the very first time that she kept me locked for my birthday and kept going. She said that she had briefly thought about unlocking me at the time, but then forgot about it. She had also thought about unlocking me for Christmas or New Year (at least during the first year, not this past year), but eventually just decided against it, since things were going so well.

And then she said something to the effect of:

"I decided that I'm not planning on unlocking you again; it's permanent now."

 

So all is as it should be in the Allen household! Sounds like the Chaste situation as well! Just the thought makes me swell!

 

During piv last night “Beg me not to let you cum” she then proceeded to ask me if I would like an orgasm.

 

Yes, we're managing during the lockdowns.

She also used the "P" word for the first time. I'm not crazy about how the word gets misused in these forums anyhow, and we've never really used it at home. I think that MRs Edge may have needed some time, herself, to become comfortable with the idea, and to be assured that I was okay with it.

We'll see as we go along, I guess.