Hello everyone Super new to this. Bought a cheap cage from the lions den last week. Wore it most of last week holding my own keys. Enjoyed it quite a bit. Stopped by a store on my way home and bought a metal cage. It’s crazy way more restrictive!! I’ve been reading quite a bit on the forum about how I could tell my wife. When I got home from my trip yesterday after a week in lockup I told her how horny I was. I told her that when I’m away on trips I masturbated quite often. She said she was also horny and had been masturbating this week. I told her that I was so horny because I tried something new while I was on the road. I was nervous but told her that I bought a chastity cage. When I told her I put myself into the chastity cage she had no idea what I was talking about and had to google it. When she read what it was she wanted to see mine. When I took off my pants she was shocked and felt bad. Said it looked painful. I told her it wasn’t painful but was hard not masturbating for a week. I asked her if she wanted to keep my keys. She said she was concerned she might lose them but excitedly said yes. I had to leave to take my son to the mall. When I got home she rushed us upstairs. She was super turned on and asked if she could unlock me. I told her that it was her decision which turned her on more. We made out and touched each other all over. Finally I showed her how to unlock it. It was some of the best sex we’ve had in our 20 years together and we both had massive orgasams in about 2 minutes. She let me stay unlocked that evening. Later that evening we were watching tv with the kids and sent each other sexy texts all evening. Wow!! She called me a kinky mother fucker about 4 times that evening. Excited to see how this plays out moving forward!
Welkome Davidb and thanks for sharing your experiences. P.s. You’re a lucky guy with such a great lady at your side!
Welcome to our community. It's clear you already enjoy being part of it. Sounds like you are off to a wonderful start to with using chastity. Hope it continues to excite you and your wife.
Hopefully you have let the genie out of the bottle! Being locked 24/7 for weeks or months at a time is great! The "key to me" is safely stored away in a key safe securely fixed to wall in the back of our walk in wardrobe. Needless to say I have no idea what the combination is! It has not been opened since the start of October! If you're lucky you could end up in this very situation! Enjoy!