My wife and I use chastity to spice up our sex life, its both a game and a lifestyle. Sadly, we need to take a break due to some unseen and unfortunate issues impacting both of us. I have been locked up since Fat Tuesday and was scheduled for release at a party starting on Easter Eve and lasting until 2AM on Easter. After Midnight, me and another husband were to be released after a night where the ladies had a fun evening planned with a few other couples. When the lock down started and isolation became the norm, everything was cancelled. My wife decided we would extend my complete locking until things returned to normal and went as far as putting red loctite into the padlock. Over the last 2 weeks, we have both experienced higher blood pressure and that is even with me on blood pressure medication. My medication has impacted my ability to maintain erections and using chastity and Viagra has improved our sex live. Those things, plus my wife's ability to foster a lifestyle in our playroom with one of her female lovers does keep things very interesting. This past weekend, I suffered thru 2 separate panic attacks and a rise in blood pressure that was a concern to the healthcare specialist we contacted. We are like millions of others going thru the same period of uncertainty and now experiencing the same challenges. In addition to a newer prescription, we decided to cut the lock off and take a break from full time chastity until things settle down for us. Trust me, we are in a far better position than most of the people out in the real world, We are taking long walks in the state forest and just relaxing without adding stress to an already complex world. Yesterday, we spent the day cleaning out the garage and both of us spelt like babies last night, the first time in 2 weeks. If everything continues to stabilize with both of us, she plans to treat me to an interesting Saturday and Sunday. First, we plan on cleaning out the attic tomorrow and Thursday, today is planned on rearranging our supplies. We consider ourselves lucky, a panic attack is nothing in the grand scheme of things. In the meantime, I will keep reading posts and adding my two cents here and there while I take a reset. Good luck to all and we all will get thru this.
These are very challenging times and it is perfectly reasonable to take a break. The first week of isolation we did no chastity. We talked about it and my wonderful KH has kept me locked the most ever. But it is because it is allowing me to deal with what is going on better and focus my thoughts on her when life seems like it is spinning out of control. If that changes we would focus on what we need as a couple. Chastity is only a tool to keep us together at this point . Keep safe and stay healthy
I can totally relate to your health concerns. I am a survivor of a "widowmaker" heat attack in "08. I also experienced two panic attacks recently and was hospitalized this past weekend. Take care and best wishes that your new meds help out.
All the best to you both, panic attacks are horrible, and only some one that has actually suffered one can understand! You say I’m having a panic attack to a non sufferer and they can be quite glib about it, my last panic attack lasted for several hours and I thought I was having a heart attack!