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  1. johnjames55
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    Excuse me but I'm not sure where to post this question, but does anyone know why Goddess Lucy is no longer posting on Fetlife?
     
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    Probably isn't conducive to what she want's or needs.

    There's only so many dick pics you get sent before you get sick of them.
     
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    She said she is taking a break. I did not see a reason why posted.
     
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    Thanks, I enjoy her photos and musings there.
     
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    Lucy occasionally takes a break from Fetlife. She puts up with a lot.














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    Fetlife can get very tiresome. I imagine everyone that uses it would need a break every now and again. Or frequently...
     
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    Have you thought about actually asking me instead of making a public post asking everyone else?
     
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    Wise advice. If you ever have a question of a person, best ask it quietly, politely, respectfully and in private.

    I know old-fashioned manners seem out of favour nowadays, but there are goo reasons they evolved!
     
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    I think Goddess Lucy gives a lot, probably much more than she receives. I can't think of anyone more entitled to a break.
     
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    I totally agree old fashion manners are the best to use for anyone. I would never dream of asking anyone a question like that, especially not a Goddess, or my own Mistress.
    Personally find a lot of time wasters on Fetlife.
     
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    totally agree with both of you! Manners matter!
     
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    You all are fully right. i am just confused.
     
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    FetLife can be a cesspool at times, we all need to occasionally take a beak and thoroughly detox ourselves.
     
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    How do you consider it a cesspool?
     
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    Never been there myself! Not missed much by the sounds of it! CM is such a friendly and refined place as a rule!
     
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    Life sometimes gets in the way.
     
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    Not matter what you choose to do, thank you for being you L-U-C-Y. Thank you for being a leader in social/gender dynamics, for being a great advocate in the concept of Female led relationships, for pushing it out of the fetish shadows and in to main stream life. :)
     
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    Every time I am on Fetlife as a guy (!!!), I can't imagine the amount of shit women have to deal with. I mean, even I get some very random messages from horny guys who don't see I am male or even worse, some "Findommes" insulting me as a paypig, loser and scum via PM just to make me submit to them (does this work on anyone? Just randomly getting insulted and told to tribute some weird trailer trash woman?).

    That's what I like about this place, looks like the weirdo filter is working ;)
     
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    I'm seeing more and more women attacking men on fetlife now. Men are pretty annoying! but these attacks are going too far.
     
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    Yes, I have noticed the attacks going on in all directions. Fetlife has turned into a very PC kind of place.

    Of course, that does not include the obnoxious messages that you receive. Those have no place, no matter what.
     
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    I wasn’t fond of her when she first took over. But I gave her a fair chance. Getting to know her, my respect and admiration has grown and grown. She may not be everyone’s favorite person. She may not be someone you agree with, but she deserves tons of respect.

    That said, getting to know her some. She’s also a nice person and has a huge heart. She also knows what she wants and likes and is t afraid to make that known.

    So I’m not sure what else to say except that I’m glad this site is in good hands and I hope that if/when she moves on that she takes time and finds someone who has as much passion and determination to keep improving the site.
     
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    This is beginning to sound like an obituary :)
     
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