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    Hi guys,
    I`m in a desperate situation right now. I moved in Italy 5 years ago and on 20th January I went home in Romania to visit my parents and friends. I locked myself in my metal chastity cage in the morning and headed on home by car. I wanted to stay for 2 weeks and break my chastity record of 1 week. The problem is I left all the keys in Italy and since then I couldn`t go back since Italy closed borders because of coronavirus and I don`t have my citizenship yet. I don`t know what to do anymore since we are since today on full quarantine not allowed out of the house and there is nothing to do in house anymore to keep my mind off it. I`m a newbie in anal play and can`t really do any because my parents are home permanently in this period.
    Do you have any ideas how to get my dicklet frustration off my mind ? I`m on the edge of loosing it.
     
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    Catso!!
    I guess not much to suggest other than enjoy your time locked! Think of it as a journey :)
     
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    What an adventure! I am sure this is an awkward situation, but think about making a new record!!

    A record that you really earned :D
     
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    If you don't have the key, the only thing you can do is try to break out or pick the lock.
     
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    What cage is it?
     
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    Just wait until you have a wet dream! Or other option may be to look at some erotic porn video!
    I have not cracked the two weeks yet myself I’m on day 10 and it is getting harder (yes that too)...
    An Anal butt plug may help, nobody knows you have one inserted... !
     
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    I can imagine it's somewhat of a scary experience for you, not knowing when you'll be able to get the keys.
    It's something you normally just read in the fiction section, it's a dream come true ;)
     
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    Hi guys,
    Thanks for the replies but I try not to think about it, I try to watch movies with nothing sexy in them like horror or thrillers. It is a metal cage ( https://lockthecock.com/collections...inless-steel-black-cock-bondage-chastity-cage ) and it restrains it good. It hurts a lot especially in the mornings, my balls are almost exploding. Anal play is kinda fun, I try a little in the bath tub with the end of hairbrushes and I wear for about 2-3 hours a day my buttplug but it doesn`t get me off, it gets me hornier. Altough I assume an anal orgasm (hardly achievable at this point of newbieness) it would make my dick ache even more. It`s a hell of a journey I can tell you that much. Seems like it`s getting more crazy everyday right now with military roaming the streets. So there is nothing I can do and my educated guess tells me I would remain like this till May.
    I might try and break the lock by then because i`m frustrated like hell right now and I had to give up sex with 2 very hot women by now :(
    The good thing is I can run my business from here.
     
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    I have the same cage. I know from experience that I can’t escape without breaking the lock. What I will say is it’ll get easier over time. I’m now at the point where I can sleep with that cage and I can wear it for a week at a time. Good luck
     
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    It shouldn't be too hard to cut the lock off. Good luck.
     
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    So did you cut the lock, or have you managed to return to Italy, or are you still wearing the cage?
     
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    That cage looks like one I wore years ago. I still have it, but it's completely disused.

    The base ring is too small as a start, and the horizontal bars in the cage can pressure on the nerves in the member. It is also too long for me.

    I'd thorough recommend checking for any signs of nerve damage whilst wearing this device. Your situation sounds enviable. But at the same time, i would hate to have this device on. You're better off going custom.

    Edit: A padlock can be replaced for a pittance. All you need is a pair of bolt cutters or similar. Bail yourself out if you want to. If you don't, then let them enjoy their confinement.
     
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    It’s not hard for me to cum inside chastity. Just watch some porn and try to masturbate. It won’t be easy, it might take while but it’s not that hard tough. Or try to pull out, you can pull out your Penis and cum. I assume you don’t have piercing

    However, it would be good experience if you stand :). If you are so desperate, do it
     
