About Deleting Your Account

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  1. Byrdie
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    Not going to happen.

    Seriously. You can’t delete your account here, and neither can the administrators of Chastity Mansion. Why not?


    If you think this is coming out of nowhere, you may want to review the ToU (Terms of Use) you agreed to when you made your account:

    We reserve the rights to remove or modify any Content submitted for any reason without explanation. Requests for Content to be removed or modified will be undertaken only at our discretion. We reserve the right to take action against any account on www.chastitymansion.com at any time.

    You are by uploading/posting granting us with a non-exclusive license to publish your written/uploaded Content on the website www.chastitymansion.com, and only on this website! You retain copyright over the Content.

    These terms may be changed at any time with proper notice in the Announcement section:

    https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?forums/site-announcements-and-information.21/



    So. It’s been swell, but the swelling has gone down and you’re done with Chastity Mansion?

    Don’t post a thread requesting that your account be deleted. There are numerous examples of these being treated as non-priority issues:


    Here’s what you can do:

    if there’s anyone with whom you want to continue a conversation off of Chastity Mansion, let them know in direct messages that you’re leaving the site and give them your contact information elsewhere.

    • change your contact preferences so that you don’t get alerts from the site anymore (also remember to remove any links to any other sites). If you can’t remove your email address, change it to one that you pretty much never check
    • change your password to something you won’t remember, such as to a combination of words that you always misspell - look them up, type them in correctly - plus, I dunno, the date that you joined Chastity mansion or something.
    • logout

    As of this writing, Chastity Mansion does not accept donations from users or have a subscription service, so there should be nothing showing up on your financial statements.

    As you won’t be hearing from Chastity Mansion anymore, you’ve effectively deleted your account and the admins can get around to doing the switchover whenever they have time - as it's now on their radar.

    Farewell, and good luck!
     
  2. Billus
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    You forgot:

    Bend over and kiss your ass goodbye, because nobody here will bother to do it for you.
     
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    Actually, that's not true. Again, as I quoted in the original post - this time, emphasis mine:

     
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    My point was in keeping with someone taking the steps you outlined in your post, not in cases where Lucy has to go to the bother of removing someone. But even then she's not kissing ass, unless a bootprint counts.
     
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    Lucy said "It's not possible to do a total deletion of posts as it would have a knock on effect to threads and some wouldn't make any sense, also any thread you started would be wiped from the site, along with all the replies from other people".

    It's certainly possible. Lucy has actually decided that it's not desirable. Which is her right.
     
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    Huh. I'm a fairly literal person. I misunderstood your previous comment, and it took me three read-throughs to get a possible handle on this one.

    If I'm understanding this correctly, you're saying that I didn't actually leave anything out so much as I didn't add a snide statement - and you were using the suggestion that I'd forgotten it as an excuse to post it as a comment.

    If so, still incorrect: I didn't forget it. I've pointed out through multiple examples that someone expecting instant service through a flounce post wasn't going to have the situation they were seeking. I didn't see a need to be crass on top of proof, is all. The fact that you did is a difference of style, not an act of forgetfulness on my part.

    If not, I'm going to consider this a serious communications failure, rather than a moderate challenge.
     
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    I think you're taking my comment too literally and too critically. All I was attempting to say was that if someone is stomping their foot demanding attention (in this case, to be deleted), they should not expect a site admin to come rushing along to assist, or plead that they stay. Instead, follow your excellent advice to self-delete and go already. They won't be missed. I certainly wasn't disagreeing or challenging your original comment; rather just adding that nobody will care (about them).
     
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    As long as you’re taking written responsibility for your commented opinions on my posts as an addendum you’re adding (“I’d like to add”, “Also”, “In other words”) rather than masking them as a claim that my own post failed some way (”You forgot”), that’s fine.
     
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    That's exactly what I meant. "You forgot" was more of a device used to convey to any whiny person wishing to delete their account that they're not that important. I could have used "In addition", "Also" or some other phrase instead. It wasn't a slam on your original post at all. No insult intended.
     
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    Oh, dear me.
     
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    Can't imagine why anyone would want too delete their account
    Must b a Richard noggin
     
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    please what is a Richard noggin.
     
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    ooooh. thank You very much Miss for telling me.
     
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    I will say, not that it matters, this is the only forum I have ever been a part of that you cannot delete your account. I don’t participate in many though.
     
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    It's the same on She Makes the Rules, which also uses XenForo software.
     
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    Yes it's the same on any forum that uses the same software. Nothing I can do about it.
     
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    Quite a lot of the specialist forums (mostly about cars) that I am on are the same. All you can do is wait for a periodic purge of inactive accounts.
     
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    Interesting, I was on several car forums in the past for work. Never came across one you couldn’t delete.

    Obviously not an issue for me as I have no desire to delete my account.
     
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    Seriously? I can't delete my account here?!? Un-fucking-believable.

    Fine, all content goes away, and the amateur-hour owners can do whatever the fuck they like with what remains. I'm out.
     
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    Wow, a mega flounce.

    Being referred to as an amateur is not an insult, it's an amateur site, not a business.
     
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    Why the abuse towards the forum owner?
     
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    #23 Deleted member 115477, Nov 24, 2023
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    Actually... This site is available in the EU, and as such must comply with EU laws, and those laws say that a user has the right to delete an account. If you don't comply with those laws, and if you don't make your website unavailable in the EU, then you can face hefty fines. Doesn't matter if you're a business or amateur, doesn't matter what you put in the so-called user agreement, a user agreement which doesn't comply with laws are invalid.
     
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    wow !!!!
    Member since today, and directly one of the top 10 Troll Posts of probably all times
    Congrats to that….
     
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    All someone has to do is ask for their account to be deleted and it will be deleted straight away.
     
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