80 mm ring measurement? I must have been doing something wrong...

Hello everyone,

Sorry for the kinda long post, butthis situation is going on since a while and I think it's better to already give you all the information possible, so that you can help me better, if you wish to.

I know the question is silly, but I'm finding a lot of issues trying to find an appropriate ring measurement.

I played with cages in the last 8 months, and until now I tried 3 different ones (they're all chinese cheap Amazon knock offs).

The first two are stainless steel cages and came with two different rings, one sized 40 mm and the other 45. Apart from the possible discomfort related with the lenght of the cage and the gap, I find the 40 mm ring sort of easy to fit but absolutely unbearable after 40 mins of wearing (I don't really understand the kind of pain I get, but it's a generic burning all around the base my scrotum), while the one with 45 mm is ok to be worn for some days (I think I managed to arrive to 6 days of consecutive wearing, and a bit more with brief pauses every now and then). Still, after 7-10 days, I was sore enough that I had to remove it for some days in order to heal.

I have now purchased a plastic device with oval-ish rings, and I can't really stand the 40/45 mm rings, but only the 50 mm one. And even with that, I can't really wear it without loads of lotion or oil, and only for a day or so.

Now, even thinking that I just have to get a bigger one, the main issues are:

- even with the 45 mm one the ring moves around already quite a lot, with the 50 one being even worse, plus they both feel very non-secure from an escape-proof perspective;

- when I try to measure with the methods I found online, the results are very weird. Even after multiple trials with different methods, I get results as high as 80 mm of diameter. Trust me, even if anyone would be THAT big, for sure I'm not.

What can I do to solve this situation? I'm quite desperate and in need for any kind of advice.

Thanks a lot for you answers in advance and sorry for the broken english (I'm not mother tongue).

 

Thanks for the tip. Which kind of photo would you need? The devices' ones? Because right now I only have one at my place (me and my girlfriend are quarantined separetely and she has the other two).
About the shapes, can you help me understand a bit better? Until now I tried the classical round shape and one which is sort of oval. What should I try still? Thanks for your answer in advance!

 

Yeah, I played around with rings before, but I think I could wear rings that alone were just fine, while the same ones, adding the cage to them, became problematic as I described in the post.