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    #14 SPARTANAL, Aug 19, 2020
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    Hi guys!
    So I decided to come back here and tell you what ended up happening because frankly I`ve forgotten about this post in that time.
    Last I posted here was at the end of March. At the time it was getting me crazy not being able to jerk off and being locked for such a long time without much time prior. But the hornier I got my lock-up fantasies came stronger, but let me be clear on that...Chastity for me it`s not as much as a fantasy or a desire, it`s a punishment that I think I deserve for having a smallish dick and various reasons I hate myself for in life (not gonna go into my psych details here), but taking away my pleasure of masturbation is worse than taking away my race car...mainly because I can get another one of those, it`s replaceable.
    So I started watching more femdom POV videos and try to ride this thing and see were my breaking point is, the cage was not painfull in itself but a bit of discomfort for it not being perfectly fitted it was.
    I checked my bank account and decided to move back to Romania, sold the company I had in Italy and started creating a better variant of it in Ro and bought my own house here...this went very fast, like in about 2 weeks everything was done, too fast and easy to be honest. During this move in the day I was very busy, even late at night,but when I said that`s it with work for the day I could not ignore my dick throbbing and the balls feeling like they were about to explode so it was pretty hard to argue with myself about cutting the lock and treated the dick like a friend that I hate but I have to talk to him, if that makes sens o_O By the end of April I was moved and all alone in my house not being afraid of anything and started toying with anal bit by bit. Anal play was very hard mainly because of my mental state, in my head I wanted the biggest one and pain (nothing extreme) and I knew I had to start small and short amount of times because of me still being a rookie...The thing about small plugs is that they are pretty easy to wear for a couple of hours and really easy to insert wich was not that satisfying at the moment.
    I was now starting to get worried because I wanted to cum or to be milked so that I do not create permanent damage to my body. I could not achieve analgasm or milking myself anally because anal itself was hard. Vibrators on the cage did not help, I held one for 6 hours in various positions and only let out a lot of precum.
    In may on my birthday I decided to cut the lock and give myself a nice jerk but this is the funny part...After I cut the lock I had remorse for jerking and I stopped almost on the edge, I didn`t want to ruin the progress I`ve done punishing my dick so I ordered another cage, this time a little bit smaller so I don`t have no place for growing in in at all and decided to go with this one https://lockthecock.com/collections...-silver-adjustable-penis-cage-chastity-device (also a one with full inside spikes had my interest but it would have been to much for long time play, that is maybe for a weekend tops) - The caged arrived in 2 days, time in wich it was really hard to control myself and had to keep myself busy working or driving around, 1st night I went sleepless.
    The second cage is very comfortable to wear, the spikes I only use when I`m home, never when I`m out. The spikes in the cage hurt like hell when my dick tries to get hard in the cage, although I am not a big fan of pain, It`s mentally arousing knowing my dick is in pain.
    Since I got the new cage on and being in my own house I started playing anal and chastity Faproulette/Fapioh and doing what I could, I am not big on feminization, only thong/g-string so the plug stays in.
    Quick tip : When the throbbing of my dick gets too much I put some icy hot or some tooth paste on it so the pain gets my mind of cumming.
    During the summer I went to a few mistress sessions as a beginner and some of them were really good, I went already caged and plugged without the keys to the cage. One of them introduced me to forced bi so I got to suck a few dicks in about 5 sessions (ended not having to pay for the sessions) - I`m not gay but she kinda made me want to do it on the spot saying she can make me cum...somehow, and she trained me into anal and cum eating.
    Anyway I`m now at this moment able to play with my ass pretty good, at the point where I can fit Ok sized dildos and buttplugs in. I am able to go almost 24hrs with 3cm diameter metal plug in my ass (with expensive lube). And I play fap games almost daily, even CAME from anal and vibrating play 2 times, maaaan it was so much cum, but it was painful. Cumming in a cage is pretty painful, but worth it.
    As for the chastity, I want to think of it as permanent because I`m not taking it off as long as I am alone, only if there will be an emergency of some sort.
    I still want a family and all that, but until I find someone, this is my kink. I will not bring this up during family dinner or something, I live it now for an unknown period of time wich makes it more exciting (lock up time undefined).

    L.E.: The best part of being in Chastity is that you focus on other stuff during the day and makes you more productive. I`ve bought my dream car in June, meanwhile in January this year it seemed at least 4 years away.
     
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    Wall of text. Did not read.

    Seriously, paragraphs are more friendly.
     
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    You may have to click to see the entire thing, but I added an extra line where a paragraph break seemed intended.

     
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    So you want all others to read that you are too lazy to read?
     
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    I was just pointing out to him that if he wants people to read his postings, formatting matters. Why are you arguing with me about it?
     
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    Because nobody is interested in you not reading a message. And no, formatting does not matter. Content is what matters.

    While this forum lacks an age check, long paragraphs are a smart substitute. Children can't read them, while adults can.
     
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    Ah, you are going to go that way. Welcome to my ignore list.
     
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    I'm sorry to say that at least in the case of Burg Wachter-style locks, picking the lock is depressingly easy. I wasn't able to do it with a condom wrapper, but a lockpick made very short work of it, and it was the first lock I picked apart from the acrylic teaching lock that came with my lockpick set.
     
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